Leo Gura

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  1. These are various ways of looking at the situation. God can be seen and understood from various relative angles. God is not a simple thing. It is insanely multi-faceted and multi-dimensional. When you try to linearize it, it acquires distortions. God appears various ways depending on your state of consciousness. But also, my newest descriptions are more accurate than my older ones. My understanding of God has grown enormously over the last 5 years. My understanding is bootstrapping itself. Sorry if this is inconvenient.
  2. Exactly. Which shows that his intuition is as good as a deer in the headlights. Planning proper date logistics is not overthinking. It is necessary. Dates don't plan themselves. These are essential skills to develop.
  3. No! No! No! Too far.
  4. Sure, that's possible. It means you've got a very loose, fluid mind. This means you have a lot of spiritual & mystical potential if you train it up. You got a talent but talent require training. It could also mean you have mental illness. Just depends on how dysfunctional this is for you. I would encourage you to start serious spiritual practice like Kriya yoga or meditation to hone your mystical talent into something serious and beneficial, rather than just silly entertainment.
  5. As close to your house or her house as possible. Your house is better because you can control more of the variables, less surprises. Select a location with multiple locations around, so you can bounce from coffee to park to ice cream, and so on. You want to bounce around between multiple locations. Do not stay in one location for more than 30-60 mins. Keep things light, playful, and moving along. It must feel like an adventure across town. Do not go to a formal sit-down restaurant. Pick more casual and quicker locations so you can freely bounce on. Smaller snacks are better than one large meal in a single place. Outdoor shopping malls and centers are ideal dating locations with many interesting shops. Ideally try to get her to meet you at your place if possible. Then at the end of the night you'll conveniently be at your place without needing to specifically drive there. But if you text her to drive to your place make sure you tell her than you are not going inside your house, you're leaving immediately for the drinks. So she doesn't think you're asking her to meet you inside your house. That would be red flag for her. Have something of interest in your house to invite her to look at, like an interesting book, photo-album, something. This will be your excuse to invite her inside. Have something ready to do inside, like a cartoon to watch, an interesting YouTube video, etc. Have some drinks in your fridge. Maybe have a snack ready. Then again, this girl already clearly wants to sleep with you, so nothing special is required. Just lead properly, don't be weird, and don't be a pussy at the end of the night. You get her on your couch for make-out and more.
  6. That's generally how it works. Each approach builds up state until eventually you stop giving a fuck entirely and you enter a flow state. But you have to rebuild it every night. Still, you can enter state much faster if you consciously enter into play rather than just hoping that many approaches will brute force you into it. And sometimes you may just not be in a playful mood, in which case go home and do something else. The whole point of going out to engage in nightlife is because you want to have fun. Don't overlook something so basic. If you aren't having fun you are missing the whole point. The problem then is that you have a stick up your ass that needs removing. See, you gotta ask the deeper question: Why are you so anti fun? Who hurt you?
  7. Cute. Every one of you who denies God has no idea what God is. Denial of God immediately tells me you are an idiot. Anything you invent to deny God is self-deception.
  8. This: https://www.reddit.com/r/oddlyterrifying/comments/1maohko/this_dead_leaf_that_isnt_quite_a_leaf/ Sweet dreams.
  9. Jay Shetty is such a phony. The epitome of a marketing bullshitter.
  10. What are you conscious that you are? Not ideas you heard, but based on your direct experience. What is Truth? Explain. What is Consciousness? Explain.
  11. You can answer her question, so as not to come off too eager. But don't waste too much time on rapport over text.
  12. @Daniel Balan You must develop high value creative skills along your line of passion. Fear is useless. Build skills to create great things. Robots cannot replace creative skills. Robots will replace mindless labor.
  13. Are you insane? This is the text analog of her spreading her legs open for you. Don't beat around the bush with BS. Text her: "I was thinking about you. Let's grab a drink sometime."
  14. Aubrey Marcus trying to feed radical monogamy to the spiritual community:
  15. @Natasha Tori Maru
  16. I am tired of beating around the bush with you guys.
  17. For a second I read it as Fire and Trash
  18. Why would you take your girlfriend there? It will only make her feel insecure and jealous. Stop thinking with your dick and take her to a proper Cirque show.
  19. Well, she has to be into you. Then you take her for an adventure that accidentally ends up in your bed.
  20. Depends on what you mean by considerate and by you.
  21. @Joshe I'm not saying to do it. I'm explaining how and why it works. IF you want to get laid a lot and easily, live walking distance to the club/bar. Nightlife game is NOT dating. Stop treating it as dating. The woman will only have sex as long as she's in the mood, and her mood will change within minutes. You either close immediately or you will never see her again. This is not a date.
  22. @Natasha Tori Maru Keep in mind we are talking about young immature women. Women at the club are 20-30 years old. They are very immature, inexperienced, irresponsible, foolish, drunk. You are looking at women from a 40 year old spiritual perspective.
  23. No, it does not mean that. But don't call it spirituality and don't fall into the illusion that civilization needs you. It does not. Civilization will do just fine without your fingers in the pie. The ego needs to feel like it is saving the world, because that's just its ploy to save itself from spiritual annihilation.
  24. You haven't even begun serious meditation or yogic practice. You don't even understand the effort required. This is very advanced work. It requires momumental effort. I recommend you do Kriya yoga. But even learning that will require much more effort than you seem ready to give. Without effort there is no God and no liberation. Sorry, but that's just reality. You need to sit down and rethink your priorities and your work ethic. Your priorities are bad and your work ethic is poor.