Leo Gura

@Robi Steel No one's banning you here, bro. It's just that some of the political stuff you say is absurd and we can't help but laugh at it. Nothing personal, but it is amusing.

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Bahahahahahaha.... BTW, the European refugee immigration issue is a legitimate one. You can certainly make a valid point that a society can only integrate so many people from less developed countries. But this point needs to be made very carefully, based on science, not based on nationalism and ethnocentrism. If you want to limit the number of immigrants to a country, that's a legit discussion we could have. You will need to provide some studies/proof which shows that your country cannot accommodate more immigrants.

Yeah, free-association and improv is hugely valuable for being good with girls. You gotta become silver-tongued.

You will become that carefree cool guy. Girls aren't attracted to some one stereotype. They are attracted to fun cool guys, period. It doesn't matter if you will sleep with her one night or marry her. Her attraction to you will be the same in both cases. And I enjoy long-term relationships with the right girl. I'm not really big on one night stands. You can find girls who are into either one. That's a deep topic. Like I said, you should be careful and responsible not to hurt girls too much. Obviously don't mislead them about your intentions. At a nightclub, one night stands are so common that the issue of a long-term relationship won't even come up in many cases since both of you know it was just a casual fling. But if you start seeing her repeatedly, yeah, she will start to expect a relationship, in which case you gotta be clear with her about what you want. I suggest you don't see a girl repeatedly unless you really like her and are willing to commit.

Sure, this was a bad set for him. I've certainly had plenty of those. I've had set so bad that girls would call security or punch me in the face.

How exactly does Penguinz0 imagine pickup works? You walk to up any random woman and she falls in love with you? In pickup you get blown out so much. Most of your sets go nowhere. But if you do 20 sets in a day, a few of them will hook hard. Getting blown out of sets is actually very important as it shows you're putting yourself on the line and it builds your confidence and ability to handle rejection.

My examples were deliberately extreme to highlight the absurdity of people who argue for "freedom". But there is an enormous range of people who argue for it. Some people may be total anarchists while others might be pro military and even pro taxes, but still complain about things like regulation of car pollution or regulation of wild salmon fisheries in Alaska. It doesn't really matter what size gov you're okay with because all sizes of government are relative. So even if some libertarian says that he is okay with some federal government, all my points from the video still apply to him. Because he will still be arguing for deregulation on the grounds that bureaucracy infringes on his personal freedoms. A libertarian is one who complains about government regulation regardless of how big or small his government happens to be. He always feels oppressed and inconvenienced because he fundamentally doesn't understand the necessities of government. I should have made this more clear in the video, since libertarians who are somewhat okay with federal government will now use this as an excuse to ignore all my points -- which still all apply to them.

Of course, dummy. Girls will never call a guy cute unless they are attracted. The best way to tell if she's attracted is by how attentive she is when you talk, how willing she is to follow your lead, and how willing she is to hold deep eye contact. If she's looking deep in your eyes, she's willing to sleep with you. Also, if she's willing to let you touch her body, she's willing to sleep with you.

It's overly selfish and emphasizes one night stands too much. It also tends to be highly misogynistic and needlessly cruel. I advocate an approach which is careful not to harm girls too much emotionally. You have to be careful and responsible about who you sleep with. No idea about dating in Afghanistan. I am talking about dating in developed countries. RSD is about becoming as natural as you can. The problem is how to become natural when you aren't one to begin with? True naturals tend to be highly extroverted, charismatic, social, confident, and experienced from a very young age. So you can't get that without doing thousand of clumsy approaches. Natural is the end result of years of nonstop effort and mastery. It will all feel highly unnatural when you start. Don't let that stop you. Naturalness comes with experience and skill. Yes, you will still require at least a year or two to get decent. There's more to it than mere confidence. You have to learn how to deal with all the obstacles that girls will throw in your face as you try to pull them home. You will lose hundreds of girls due to small mistakes you make. It's impossible to be born into life just knowing how to navigate all these obstacles. This is a skill that must be cultivated through practice and experience.

Don't take models too literally.

Well, America was founded by religious fanatics basically. And since Europe had a lot more religious conflict over the years, I think they learned their lesson and found peace in secularism. Hard to say. There are probably dozens of nuanced factors. It's like you're asking, "Why do I prefer vanilla while my brother prefers chocolate?" There's not likely to be one clear answer.

Pretty sure TV networks would bleep out such things if they were said, and maybe even refuse to air it or have him back on. There are rules of behavior for TV guests.

You have no clue.

Awesome! Now that's a trip! Namaste

Interesting.... Careful kids

Don't. Just do pickup when you're doing pickup, and do meditation when you sit to meditate. If you can get numbers and dates, clearly you're getting attraction, so what are you insecure about? As far as your insecurity goes, what you need to get through your thick skull is this: within about 15 minutes you will either reach hook-point with a girl or not. If you reach hook-point, you will clearly see that she's attracted. Once you see that, you know she is willing to fuck you if you just don't screw it up from here on out and handle the logistics well. So drop any insecurity from here. You KNOW she's willing to fuck you. And if a girl agrees to go on a date with you: YOU KNOW SHE'S WILLING TO FUCK YOU. A girl will never agree to go on a date with a guy she's not willing to fuck. Your insecurity should be about those initial 15 minutes to reach hook-point. If you get there, you've won! She's willing to fuck you. Which means your looks are now irrelevant. One of the best guys I knew in game was a short 5'2" Pakistani guy. He was amazing. He got more girls than me at 6'2". Your PERSONALITY is what matters. Focus on improving that. Become charming and bold and you will attract many girls.

YES! Of-fucking-course you are. We all are. I was hugely insecure about my looks. I didn't believe I could ever attract a hot girl. When I first started it seemed impossible, like a fantasy. It certainly plays a role, but most guys seriously overestimate its importance. You will be shocked how hot of girls you will attract if you approach enough. One of the coolest things I learned is that I can attract the hottest girl in the club. You can attract porn star hotness level girls. Because girls are primarily attracted to strong personality, not looks. If you have above average looks, that certainly helps. It will be easier. That's enough get to hot girls. Girls don't judge your looks as much as you judge theirs. See? That's your problem. You're projecting.

Don't be sharing the Holiest of Grails with some random club slut

You can get very technical about game. But that's not good for newbies. When you're just starting out you want to focus on the bare basics like your dress, grooming, approaching consistently, building decent state, eye contact, smiling, body posture, physical escalation, never running out of things to say, and leading. The most important things are: Going out at least 2x-3x nights a week, consistently Approaching consistently Putting yourself into a good mood while you do so Smiling and laser eye contact Getting good at never running out of things to say. Becoming good at holding conversation Communicating with her man-to-woman, with clear sexual intent Immediate physical escalation Leading her That will get you 90% of your results. Getting decent at all the above will take you several years of full time work.

You would not believe the kinds of girls I attracted: worldclass tennis stars, actresses, models, etc. I went on a date with a girl who did all of Tony Robbins' marketing material.

Yeah, of course. Getting over your own excuses, fears, and insecurity is like 70% of getting good with girls. That's the hardest part. Yeah, your mind will trick you with every excuse it can muster to not go to a club and not talk to a girl. You have to be very motivated to start going out regularly. Yes, just do it. But you need a strong vision of why you're doing it and what you hope to get out of it. Otherwise there's no way you'll be motivated enough to push through the hard times. Of course if you have serious life problems holding you back, it's nice to solve those. Although you can find ways to do pickup without spending any money. At the very least you can go out twice a week on Fri and Sat. You can work and still do pickup at night or weekends.

All of them are valuable. Tyler's are great of course. You gotta sort through it all and see which ones resonate with you. When I started pickup I had a giant torrent of like every possible pickup teaching in the last 20 years. I studied the shit out of it for 100s of hours. I studied it harder than I studied calculus in college, LOL. And that was before RSD's best free YT material was fully released. That was like 8 years ago now. God, I'm getting old. A lot of great new pickup material has been released since then. I started out studying Mystery Method, LOL. I studied like 20 different teachers and coaches. All of it was useful, but RSD I liked the most because it was so brutally realistic and down-to-earth. I don't like fluff in my dating teachings.