Leo Gura

How do you know he treats them well? You just assume that because he's got game. If Russell treats women well, then players treat women well. See... just because he's got game you give him a free pass. He could tell you that he wants to fuck your mom and your sister and you'd giggle and laugh. But in fact if he got the chance to fuck your mom and your sister he would. And then you'd only find out about it a year later. And you would probably still be attracted to him. This is what charm allows a guy to get away with. You don't think Russell Brand has banged 100+ girls? Lol He is a self-admitted sex-addict. I would not be surprised if he slept with 500-1000 girls. You can't find a girlfriend without first sleeping with her.

Compliments are rarely necessary or even used. The most I will compliment a girl I just met is "you are sexy" or "you are cute" or "you are adorable". That's it. And these phrases are used to establish sexual intent. As the conversation deepens, compliments can be made on things you genuinely like about her personality or lifestyle. This is genuine. No, you are building a new connection with a human from scratch. Ideally the girl is not insecure. You're not hunting for insecure girls to prey on. You're hunting for the highest quality girl you can find, but physically and psychologically. You're not trying to attract some poor broken girl. Lots of women are genuinely flattered by a solid approach. Some women light up and it makes her day, even if she is married or has a boyfriend. Getting approached is a huge ego boost for her. And even many beautiful women are insecure about their looks so getting complimented on that makes them feel good. If a random girl approached you and told you that she thinks you're handsome, you would feel awesome. Besides, attractive girls get hit on all the time. They are used to it. It's no big deal. If you don't approach her, some other guy with more balls than you will, and she will sleep with him. Actually, a lot of technical practice leads to exactly this. Technical practice not only dials in your outer game, but most importantly your inner game. If you do 10,000 approaches and rigorously dial in your game you will fix the broken inner foundation along the way. Genuinely relishing giving charisma is what game teaches you. 10,000 approaches will produce massive inner changes in you. You will become like a new person by the end of that.

Make whatever excuses you want, but in the end women will flee from you and flock to guys who go out and develop their game.

Obama is an order of magnitude higher in consciousness than Trump. If you can't see that, you should not be following my work.

Forget weed. Upgrade to serious psychedelics and do them occasionally. Weed is addictive. Serious psychedelics are anti-addictive.

Because you're living a life disconnected from Truth, lost in delusion. Do you want a good life or a shitty life?

To even care is already a character weakness within you. You know how much time I have spent thinking about girls cheating on me? Zero I do not care. Let her fuck whoever she wants.

The idea that a girl would cheat on me doesn't even enter my mind because I know I have so much value and love to offer that I am irreplaceable. She will never find a guy as great as me << that should be your inner frame. And you should make that actual, not just a mind game. The problem is not that she will cheagt on me, the problem is that she will get so addicted to me that she could end up killing herself if I leave.

All your insights here are spot-on. Stop second-guessing yourself. The mushrooms showed you Truth. Now don't corrupt it with doubt, fear, and human bullhshit. Love is too profound to be limited to feeling alone. It is not necessary to always feel it. Since Love is EVERYTHING, it cannot be limited to good feelings. Yup. Of course. Now the real spiritual labor begins. Now you see that it will take you years and decades to fully embody the Truth. So it's not so fast. Love/Truth/God transcends practicality. But if you follow up these trips with serious spiritual practice then practical results will come. It's a long term process that takes years to snowball. You were shown a preview of what's possible after years of serious study and practice.

That's precisely what game is.

You'll probably never reach that level of game, but you can still get laid 100s of times. If you had Russell's level of game and good logistics you would be pulling every night.

It's time for you to bite the bullet and accept that even if you get with one girl, it will not solve the deep underlying scarcity and fundamental weakness within you. You must commit to a path of permanently resolving your scarcity, weakness, and lack of self-worth. In other words, this is a wake up call for you to evolve into a powerful man. Do not ignore, distract, or delay this challenge any longer. This is not about the girl(s). This is about your very core as a man, or lack thereof. And this issue will not auto-correct without serious intentful effort from you. If you put this off, you will lose you gf anyway and be in a world of hurt.

I have zero interest in it.

That's as silly as saying that no one ever wakes up dreaming of buying a car. Yet when you need a car, you will happily visit a car dealership. Girls are highly social creatures. They flirt with randos all the time. It's so natural for them that they don't even think about it. And then they end up sleeping with those randos. That is their version of "game". It comes so naturally that they don't have to take any responsibility for it. They don't even have to admit to themselves that game is happening.

Lol 100s of millions of them.

@TK2021 Dude, it's just an example of elite level game. You don't have to be anywhere near as good as him to get girls to love you. You don't have to be as sexual as he is. In the context of nightclubs it would fit well. Obviously if you approach at girl in the mall you would be much more toned down and calibrated. Stop making excuses. You can learn good game and become non-creepy. A bit of creepiness as you're learning is not a big deal. Better to become charming with a few mistakes than to stay awkward and creepy forever.

Most of the things you enjoy are survival: food, sex, money, entertainment, travel, etc.

There's not even a guarantee that any one method will grant you one awakening, let alone 30 different kinds. You have to customize this process to your specific case. You test out various methods to find which ones work best for you.

Work on being more fun and chill, and approaching more.. She will automatically trust whoever is fun and chill.

You're stuck in scarcity. Go meet new girls, hotter girls.

Well, if he ate like 10g of shrooms like a fool, that could happen.

All girls are attracted to the same thing. The hotter ones are just harder to be fun and chill and detached with. It's because you feel she is hot that you start acting weird, needy, and try-hard. Hotter girls also simply have way more guys competing against you to get her, so your opportunities are much more limited. And since hot girls are rare, you simply don't bump into them often enough to have a good chance of attracting them. It's easier to attract an average girl simply because they are 20x more common and available.

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Being fun and chill is simple, but it is not easy. And at the same time you have to be able to pull that off in a highly social environments. And you have to approach. Can you approach a hot girl and be fun and chill? That takes YEARS of work for most guys. Which is why she isn't sleeping with you.