Leo Gura

Exactly. The key word there is "right". "Right" means of high value. If Tom Cruise gives you attention that's gonna feel "right". If Tom Cruise was blowing up my phone, I would feel good too. No homo.

Of course there's no way around having skill with handling girls. Without that skill you will screw everything up even if a girl jumps into your bed.

Of course dick pics are cringe and rude. It shows a total cluelessness on behalf of the guy about how women work.

Because you have value for a man. Because what you need from a man is very different than what he needs from you. It may sound funny, but for a man just to get noticed is 80% of the challenge of dating. For women, it's the opposite: being noticed means nothing.

The key insight here is this: There was nothing special about Hitler that made him evil. Hitler was just a far right ultra-nationalist, and when nationalism gets taken too far it turns into ethnic cleansing and genocide. It makes no difference what ethnicity or nationality the people are. The problem I see is that many Israelis want to claim a monopoly on being victims of genocide, but genocide is quite a common phenomenon that has nothing to do with your specific ethnic identity. Genocide can happen by any group against any other group, all under the rationale of self-defense. The lesson of the Holocaust should not be learned too narrowly. The lesson of the Holocaust in not that Jews need to be protected at all costs. The lesson is that ethnic cleansing can happen to anyone by anyone if nationalism is allowed to get out of control. When the Holocaust is turned into part of one's identity, it leads to the same problems that any finite identity fixation can lead to. By making the Holocaust part of one's identity it limits the mind's ability to be unbiased and sensitive to the ethnic cleansing that one's own tribe might be participating in. It's the same problem as American Exceptionalism, which is used to justify America's bad behavior abroad. America is not above devilry. Neither is Israel. Devilry is not a rare exception, it is the default condition of mankind.

@Inliytened1 Love you too.

I have girls send me unsolicited pictures of their tits just because I created Actualized.org. That, in a nutshell, is why men need to focus on creating value.

Looks is the biggest form of value in mating. No woman "just" likes a man. She only likes him to the extent that he has value to her. This is why guys talk about value. Because the most important way for a guy to attract girls is to raise his value. Once his value is raised girls flock to him when otherwise they ignored him. And then when he tells the girl that she likes him due to his higher value she will deny it because she has not conscious understanding of why she feels whatever she feels. She doesn't even care to know. She just assumes she likes him for some superficial reasons. Your explaination of how mating works is so superficial it's downright offensive to God's design. As if a living organism can just feel things without it being connected to survival. No! Survival is the only reason you feel anything about anything. Feelings are not cute arbitrary things. Feelings are dead serious. There's no room in feelings for bullshit. Feelings are how animals survive. A woman doesn't even see a low value man. She is blind to such men. That's how serious value is.

But they are part of one holistic issue. Israeli settlers right now are drafting plans to colonize Gaza. Watch the documentaries on my blog.

Feelings are based on value. When you see a 50% sale on your fave food, you feel excited. Because you are getting free value. And so it is when you see a high value man. You just aren't conscious of why you feel what you feel. Contemplate why you don't feel excited to sleep with a pig and you will quickly understand what I'm saying.

Israel has been doing ethnic cleansing for 80 years. You can see it in the documentaries I posted on my blog this week.

Why are you so black & white about this? You are intelligent enough to understand that devilry comes in many degrees. Ethnic cleansing comes in many degrees. Abuse of power comes in many degrees. Corruption comes in many degrees. War crimes come in many degrees. There is an obvious and objective similarity between all ultra-nationalist people. Hitler was ultra-nationalist and so is a portion of the Israel population. Crimes against Palestinians have been done by ultra-nationalist Israelis. There is no denying this. And there's no denying that far-right nationalist ideology has a big influence on Israeli government policy.

Netanyahu may not be genocidal but plenty of his ministers and constituents are. Keep in mind, there are many degrees of genocide. Not all genocide is sending people into gas chambers. That kind of cartoonish blatant level of genocide is impossible today, but subtler, sneakier forms of genocide are still possible -- and we have solid video evidence of some Israelis both calling for it and personally doing it. The entire Israeli government across the board is not genocidal, but some key members of it are.

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That's very simple. The benefit is that a high status powerful man offers so much survival advantage to a woman that even if you divide his power by 5, it will still be more power than 95% of men. Because power is so unevenly distributed in society. Being 1 out of 5 of Bin Laden's wives gives a woman more survival advantage than being 1 wife of 1 homeless Arab man. 20% of a rich man is worth more than 100% of a poor man. For course in western democracies this isn't so important, which is why women in the West don't tend to like such arraignments. When your survival is taken care of by the state, you don't need a man for survival. But this is a very recent invention and still around the world many women aren't so well positioned. A child can throw a baseball without knowing anything about math. But still that ball flies in a mathematical way. When we say that thrown balls are mathematical we don't mean that if you throw a ball you're doing math in your head.

No, for everyone. Of course it doesn't work in such a silly way. It's all unconscious. A woman has no idea why she is attracted, but she is attracted to value. And things which have no value to her she simply ignores without even thinking about it. None of this is calculated logically or even brought into conscious awareness. Women have an intuitive sense of what is under-valued for them and they simply ignore such men. Feelings and emotions are driven by value. Just because you feel something and never think about value doesn't mean value isn't at play. Feelings run women, and women largely have no idea of the logic behind why those feelings exist and what their survival purpose is. Feelings are mostly unconscious survival. And of course a woman is not going to agree to such a cold and calculated explanation of feelings, because in her experience it doesn't feel cold nor calculated.

It's a value game. Status is one type of value.

Why do you assume that your view of security is correct? Quite the bold assumption for someone who has no experience in security.

@Unleash Great share and great work!

In very simple terms, everyone is attracted to the best they can get. Like how everyone is attracted to the lowest price they can find. It's nothing personal. At an auction everyone is trying to pay the lowest price for the best goods, and we'll just have to see who wins what for how much.

Or maybe the problem is that he cares too much.

For a one night lay, maybe. But not for a serious relationship. When you are desperate you will sleep with anyone. But the more you sleep around the higher your standards get.

Netanyahu has gone Beast Mode.

Cheers!

Girls are attracted to the top 20% of men, and men are attracted to the top 20% of girls. The problem is the self-biased way men see this situation.