Leo Gura

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  1. @Vrubel It's not about acting disinterested, it's about being disinterested. If you had 3 other girlfriends, you would not have felt disrespected by that girl. Because you would have been too busy to even notice what nonsense she texted you. You would have replied to her "K" a few days late. And she would have felt like you are a valuable guy. Instead you communicated to her that you are a desperate and lonely guy who needs her more than she needs you. This stuff is extremely counter-intuitive. It will drive you crazy until you finally figure it out. Detachment is a core principle of game. The lesson goes very deep.
  2. @at_anchor Write out a plan and slowly start taking baby steps towards it every day. This will make you feel optimisitic and hopeful immediately. Be patient. It will take time to ultimately break free. But just working towards it will give you great purpose and motivation. You don't need to be free to start feeling better. The worst feeling is when you have no plan and nothing to work towards.
  3. Of course it does. But don't take that to mean it is impossible for you. Just harder. Although in some cases it might be easier. There are so many different kinds of neuro-divergence, it's hard to make sense of them all.
  4. I had a great loving childhood and I certainly had to approach. No one came to me.
  5. I understand God deeper than anyone here. So you'd be wise to listen. The stubborness and closedminded from you guys is truly astounding.
  6. Truth. But game is hard. Whining on a forum is much easier.
  7. This was your fault. You got too invested and took her too seriously. Instead you should have treated her like you didn't care. And then she would have gone on another date with you, slept with you, and then everything would have flipped around and she would have started to fall in love with you. But because you were over-invested you spooked her off with your neediness and you even made yourself feel disrespected. The mistake was that you got so invested in her that you wanted respect from her. This is a very sneaky and subtle problem in your game which you can fix if you take responsibility for it. I used to have this problem a lot. Until I realized what was really happening, how I was creating it.
  8. You will not understand God by realizing that water is wet. That is not serious God-Realization. That's just ratty nonduality.
  9. Some of it is stuff I've talked about in the videos but which hasn't been grasped at enough depth. But also I am sharing new insights here on the forum. You are right that I have not explained it in depth yet. I use this forum to throw out brand new insights before I fully develop them, since that takes time. So you have a point. But also, I was speaking to a growing attitude I see on this forum of people acting like they have figured out all of Consciousness and have nothing more to learn. The ones who consider themselves enlightened are especially guilty of this. This is a deep self-deception. Which I have warned about for a long time. No one here has mastered Consciousness. Not even close. Consciousness has many tricks up its sleeve in store for you. I am dropping hints about what some of them are.
  10. You need to learn that girls have no investment in you until after sex. She is not going to care about you until after sex. The issue is, you are invested in her and she is not invested in you. Girls are not thinking about you, they are lost in their busy little lives, like rats, until after they sleep with you. Then everything flips. Your only problem is over-investment. Stop expecting respect from women until after sex.
  11. The bottom line is that people are not thinking, they are just juggling trendy ideas that they heard and which suit their biases and selfishness.
  12. Sit and reflect. Be patient.
  13. I am pointing to advanced things beyond what you are talking about. You guys still have not understood that what I am teaching no one here understands. You tell yourselves you understand me, but you don't. You people are stubborn like mules, no matter how enlightened you tell yourselves you are.
  14. The mistake you're making is that just because you're using concepts or thoughts or language to aid your understanding does not negate or undermine the understand nor it potential absoluteness. You can use a ladder to climb on a rooftop, and that does not negate the fact that you've got a view now from the roof. This is a critical mistake that nondualists and Buddhists make. They are not intelligent enough to understand that you can use relative mental constructs to achieve Absolute Understandings. If you become conscious enough, your mind will itself become Absolute and you will be able to grasp all parts of yourself with perfect clarity.
  15. Do not spread misinformation on this forum. This is the second time today I see you doing it.
  16. Nothing surprising about it. The one common thread between all those things is profound group-think and self-bias.
  17. @Reignforest You are engaging in nonsense.
  18. What have you been smoking? No society has ever been even close to Turquoise and won't be for 100s of more years.
  19. I don't know enough about him to say. He certainly played Trump for a fool and the North Koreans are very clever with their nuclear strategy.
  20. That's like saying a fish is primarily attracted to a lure.