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You tell me.

I don't like working with people. So no. But those who like it might find it suitable.

You are doing EVERYTHING. You personally designed each hair on your balls. But you are not conscious of it.

Fixed it for ya - - - - - If every woman on the planet decided tomorrow to only have sex with nice guys, every guy in the world would become a nice guy within 1 month and all war would end forever. But alas.... Endless war.

Of course they should. But still they gotta keep their balls about them. It's a tricky balance. Takes lots of trail and error and experience to get it right.

I use colloidal silver sometimes when I'm ill. Not sure how effective it is. Hard to tell. I wouldn't use it often.

This is a more general paradox of non-attachment: those who are most needy get the least, while those who are not-needy get the most. For example, people who need money the most end up having the least of it. Because desperation is not a good place to earn money from. Likewise, neediness for sex or relationship is not a good place to get quality sex or relationships from. In general, when you are in a negotiation the one with the least attachment has the advantage. And sexual relationships are certainly a negotiation. You can be strong and independent but still interested in relationship and communion. It does not have to only be for her body. Pretty much. Females are always attracted to high-value males regardless of culture. You're conflating things. These kind of celebrities actually tend to be very assertive with their agenda. MJ manipulated people into sex way more than any PUA. Because attracting women requires a certain realism and pragmatism. You don't get laid on fairy tales. Women will ruthlessly cull you out. Women are ruthless about this stuff despite their stories and excuses. As a man you gotta we wise to their games otherwise you will end up jerking yourself off to sleep in tears. The collective experience of the entire attraction community. I started out as the biggest nice guy and I went through much pain to learn not to treat women like princesses. A big part of becoming a strong and high-value man is learning how to set your own frames and not letting any girl sway you with her games. Sorry, I don't buy it. You are trying to logic your way about attraction and that is not how attraction actually works. Your logic flies out the window in real-life attraction scenarios. Because otherwise she won't respect the man. For a woman to be attracted to a man she needs to feel that the man is higher value than her. I did not give rigid rules. I gave general principles of attraction from the male POV. This is what men need to understand to properly get laid. If they don't understand these things, they will end up suffering. There are principles to attraction. I didn't invent them. Attraction works how it works. Don't forget, dating and mating is a bit of a bloodsport. It is not all rainbows and butterflies. It is survival first and foremost. There are painful lessons for the ego to learn in this game.

@rnd Okay, don't pay your taxes. Wesley Snipes style

So much Green it makes you wanna vomit

@Spiral Wizard I shot a whole episode about How To Set Up The Perfect Date. But I never published it

There are more options than that. There is also mainstream business/corporate world. There is also being a highly skilled professional that works for a salary but you are not a slave because you have lots of leverage thanks to your rare skills. There is also freelancing. There is also monkhood. And more! All humans don't need those resources. Develop and procure the exact resources you need. Stop thinking globally here and think about how to find your unique way. Becoming successful is not a public policy discussion. Don't confuse it with that. Obviously, but don't use these as an excuse for your own lack of success. Do the best you can with what you have available and develop the right resources. You'll be surprised how far you can go if you really want to. You are not being creative/flexible enough. You must find the right niche for you.

It's relative to where you stand.

A lot of examples posted here are not proper Turquoise. Please read the book section on Turquoise carefully before posting your examples. Turquoise is not the same as anyone talking about spirituality or enlightenment.

Don't underestimate how selfish and careless more girls are. She isn't some saint. She's blindly following her own survival agenda. She will not give two fucks about flaking on you. Yeah, well, it goes both ways. Hurt feelings come with the territory of dating. Most girls don't give a fuck if they step all over your survival agenda. My personal rule is that there is no relationship until sex. But you may feel otherwise. I set my rules based on my deep experience of what works and what does not. Of course you can try doing it the other way and get some results, but it's not a good overall dating strategy. Remember, that is HER frame. You can choose to play by her frame or set your own frame. Will setting your own frame lose you some girls? Sure, but it will get you many more others. As a general rule, the guy should be setting the frame, not the girl. At least from the guy's POV that makes the most sense. If you like being a pussy you can buy into her frame. Ahahahahaha! That's none of her business. If she is asking this kind of question you already did something wrong. From the moment she meets you she should realize that you are a high value guy who is highly social and desirable to many girls. She should feel that if she does not snap you up soon you will move on to other girls. She should feel like you could bang a new girl every night if you wanted to. First cum, first served Good! No, she won't get hurt. She will desire you even more because she recognizes how attractive and high-value you are. Attraction is highly counter-intuitive. You think that by being meek and humble and loyal and nice that this will make girls attracted to you, but it's the opposite. With that strategy you will lose many girls and mostly attract the weakest and lowest-value ones. A girl's fantasy is to lock down a player/knight in shining armor who is a pussy magnet. Not some meek nice guy who will beg her for sex like a panhandler begs for nickles. Regardless of whatever bullshit story she tells you, she wants a high-value guy. Period. No amount of talking or excuses will change that. And the #1 clue of a high-value guy is that he can get laid any day he wants to. One of the most attractive things you can do is to show up to a party with a bunch of hot girls at your side, orbiting around you like groupies. This will make you appear WAY more attractive to all the other girls, creating a feeding frenzy for your dick. Deep down she wants to know that you could fuck any girl in the world, but you choose to only fuck her because she is so special to you. That is her ultimate fantasy. If the particular girl you want is insecure, you can dial all this down a bit. But there is no shame at all for her to perceive you as sexually active. As a man, you don't need to hide the fact that you're a bit of a player. Don't explicitly say so. It should just be a vibe you give off. Girls will smell it. Consider Brad Pitt. Every girl knows he can fuck whoever he wants whenever he wants -- and probably does so. And this is why every girl dreams of landing him. If you want the most brutal truth, dating multiple women not only doesn't hurt your chances, it increases it, and the more women you date the higher your chances get. This is so true that it can get easily abused to sociopathic levels. PUAs abuse this principle all the time. I don't recommend you do that. I recommend you find a nice balance that does not crush girls hearts nor inflate your ego. You can be strong and assertive without being a total scumbag.

Oh God, this will be radioactive.

Dude, you gotta stop asking women what they want. What men and women want is not the same thing. The reality is that when you are pursuing women, 95% of them will flake on you and leave you dry. So from the man's POV, rather than putting up with all that bullshit, you pursue multiple women until one of them hooks hard. The general rule is this: don't sit around waiting for women. Do your thing until one of them falls for you and wants to go exclusive. In practice, unless you're doing hardcore weekly pickup, you will rarely be going on actual dates with multiple women. You wish you had that problem. That requires working the clubs harder than a rented mule. The general rule for guys should be this: Until there is sex, there is no exclusivity or loyalty. After sex, we can talk about it. If you make the mistake of being loyal to a women before she even has sex with you, you'll be in for a world of hurt. This is way too needy and attachy on your part. You are WAY too invested. The crucial mistake is thinking of her as your girlfriend before she even slept with you. Don't make that mistake. Don't expect any woman to okay this in some logical conversation. She won't because she has her own biased agenda at work, as do you. It is meant to be an implicit thing. Should you be scheduling dates behind her back once she's slept with you? I would suggest not. Once she hooks hard, you can cancel any dates you had on your schedule (should you be so lucky). She does not need to know about your schedule. If she wants to go exclusive with you, she better make that clear through her behaviors by investing a lot in your. The general principle is that you don't want to over-invest in her. Your investment in her needs to slightly less than her investment in you. If your investment in her is higher than her investment in you, you're doing it wrong. You're being too needy.

Platforming people like Alex Jones and other right-wing ideologues and devils Trafficking in conspiracy theories Misinforming people about Covid and lockdowns

@Onecirrus You need to do some deep inner work on your wounds, emotional armor, and anger issues. That's where all your attention should be focused for the next few years. You can't really self-actualize until you heal those issues to a significant degree. Psychedelics can be helpful for that.

Start doing it and you'll quickly see. Don't sit around waiting to be great or perfect. Start working on small projects today.

Yes, you are stuck in your personal selfish biases. You are not seeing or caring about the female's survival agenda, instead pushing your own. A woman needs a weak man as much as you need a dick in your mouth. What I said does not preclude intimacy. You are asking for feminine containment and then immediately asking for a gay friend. You can have one but not both.

Yes, but, that does not mean one is conscious of it. Just saying "this is it" is not at all the same as being conscious of it.

Space is actually nothing.

Cause that's everything.

No. Take her like you own her. But also seduce her with teasing and withholding. Make her crave you.

@ginger28 Nothing will get a girl to dump you faster than lack of leadership, indecisiveness, and insecurity, which forces her to be the leader. Tisk, tisk. You gotta get your shit together and take charge of the situation. You lead she follows.