Leo Gura

I didn't ask you to go pick up hotties. I asked you to simply start some conversations with random people at the mall. Just go do it.

@Dlavjr Sit down and contemplate what you want. You know by asking yourself.

No. Do not confuse the lower death drive with consciousness.

Nothing exists besides God. You are it. No, this the most selfless motivation possible. It is pure Love: to give up your self so that everyone else could be selfish.

Only in your mind.

@Dlavjr Sounds like your issue is lack of clarity. Figure out WTF you want. Then pursue it deliberately rather than accidentally. If you want a girl you can't act so cool as to not even call her back. Girl wants guy to chase her a bit, to show her she's special.

Go out and socialize with real humans.

@Laloosh If you want to go that route then I would at least sit down with him and have a deep honest communication about WTF is going through his mind. But I still call bullshit on his games. He's fooling himself and you as a consequence. If cheating occurs I would consider that relationship dead. There are some lines in a relationship, which once crossed, cannot ever be uncrossed. That's certainly one of them. Be careful with low self esteem. You ladies who put up with this shit have low self-esteem issues to work on. A high self-esteem person does not let others take advantage of them.

Fear vs Love is what all this work boils down to. Nothing surprising here. The more Love you will be shown the more fear you'll have to face.

The actual answer is shocking: ANYTHING you do will be the highest form of love. It makes absolutely no difference what you do. Ta-da! That's real Love. Love is a tautology. Anything that exists is by definition Love. Love cannot be broken.

That's the art of learning to small talk. The less important the topic, the better. You need to learn to talk about things casually. Just for the sake of talking. It's hard at first but then it gets easy with practice. One of the best things is to talk about yourself. Talk about your day. Talk about what you're doing. Talk about how you feel. Talk about your ideas. etc. Sure Stop thinking of it as a brute force way. It's just practice. If you want to learn to golf, the only way is to go and hit the ball. Is this "brute force"? No! Its just practice at the activity in question. The reason you suck at socializing is simply because you've done too little of it in your life. Everything worthwhile seems hard.

@Chumbimba No worries. It's all part of the process. You learn by screwing up. You haven't really lost anything. You just got ahead of your skiis.

Go out and practice socializing with strangers at malls, stores, etc. Practice on old ladies at the mall. There is no magic pill solution that will allow you to escape practice. Your practice shouldn't be focused on how to get anyone attracted, but just simple basic small talk. Learn to keep a conversation going with a stranger while holding good eye contact and being comfortable in your body. Keep it very basic.

You and him are both fooling yourselves here. Especially you, but probably him too. If he sleeps around with other women he will never marry you and your relationship will end very soon. The subtext of his decision that you are not properly reading is this: "I'm not happy with you. You're not the one for me. I want to go find other girls who are better for me." That's really what he told you. He just sugarcoated it so that it doesn't break your heart and so that it appears justified in his mind. Don't forget, he must fool himself here too because otherwise he couldn't get away with such selfishness in his own mind. Dating is a game, and both parties are trying to get the best they can get. He's looking for an upgrade but has to do it in way that won't make him feel like a total asshole. I'm sorry to have to tell you this. It's some brutal truth. Do not fool yourself with fantasies of trying to tame him, change him, or capture him for yourself. That will not work. Clearly he's not ready to commit to you. That doesn't fit your values, so you should seek a new man. The only reason to continue to be with him is if you are both clear that this is just a temporary thing for sex or whatever. But don't fool yourselves into thinking this is going to go somewhere serious. Again, be ware of the trap of trying to tame him. You can waste a lot of that doing that. The bitter pill here that you need to swallow is that he just don't like you enough to sustain a relationship. Try not to take it personally. P.S. Please don't literally shit your pants.

Calling that "defunding the police" is such bad framing though. That framing will hurt the liberal agenda, scaring people away from embracing stage Green. We have to be very careful with slogans like "socialist", "defunding the police", "open boarders", etc. This freaks normies out.

"Defunding the police" is a terrible slogan. Don't call it that.

Yes! Love, exactly.

Please put more effort into crafting your threads.

You could love any part of reality. But if you're picking between good and bad parts, that's conditional love. Unconditional love doesn't pick good parts. There is a Love that's higher than what Mooji talks about. It is wrong to say that Leo's "awareness" is pure and good while his crud is bad and evil. The truth is that the good and the crud are identical. What's necessary here is to become conscious of that identity, not to cherrypick parts. Love is simply the inability to see "bad".

You forget the second part of that sentence: "no human will ever be as loving as God until it literally becomes God, at which point it is no long a human being" It is possible to reach unconditional Love. But there is a price to pay, which is surrendering all form. You call this death. You are only able to love as deeply as your attachments allow. The logic of love is simple: zero attachment = infinite love, infinite attachment = zero love. You find yourself somewhere in the middle of those two extremes.

Get used to it. There's gonna be very hairy moments if you trip long enough. It happens because you are fundamentally afraid to become conscious of everything that is. Certain insights become so deep that your mind isn't able to handle them, so it reacts with fear. One bad trip doesn't necessarily mean anything. It's just a blip on the radar screen in the grand scheme of things. Sounds like you haven't even experienced a proper bad trip yet. Some trips are like nightmares that leave you horrified.

When a mass shooting is happening, the "love" that must be used in that case is to shoot the shooter in the head. Be careful not to limit your notion "love" here. Love must be proportional to the situation. If you have a brutal situation, it will require brutal action to suppress. One of the common delusions of stage Green is thinking that they can fix stage Red criminals with some hippie love intervention -- which of course the stage Red criminal will just exploit. You can fight mild crime with "love", but serious crime also requires force. Force is often used precisely because all other options have failed to work and patience has run thin.

You'd have to actually test it in the field in various cities to see how viable this is. It may be viable in some places but not in others. Social workers can replace police to some extent in the most developed parts of the country. But even so, America has lots of mass shootings, so you're still gonna need police with heavy gear to some degree. The question is, to what degree? This is one of those highly complex issues that cannot be resolved ideologically but only scientifically by doing it and carefully tracking the results. If guns weren't so widespread in America then the police force wouldn't have to be so heavily armed.

@Chumbimba As always, you must be extra careful not to turn this work into a set of beliefs. Which is why I tell you to study other sources and perspectives. You're gonna screw yourself up if you only listen to my perspectives on reality. When my finger points to the moon, look at the moon, not my finger. Right now you are still looking at my finger. Do not take any one human's ideas too seriously. Of course this applies to myself. This is a more general problem of the mind. The mind is a dangerous thing. You shouldn't ever take ideas too seriously. Ideas are not real life. As soon as you take ideas too seriously all sorts of evil results.

@John Doe The problem is way worse than you think. You are right in your conclusion that it is impossible for your finite mind to love a thing unconditionally, but the real reason for this is because a finite mind must have conditions otherwise it will cease to exist. Only an infinite mind which has zero attachments is capable of unconditional love. And another word for an infinite mind with zero attachments or conditions is God. Hence God is Love, and no human will ever be as loving as God until it literally becomes God, at which point it is no long a human being. BTW, if your mind became infinite you would realize that Leo's shape is irrelevant because all form is fundamentally just a fluctuation of your own consciousness, so the issue isn't about how to love Leo when his form is totally changing but how to love YOURSELF when your form is constantly changing. Since God has no form, it is able to identify with all form and therefore love all form unconditionally no matter how much it changes. From God's POV there is literally no difference between Leo looking like a human vs Leo looking like an alien. God's love is not applied at the level of individuals or objects, it's the entire field of consciousness itself, which is ONE. You could say that the recognition that all individuals and objects are ONE field, is Love itself. You = Me = God = Love