Leo Gura

Prepare thyself.

Stop creating solipsism threads.

@martins name Don't take my word for anything. Verify everything for yourself.

Unreal is terrible for non-programmers.

@mikelyons What more do you need than Unity? The only thing better is Unreal for AAA style games. Don't make life difficult on yourself. Use an industry standard engine. For Indie games Unity is perfect.

@Hardkill I will soon publish a series of videos explaining the core theory behind getting laid. But then you have to act on it. As an autistic guy, your problem is gonna be too much theory and too little action. Basically all you gotta do is go out, be social, be playful with girls, and close. Too much theory beyond that will only get you too stuck in your head. You won't be able to execute it in front of the girl.

Do not keep creating these gender war debates. Men have a different agenda than you. The end. If you want to talk about how to create deep relationships as part of your personal development, go ahead. But don't debate how men should drop their agenda for you. Attraction advice is not designed for you women, it's designed for men to solve their problems. Since you don't have their problems the advice falls on deaf ears. Really, the solution here is that women should not listen to attraction advice for men. You should be listening to advice designed to improve your love life, not a man's -- because you're not a man. It would be like if walked into a women's dressing room and started complaining that you ladies spend too much time on makeup. Stop wearing makeup and stop talking about makeup because it offends me when you do so.

"Not really into dumb BS small talk" << You've just excluded 98% of women, Lol Remove that line. It makes you sound too serious and business-like -- and even a bit butt-hurt.

@Karmadhi Self-actualizing requires taking action and doing difficult things. If not for that, everyone would be self-actualized. If you want to live a great life, the basic cost is labor.

Don't compliment. Don't place yourself in a lower position than her, like you do with your boots comment. Your boots comment makes it sounds like you're afraid of her boots crushing you. This sets the opposite frame of what you want. Also don't invest yourself into these matches. Shoot a text and move on. You invest too much into them. You need higher volume and less investment.

Do not be sexual. If the girl truly likes you, you don't need to game her much. The problem is they don't really like you to begin with, otherwise they would be receptive to a simple "Hey there". Keep in mind there is a lot of fake profiles and girls just looking for validation and ego-boosts on apps like Tinder. Girls are not above using guys purely for validation with no intention of fucking them. Your best opener is gonna be a short unique funny line.

In practice the only thing you need to be successful with women is to go out and approach. The rest is niggly details.

Everything you see is your own face. Ta-da!

Counter-intuitively yes. Lot of pickup actually teaches you how to be more expressive like a girl. To flow more with your feelings. Most guys are so stuck in their heads they are disconnected from their feelings. Feelings are not just feminine, they are also masculine. You will attract way more girls by being emotionally expressive than you will by being stoic. It's similar to how you talk to children or dogs. You adopt an over-emotionalized, playful attitude. You don't treat the interaction seriously. Likewise when attracting women. Treat women like children when trying to flirt with them. Watch videos of men flirting with women.

You can, but that will be a challenging balance to strike.

Autism is an over-abundance of logic. The worst think you can do to attract women is to be logical. The formula for being attractive to women is to be illogical, brash, confident, emotional, charismatic, playful, and socially attuned. Autistic people suck at this. You can be socially attuned without yet still narcissistic and breaking certain conventions selectively. You need to break social conventions in a cool, clued-in way, rather than a clueless, uncool, awkward, nerdy, creepy way. Think of the wild rockstar vs the awkward geek. Autistic people are too serious, and this kills your ability to attract women. Playfulness is key. If you look at Arnold Schwarzenegger, he is very playful, emotional, and socially attuned, but he can also kick your ass and be stoic. It's a special blend:

If you acted from this dimension you would be highly attractive

1) Make plans to move out from your parents house. 2) Start practicing approaching girls and flirting with them. Learn some basic pickup/attraction theory. Yes, well, there is always an inverse relationship between being powerful and being loved. It's hard to have both. The more points you allocate into selfishness the less people will like you, but the better your survival odds. The more points you allocate into selflessness, the more people will love you, but at the cost of your survival. It example actually goes against you. Nothing bad happened to Trump from that incident. Which shows you where the true power lies. Yes, there was a bit of social outrage, but largely that outrage is irrelevant. See, a strong man doesn't give much of a fuck about others not liking him or being offended by him. People will revere you when you sacrifice your survival for them. In practice, masculinity is HIGHLY valued and respected and rewarded by society. Just don't go so toxic with it that you piss off a horde of SJWs. In practice, as a man, you can get away with some much that it's actually shocking if you try it. In most cases you actually can get away with grabbing women by the pussy. I just don't recommend doing that unless you're sure she wants you to.

That's an arbitrary distinction you make for your convenience. Survival does not make such silly distinctions. Society massively rewards aggressive, dickish, and downright sociopathic behavior in men. The world's richest and most powerful men are basically sociopaths and narcissists and they get the most and best vagina. And it has always been this way. But of course such men disregard all social norms and SJW narratives. They often disregard laws too. The reason why women are attracted to dickish behavior is because it's ruthlessly effective for survival. The woman needs a dick on her side precisely so she can be kind and sweet and innocent. She is like a king controlling an army of pawns to fight on his behalf while keeping his hands clean. No it isn't. This is a conversation about survival value.

Unity

They get objectified by society to please men. Women constantly have to feel bad for not meeting society's unrealistic beauty standards. You only get those extra points if you are exceptionally beautiful, which like 10% of women are. The rest are not. How would you feel if society gave you extra points, but only if your dick was 10 inch or longer? Otherwise you'd be made to feel like trash? And we would re-measure your dick every time you left the house.

Time is imaginary. Like in a novel, there is no time. The sense of time is projected into the story. You can write a novel and set it in any period. Likewise Consciousness can dream up any period. Consciousness is not bound by time since it imagines it in the first place. Every period in history, Consciousness imagines. For example, the medival times did not happen long ago. They are imagined to have happened.

Women's survival is already threatened in many ways that you are too naive and self-biased to comprehend. Sweet and nice women are used and abused all the time, and have been for thousands of years. But you wouln't care anything about that, would you? Of course survival is always hypocritical. Survival for me but not for thee. I gain value, you lose value. That's the game of survival. You definitely have to ignore certain narratives and build yourself into a strong man. There is a narrative that makes men meek if they adhere to it too closely. It is a fine balancing act. Don't treat women too nicely. But also don't abuse, control, or oppress them. Be masculine without being toxicly masculine.

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It's all just a dream.