Leo Gura

I'm not sitting in a cave. I was trying to create a deep romantic relationship. I will create a video about Conscious Relationships in the future. Once you see it, you'll see me in a different light. I just haven't had the time to shoot it yet. Nothing I said is Redpill. I got no animosity towards women and I disagree with most of the Redpill philosophy. It's absurdly self-biased.

I don't even remember. Doesn't matter.

No One of the things pickup teaches you is to stop caring what women say about you. It simply does not matter. But you can only learn this lesson the hard way, by going out and getting rejected 1000s of times.

That's questionable in a relationship context. The problem is the ego loves to co-opt spirituality and consciousness for survival. It's a very deceptive and murky process. Is there something like a genuine connection with another human? Yes. But it is wrapped in layers of survival stuff which will always linger. But hey, I'm sick of preaching this stuff. Go contemplate how your dating and relationships truly work for yourselves. If you dare. Consider this: the only reason you guys follow me is because it gives you survival value. As soon as my ability to give you value disappears, you will leave me or hate me. Yet in your minds you don't think of it that way. In your minds you think you really appreciate me for who I am. Of course this is pure fantasy. You don't really care who I am. If I was Hitler, you would want me killed. Such is life. Accept it and move on.

All you have to do to see that your romance is completely self-biased and survival based is to contemplate why you don't get romantic with a gorilla. There is absolutely no reason why you should relate with humans more than gorillas other than survival. Absolutely everything involving sex is pure self-bias. Why do you not hump a light-post? Sex is COMPLETELY arbitrary and relative. And the only reason you do it is because it has survival value for the species. But don't get me wrong. This doesn't mean you can't have deep intimate relationships. You can! Just stop fooling yourself about what it is you're doing. You are using those relationships to enhance your survival. You are doing that without admitting you are doing it. Self-deception 101. Except that's your projection, not anything I said. Relationships are survival. But saying so does not devalue the relationship in any way. It's just being honest about what you're doing. People get the very wrong idea here that I am anti deep relationships. Not at all. You can do deep intimate relationships with consciousness and spiritual aspects. But it's still a survival game. People love the illusion of it not being a game. It makes the ego feel justified in its raw survival. The ego needs to paint a pretty story about how all of its purely arbitrary survival needs and manipulations are in fact legit, pure, good, honest, truthful, and selfless. Women especially fall into this illusion and they really upset when it is pointed out them. Both men and women are selfish as devils when it comes to sex. The selfishness is asymmetrical, with each side denying their own particular brand of selfishness while being outraged by the selfishness of the opposite side. And all of this is, of course, just more selfishness! And all of this is, of course, denied with great passion and fury. It would be much simpler if you just came out and said: "I am a selfish devil and I want sex under conditions X, Y, Z because that's what serves me best." But of course you cannot do that because it harms your survival. Your community will judge you for it and you can't stomach admitting to yourself just how selfish you are. So you must keep all your true motivations and conditions secret, even from yourself.

Careful, not all dicks who mistreat women are PUAs. That's a very problematic conflation. Ordinary guys mistreat more women than all the PUAs in the world. Guys with poor dating and poor social skills are not angels. They creep women out big-time. Let's not pretend that a non-PUA will not manipulate women. He certainly will, just with less skill.

@The0Self If you work in a women's department store, that's like doing pickup 8 hours per day. That's like shooting fish in a barrel. The perfect cover to ply your art. Many people get laid from their jobs, simply by having the right jobs which offer automatic socialization opportunities. And of course they use this to their advantage to snipe the best targets. This is like a socially acceptable form of pickup.

That's precisely how ignorance works. An ignorant person feels he has the whole world figured out. Hence the tragedy of it. Which is why I said a conspirscy theory is a dumb person's idea of intelligence. Analogous to how Trump is a poor person's idea of a rich person. They don't know what genuine wealth or strength looks like.

Lol You have a naive understanding of how politics works. When you are leading a giant nation, all sorts of evils will happen and mistakes will be made. Have you considered how many people would have been killed without the drone strikes? What the alternatives to drone strikes are? See, when you sit at home and judge others, that's easy. When you are put in charge of the world's largest military and tasked to defend Americans, that's a whole new ballgame. Don't forget, they will replace you with someone more bloodthirsty if you don't make them feel defended. The rules for world leaders are not the same rules as middle school. Death is baked into every decision you make at that scale. A naive stage Green does not appreciate such politcal complexities. It just wants peace to magically happen. This is the biggest problem with progressives. They act like all this is so easy, and then of course they complain and pout when they can barely win power in a real world election. Much easier to be right in your own head vs making things happen in a world full of selfish devils who want to eat you alive. Obama is a butcher compared to a middle school teacher. But that is the wrong comparison.

They don't all explain the same thing. It's hard to know. Takes a higher intuition. I can't really explain it.

Lol Well, as long as you got the results you want, what else matters, eh? You got one slippery ego-mind You have no idea the depth of my female-male relationships. If you assume they are shallow, that's your mistake.

The truth is that your romantic love is utterly self-biased and designed to serve your ego's survival needs. Please stop with the BS. You playing games.

They don't necessarily want the children. They just got nothing to live for but sex and drugs. Very underdeveloped humans behave like animals. You can't reason with them.

Keep that crazy in the closet till you got him hooked

If it was so easy, we would have done it a long time ago. It's a super complex political and systemic issue. It's not simply a matter of food delivery. Many people in poverty have serious mental health issues. How you gonna magically solve that? You give them food, they will sell it to buy crack. You give them food, a local warlord will bully it away from them to sell. Delivering free food to many of the worst countries is impossible because local dictators, mafias, and warlords will not allow it.

Or how about be of some service to mankind and earn some coin? This idea that money is evil while begging for food is noble is absurd and needs to be jettisoned. It certainly does not work in modern develop countries. Maybe it worked 2000 years ago.

I guess you'll have to find someone else to verbally abuse you. Or maybe just learn to learn without the abuse

People will naturally want to gossip about anything of this subject matter.

It will be a delicate balancing act. I'm not making these changes to attract more viewers, but to give the work a higher caliber image for existing and future viewers. In the past I didn't think the image of the work mattered so much, but now I realize that casual attitude cannot hold up in the future as we grow. It needs to feel more professional. I think I can tone it down without losing the directness, honesty, and in-your-faceness. I want to be direct without being offensive or obnoxious, which I sometimes come off as. It will take me some practice to find the right balance. It should be subtle.

@Ineffable Not many.

We can keep the thread open. If anyone wants to voice their criticisms or whatever, have at it.

So, after considering the situation, I've decided to retract my dating post because I see people getting resentful and this undermines the focus of my teachings, which is more important to me than dating. People will try to use this to demonize my teachings in the future, which I don't want to have to deal with as I get enough of that already. For those who supported me, thanks and I appreciate your support. But I have to learn to be more careful with image issues and political correctness going forward because the pressures will become great to demonize my teachings as Actualized.org grows in size and naturally develops more enemies who will misconstrue everything I say in order to invalidate the work. This is something I have to think about more seriously going forward because really these teachings should be as little about me as possible. Ideally I want to take my personal self out of the teachings. Sorry, my mistake. Party's over folks. In the future I will be making further changes to my style and manner of delivery in order to make the teachings more selfless and tactful. The days where Actualized.org could be the wild west are coming to an end. As the size grows, image issues become more serious and important. This seems to be the nature of politics and public relations that I don't have much experience with. I am still learning to navigate these waters because my natural style is blunt and politically incorrect. I notice that I have to be much more careful and responsible as more people watch my content in ways that were not normal for me in the early days. I am looking forward to cleaning up my presentation so that it is more selfless and then you don't have worry so much about your friends saying that you are following a cult leader. Although of course that will be said no matter what due to the nature of the material we study. I apologize for not being more forward-thinking about these issues. One of the things I also plan to do in the future is clean up my language and stop dropping f-bombs. I've been thinking of doing that for some time now, and this situation will hasten that. I have been seeing for a while now that these changes will be necessary for what Actualized.org is to become in the future. My style needs to mature to reflect the gravity of the work. I will also hold myself to a higher standard as a role-model, because even though I don't particularly want to be one, people will treat me like one regardless and it is my responsibility to take that one as part of delivering these teachings. It just comes with the job.

I got plenty of money before your Patreon. But thank you.

It depends on the type of people yoi commune with and their level of development. Corporate folk are not very developed. You're bascially dealing with cavemen there Of course you can self-actualize and learn a lot, but at some point you will probably outgrow that job and want to find something more refined. It's okay, you don't have to solve everything at once. Babysteps.

Well, in that case you're in luck! I got a homeless guy who was molested as a child by his uncle for you to marry. He is fragile and lonely so don't reject him