How do I ground myself in a certain state of being?

[assx95]

The only grounding I know of, and I still don't know how to attain it (I just happen to be in it sometimes)  is to ground myself in abundance, in contrast to scarcity. What I mean is that when I am grounded in abundance, I feel full, and do not chase after things, I enjoy the beauty around me, and there is richness in life. In contrast to scarcity, where I am not satisfied cause I don't have a certain girl, or certain condition fulfilled, or I don't have food that I like. 

What other grounding is there? And how do I attain that? 

I do think, there's an overlap between the abundance vs scarcity i talked about, and the moving up of the chakras. I am not so sure though. Anyone have an inkling of what I am talking about? 

Edited May 9, 2020 by assx95