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Will I Act Ok? (ex)girlfriend

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Hello enlightened people! :) I need advice on how i should act.

Some quick background first:

Was together with my girlfriend for 7 months, she was my first real girlfriend. I have dated manny before her but never had something serious. Things were great, until she backed off and we agreed to go on a "pause". It was really hard for me but i got over it and i took it as an end to our realationship. After one month of (nearly) no contact we met and she told me she missed me and that she was sorry for a few things. She said she didn't took it as an end to our realationship and that she does not want to give up on us. After one week i wanted to initiate a kiss but i felt like she didn't want it or wasn't ready for it. Then we saw eachother few times once per week (3-4 weeks) and had fun time together, did some sports, went to a lunch, on a drink. She never brought up our realationship and niether did I. During our "dates" she did touch me quite alot - random hand touches (unintentional;) ) but never showed anything more other than she seemd to have a great time. The date arrangements were mutual - i called - she called - i called - she called. So this tells me she either is still interested or might just want to stay on a good matters. 

Ok and now:

I was thinking of telling her how i felt next time we are together and asking her if she feels the same. I want to know this becouse i don't want to be stuck and if i meet someone new i need to be ready and not stuck with old emmotions. Will i make a mistake by asking her that question? Should i do something else? I'm going out of country in a month on a vacation and if i meet someone new while there i don't want to be stuck with old emotions. 

If you need more info i'll be glad to provide ;) Thanks for any advice !!

 

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