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I'm not. Because I already went through that. I spent 2 decades building my life. Many of you guys haven't. If you are 18, you need to spend at least 10 years grinding to build up a decent life. But realistically more like 20 years.

Stop comparing yourself to others. They are not you. If your looks are really good or you are highly extroverted then getting girls is much much easier. You have to work with the cards you've been dealt. You just have to accept that some guys will get girls way easier than you, and such guys will never understand your struggles. So don't listen to them.

Because you are taking massive action and facing your fears. This creates an upward spiral of momentum.

Stop thinking about it, stop worrying about it, and just commit to going out and approaching people. Their reactions are irrelevant. There is no mental trick here. The only trick is to force yourself to go out and approach every week, whether you want to or not. If you try to be too clever here, you will end up not taking any action. So the solution is not more thinking, it's action. YOU CANNOT THINK YOUR WAY INTO SKILLS WITH GIRLS. You must go in the field and take the blows. All the shit that will arise, you will deal with as it arises. Pickup requires courage.

@Asia P You must be careful not to turn spirituality into a bypass or form of escape from managing your survival and life. If you struggle to get dressed, what good is your spirituality? Spirituality is good, but at your age you need to put a lot of time and energy into just mastering survival. Build a decent life for yourself. Don't just sit around hoping that your life will get great all by itself. It won't. You have to put work into it. Be careful about neglecting core areas of your life like family, relationships, career, building skills, sex, friendship, finances, diet, fitness, health, etc. You have to invest energy into all these in addition to whatever spiritual work you do. It's very hard to be happy if you neglect all those areas and only do spirituality. You can get yourself trapped that way.

Roger Love is considered one of the top vocal coaches in the world. He works with everyone in Hollywood. He offers 1-on-1 coaching or has cheaper online training programs like this one: https://theperfectvoice.com I've taken some of his courses. They offer exercises you can do in the shower every day to train up your voice. The exercises are worth doing. One of the best ways to train your voice is with singing. You can take singing lessons if you wanna get serious about it. Or just practice singing on your own. Basically, singing IS the ultimate vocal training exercise.

@Rishabh R Just the discipline you will need to go out every weekend for 2 years straight will grow hair on your balls. And much more will come along the way. For example, most of guys have zero sense of humor. You don't know how to crack to hilarious joke. That will take you 2 years to learn.

The video that started this thread.

That's not what I was talking about. What's better than any girl is the skills build at getting girls in general. Focus on building a goldmine, not cherishing a single nugget. Well, just get started. That's part of pickup. You can start going to your local mall and chatting with all the sales clerks. Do that every weekend for 6 months. Or, just start going out to bars on Fri/Sat. There's no reason to wait. You will learn once you're there. It won't ever get easier by waiting. Just get your ass out of the house every Fri/Sat. It's not much different from hitting the gym. It's just habit you do without even thinking about not doing it. You don't need any skill to go out. You don't need any kind of result either. Just go out and approach a few people. That's already a success.

He's a very conscious guy. But I think he also has a lot of weird Hindu beliefs that he picked up as part of his cultural background. There's a lot of spiritual dogma and mythology that gets drilled into one's mind if you hang around yoga retreats and so on. And if you have a proper guru, he will fill your head will all sorts of untested ideas and myths. Just because yoga works doesn't mean it doesn't come with many bad ideas on top of that. In fact, the more it works, the more BS you can add on top of it to fool yourself and others. You can be Awake and still have plenty of bad beliefs. Awakening is not a cure-all for self-deception.

It's not paradoxical. Consciousness has the ability to comprehend itself. All that's required is a bump in your state of consciousness.

You can find Indian sources of Modafinil online if you search around. Just be careful. Some are scams. Don't make large initial purchases.

The female equivalent of pickup is maintaining a social circle. Girls are sponteneously much more social than guys. Becausw that's how they survive.

That could work. But unless you do it hardcore it won't grow you as much as pushing yourself with cold approach will. Cold approach requires you to push yourself so much. Some casual socializing doesn't do that.

The solution is that there's only Consciousness.

A solution for a problem that does not exist. You don't need a special form of DMT or 5-MeO-DMT. DMT is perfectly orally active with 1 pill of harmala extract. And 5-MeO-DMT should just be plugged. These companies are looking to invent patented psychedelics so they can charge $1000s for a single dose. It's the ultimate grift.

There is no substitute to cold approaching and interacting with 1000s of women. This process will grow you in so many ways. You don't even understand what you're missing.

Of course you don't. It requires Awakening. No, it's AWAKENING. What I am tell you requires a very profound comprehension of the nature of reality. It is not an assumption or a theory. It's a direct insight you are lacking. What you're missing is the insight that consciousness is infinite. You're missing Infinity. Once you realize Infinity then you aren't guessing anymore. Infinity is the actual metaphysics of every possible thing. The problem here is that you're not conscious of what consciousnes is. To become conscious of the ultimate nature of consciousness is Awakening.

It's hard to explain that to someone who hasn't seriously tried it.

@IronFoot You are looking at this the wrong way. Learning game is not about chasing for sex. It's about growing yourself into a powerful man and an adventure. The main benefit is not the sex you have but how strong you become.

@AtmanIsBrahman You're not appreciating the depth the problem. The very notion of discrete non-conscious physical objects is dreamed up by Consciousness. You are assuming that objects can exist. Like a rock can just exist. But this is impossible. A rock can only exist inside Consciousness.

If you like Sadhguru then just follow his work. You can't force people to be who they aren't.

Once you develop a lot of experience and skill, you won't need to start from scratch every time. You should plan to invest at least 2-5 years into learning game. Then you will have the skill set. You should also seriously consider moving to a city with a good nightlife and day game opportunities.

Big thanks to those of you here who strive to grow and behave yourselves. I am proud of you. To the others:

Prime Directive is applicable when there is no easy external fix. The Gaza situation is a deeply political, developmental issue which has no easy external fix. Violating the Prime Directive makes most sense in a situation like a pandemic, where a quick vaccine can literally be the cure. But most of the world's political problems don't have such a simple technological solution, therefore the local parties have to resolve it themselves.