Leo Gura

Fascists jerk themselves off to this stuff

Perfect! Mission accomplished! How weak is Blue/Orange masculinity when it can be triggered by one hairy bush?

Of course you do. Which is why you're not awake.

Rule #1 of game: Don't take a girl's excuses seriously

I talk about a lot more than the Absolute. Mostly I talk about relative stuff. But also I point to the Absolute in various ways. Wilber's 4 quadrants is fundamentally dualistic because it requires cutting the world up with distinctions. Wilber's model is relative and cannot be applied to the Absolute itself. The Absolute is not divided into subjective/objective or I/we. Subjective experience is the ground for everything else. So in this way Wilber's model is misleading. Wilber's model is itself only exists within your subjective experience, as does Wilber, for that matter. There is nothing but your subjective experience. Period.

They are useful if you have an open mind and you put them to use.

The lack of all subjective bias, is Love.

@RedLine Your mind is just not open, so convincing you is pointless. You will never understand until you drop everything you think you know about reality. There is no difference between subjective and objective. And there are no others. And you cannot use Ken Wilber's AQAL model to grasp the Absolute.

The bottom line is that you are in no position to understand such things without years of profound personal awakenings. It cannot be explained to you because it is completely outside the mind's ability to comprehend. Anytime I say, you will try to fit within a materialist, dualist, human, relative paradigm. And that just cannot work.

Materialism is horseshit. But that doesn't mean you can all the sudden avoid common life consequences. Stop linking those two things in your mind. A video game world isn't real, but that doesn't mean Mario can run through walls just by realize that.

@OBEler Enjoy hell then.

Pirates are just basically highway robbers at sea. If you want to learn about how pirates actually worked, there's a great book about their actual escapades: https://www.amazon.com/General-History-Pyrates-Dover-Maritime/dp/0486404889

Ain't nothing amazing about them. They can't even give their girl a proper orgasm.

In stage Blue society getting laid is a lot easier because you just go to church and marry some girl your church friends introduce you to. But also, men have been hitting on women since the dawn of time. You just learn about it today thanks to the internet. Bars and clubs and alcohol exist for one reason: for people to get laid. We live in a highly alienated time and culture. You know, in Quaker society none of the boys have a problem getting laid. Their parents just set them up to marry the girl next door. My dad met my mom by approaching her on a street corner. If he didn't have the balls to approach her, I wouldn't be here, and neither would you.

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You fundamentally misunderstand what pickup is about. It's not about running a script. It's about learning how to be authentic. Guys struggle with social awkwardness A LOT. Guys are not as socially intuitive as women who practice socialization their entire lives. Again, you're not understanding because you have no genuine curiosity in this topic. You're looking at it and judging it from your female self-agenda. What you're doing is akin to me telling women: Don't watch any YT make up videos and don't shop for panties at Victoria's Secret and don't do anything to improve yourself. Don't wear heals. Don't wear bras. Don't do your hair up. Don't shave your legs. Don't shave your pussy. Don't do your nails. Don't hold in your farts. Don't go out and don't socialize at night with any guys. Just sit at home, be normal, and you'll get a great husband.

Make up your mind about what you want. A distraction is just what you need when you're stuck in negative spiral.

@Himanshu Ramana Maharshi died of skin cancer on his arm. If Ramana couldn't heal himself, good luck. Healing some things may be possible, but there are many things you cannot heal.

When stuck in a loop, the best thing to do is to force your body to move to override any thoughts and simply change the environment. Walk outside, or crawl to another room, or go to the bathroom, or run a bath, or turn on and dance to some happy music, etc. It tends to work really well. But you must DO IT, rather than think about doing it. Train yourself to use your body to override thought, rather than thinking about using your body.

Everything is imaginary, but that does not mean you get to imagine whatever you want. By your silly logic I should be able to turn into a dragon on command and shoot fireballs out my ass. What you're missing is that Leo's ego is not in control. I could die tomorrow of cancer and none of that would contradict my metaphysics, since God is a tautology, God -- paradoxically -- cannot change anything about himself, and is perfect no matter what happens. It is the ego which thinks it can control reality and have all its wishes fulfilled. Awakening does not grant you control over reality. It merely surrenders you to whatever reality happens to be. If an enlightened person breaks his leg, he must go to a traditional doctor to fix it. He can't just wish it away. And yet, that broken leg is of course imaginary. Just because something is imaginary does not mean that ego gets to control it. Make no mistake about it, when your health deteriorates enough, your entire life will crumble. Doesn't matter how enlightened you are. Your ability to live is 100% contingent on good health -- which could go at any moment for a thousand different reasons. You could get hit by a bus tomorrow. And enlightenment will not save you from that.

If a guy doesn't hunt you, how you ever gonna find a guy? You're looking at this the wrong way. You are seeing this as hurting women when actually helping men become better men creates more quality men for you ladies to marry. The problem here is not simply one of getting laid. The problem here is one of how to make better men. You are not going to have quality men when they are too scared to approach a woman. Those men will be socially awkward, bitter, hateful incels. You want to date an incel? Log into their forum and have you pick. If you dare. You are looking at this sitution in such a narrow and selfish way. As if all that matters is you. Men need an avenue for how to learn to date and be strong. It just needs to be done ethically.

No video will ever help you get it.

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@louhad Read the Spiral Dynamics books from my book list. Spiral Wizardry is the term you're looking for.

It's easy for you to say because your survival doesn't depend on approaching. You are like a rabbit telling a wolf, "Don't go hunting. God doesn't approve hunting. Just eat grass like me and you will be godly."