Leo Gura

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  1. A few highly exception people can transcend chimp drives. But I'm not gonna bank on that when looking for a date. Sexual attraction is not a conscious choice. It is foolish to go into a dating situation expecting that the person you're dealing with is some kind of Buddha/saint. It's must wiser to go into the situation understanding that you and they are both selfish animals. This doesn't preclude a loving relationship. It's actually enables it because it is being honest about the animal forces which arise in relationships. The whole point of my chimp video was to get you to admit that you're a chimp. The problem is that people love to paint stories in their minds of how superior they are to chimps when they really aren't. The entire domain of dating is basically chimps in a zoo. I like being honest and realistic about that, rather than dressing up these chimps with pope hats and pretending they are saints. You are not going to change what makes a chimp want to fuck. Because the desire to fuck and the act of fucking is completely absurd and irrational to begin with. And relationships are equally absurd and irrational.
  2. That's not going to work. You simply are not awake to what Love is, and nothing will help that other than a Love awakening. There is no use in debating or discussing Love with me. You either get it or you don't. Since Love = Truth, all the Zen principles which apply to Truth also apply to Love. The Dao which can be named is not the eternal Dao. It would help if you did a serious dose of psychedelic
  3. There is much I am not yet conscious of. The devil likes to play innocent.
  4. What if I said this: High quality enlightened guys don't like perfectly shaped big tits. They are just too special for that. They are above that. Only scumbag guys like that. Would you believe it?
  5. I'm not sure. I wouldn't try to boil everything down to the Spiral. Just work on those issues independently.
  6. That's cause you're a Green hippie
  7. The only person who can own their own house at 21 yo is a drug dealer.
  8. You are a devil for trying to use my health issues against me. But they are going well!
  9. On my direct consciousness of how healing works. Any psychedelic could be used to heal trauma. Truth and Love are critical for healing. Contemplate: What is healing?
  10. Now realize, there's no such thing a human. Every human is in a unique state of consciousness and there is no boundary between a human consciousness and a kangaroo consciousness. Plenty of humans are total genetic freaks, making them more like aliens than humans. Not sure, but there must be a bell-curve distribution of abilities to consciousness. Some people will sit far out at the fringes, for good and for bad. There exist humans who hallucinate flying monkeys. Male minds are certainly far less empathetic than female minds. My response is irrelevant to your being conscious of Love. How would you know if you don't understand Love? Lol
  11. There is no difference between attracting a chain-smoking club slut vs a virgin enlightened unicorn soul princess. The attraction triggers are all hardwired deep in her brain stem and are the same. That enlightened unicorn soul princess likes to get bent over and fucked just like any other girl. Watch out for the myth of spiritual people somehow being special snowflakes who are above the animal drives. No they aren't. They are horny animals just like everyone else. The girl who pretends that she is special and "not that type of girl" is exactly the type of girl who will sleep with an asshole psychopath at the drop of a dime. Every girl thinks she is "not that type of girl".
  12. Makes no meaningful difference for the purposes of this conversation. You can replace MDMA with 100s of different psychedelics. They all point in the same general direction. You could heal PTSD with 5-MeO-DMT or DMT or mushrooms or whatever.
  13. I highly disagree. There are aliens sitting on a planet somewhere who are enlightened as fuck and their consciousness is nowhere within your narrow band of 4 states. There can literally be millions of different permanent awakened states. And the notion of permanent vs temporary is itself false. There is no such distinction other than in your mind.
  14. How the fuck should I know? I'm not a mind reader. Lol. And why do you think he's so anti-drugs and drinking? Because his father was an alcoholic and all his clients were drag addicts. So he knew how terrible of a trap that was. I didn't say he did drugs. I said he sold them.
  15. @Mert There is enormous depth to each stage. Few people fully master each one. Most people have very lopsided development. And don't forget, it's not just stages. There are also developmental lines! So you have to master both stages and lines! See video: Spiral Dynamics - Important Insights
  16. You say nice words, yet you are still a devil who hasn't fully surrendered to God. Playing words games here will not help you. Surrender fully, or stay a devil. Up to you.
  17. He is wrong. The highest Love is the lack of all distinction. Which is Truth.
  18. It squares up perfectly. Being more feminine is what makes you more dramatic, emotional, playful, and charismatic. But you still need to be confident and assertive. Don't try to act macho. Act feminine and playful. BUT, be confident and assertive as you do so. The ideal man is like a knife coated in honey. It's sweet on the outside but it's made of steel on the inside.
  19. So she's into wealth and status. Yeah. I rest my case.
  20. Existentially, of course those assholes are deeply neurotic and scared egos. But the act is good enough for most girls. Most girls are equally as neurotic as the assholes they get attracted to. Like attracts like. The more screwed up the girl, the more screwed up a guy she will attract, and vice versa. Yes, of course. But also, to be assertive requires being a bit of a dick sometimes. You can be a warm dick Attracting girls is a very specific and narrow skill set. It's like fishing. You need the right bait.
  21. Yes, but the reason I talk about killing is precisely to set proper expectations. Because otherwise conservative types get outraged at a bit of looting or protesting on the streets. They don't realize how tame that is compared to a true bloodbath which would normally be the case. Conservatives and neoliberals get offended by a bit of cancel culture when really, many people at the top deserve to get their balls cut off. Meanwhile people like Jordan Peterson act outraged by a few feminist college kids yelling at them. It's the height of snowflakery. Conservatives manage to get outraged by NFL players taking a knee! It's fucking absurd how fragile they are.
  22. How can Hitler kill Jews? How come you step on ants as you walk down the street? PTSD is a serious dysfunction of the ego-mind. If I had to bet what would help cure a PTSD ego: 1) A series of Ralston's contemplate workshops, or 2) a series of MDMA trips, I would pick #2 without hesitation. MDMA does not just cure PTSD via some brute chemical reaction. It heals it by expanding consciousness and getting the ego-mind to realize Love. This process is not merely one of feeling good. It's a process of consciousness: the very thing Ralston is supposed to teach. The healing power of psychedelics is precisely that they reveal Truth and Love.
  23. That's exactly what will not happen. The powerful and selfish have never given up their power willingly or nicely. They have always been forced into doing it. Fighting for social justice is the only way you get justice. It's just a question of what form that fighting will take. Historically, getting justice required killing people. This does not mean I condone killing people for political gain. But historically that is how the powerful and selfish were put in their place.