How to lead others by Being Love

[Galyna]

Other is your perfect mirror.

When you do not trust yourself, others will reflect this back at you. OTHERS ARE YOU.

Any relationship you have with the other is a relationship you are having with yourself.

Here is the greatest example ever:

When you want to prove your point to the other, convincing them that they are wrong.

When you “scream” with all your power, trying to change others, trying to teach them, going beyond and above to explain yourself to them.

Then ask yourself, why are you in relationship that do not serve you? And why don’t you trust your best judgement and intuition to leave this relationship. Why are you clinging to something that is not working?

This is my biggest mistake in life, instead of leaving people, I try so hard to be heard and understood. I give people chances over and over and because I do not want to let go (out of fear).

Today I’ve seen my self-doubt for real, and I truly looked at it, probably for the first time after all these years.

I do not trust myself enough to just walk away from people. I spent years, my personal lifetime on something that I believed could work.

My spiritual ego really thinks that by leading others with Love and Light I can awaken their ego and "show them the way".

This part of me is so confident and delusional.

Reality will test you till you learn. It is like check and balances, you might think that you got something, you have learned something deeply. But if your emotional state says otherwise, you have not learned anything. If the other can still trigger you, you are lying to yourself through your teeth.

Other people are your mind conversing with Itself through imaginary experience of the Self. You are creating others right at this second.

I came to the realization how this mirror thing works. Thanks to all my forum friends, who helped me with this. 

I have only one question in mind, should I lead others by my own example, or should I let them stay asleep?

Should I stay awake all the time or play this game that there are others, and I can teach them something, so funny...

Edited October 25, 2022 by Galyna