Leo Gura

When you trip so deeply that you forget you even had a human life prior to this trip. When the impossible becomes your new reality.

The point is not to lose all connection with the body but to realize that you are God -- that body is God.

In practice many people kill themselves each year thanks to low self-esteem and lack of self-love. Or they suffer depression, anger, and other issues. But also don't kid yourself. You have not approached nearly that many girls. If you did, you would be getting laid. And most girls have no problem getting laid.

Maybe it's not a dead end but a never-ending upward spiral towards God.

I don't sleep with wasted girls. Most girls have one or two drinks before having sex. This is normal social convention. I would rather girls were totally sober if it was up to me. If I'm pulling a girl I actually discourage her from drinking more because I don't like her drunk. When you got game, having girls drunk is not an advantage. It often creates needless problems. But most people are not good at building their own state while sober. They drink to let loose and get playful. This is how most people have sex. They use alcohol because they haven't taken the time to master inner game.

A man's self-esteem does depend on how well women respond to him. If you suck with girls that can't but tank your self-esteem. Just like if he cannot hold onto a job, that will tank a man's self-esteem. And if a girl is never approached by men, that will also tank her self-esteem. People want to feel sexually desirable.

Outdoors can be tricky. More things can go wrong. 1g is a good starting dose. I would not give her more. Also, be careful giving psychedelics to others, as that technically makes you a dealer.

@actually Channel that mental energy into making yourself a stronger man for other girls. The truth you're avoiding here is that you're not as strong a man as you thought you were. Okay, that's good feedback. Take that feedback and go make yourself stronger. Note: this is not about sleeping with other girls to get over your ex, this is about growing yourself into a stronger man so that next time you're in relationship you feel secure and grounded. It's about raising your value so that girls don't want to leave you. The hotter the girl the more grounded she will need you to be for her.

Aight, party over.

This.

I am happy where I am for now.

It's not possible to buy a new house next to the Strip. New construction happens on the edge of town. There are far more important considerations that go into buying a house than gaming girls. I'm not going to buy some shitty place just because it's closer.

Texas has fewer mask mandates and wearing than Vegas. Austin nightlife is best Thurs-Sat. It's pretty slow the rest of the week. Things are usually slower everywhere during the winter cold.

My inner game has improved a lot after 6 years of spiritual work. But I still get approach anxiety at times. All mental thoughts do not disappear, especially when it comes time to approach a smoking hot girl with a bunch of her friends cockblocking.

Her hotel would be easiest if not for friends. Most girls share hotels with their friends, making pulling there a terrible idea. Uber is actually better than your own car because it is considered safe and socially acceptable. Getting in a stranger's car requires a decent amount of compliance. Getting in an Uber requires less. It's exactly 25 mins to my house from the club. But with good game it feels like 10 mins to her. A girl is not running on objective time. She is running on subjective feelings.

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And how do you think intimacy is reached?

Sorry about your finch but this is not really suitable for this forum.

Don't take advantage of my generosity.

@johnlocke18 Lol. I am so cheap I have never bought a girl a drink.

No

Owning a van would increase your close rate by 5x. But people will look at you weird.

"This says more about you than it does about me."

She can't object to coming home with you when she thinks you don't have one

Racetams are not healthy. They were basically banned from US shelves by the FDA for that reason. So watch out.