Is It Just A Relaxation For You?

[Canadian]

Well, as a beginner in this field, I have a few questions about dating. I have learned a lot from you, really had  progress and I'm thankful for this. But at this point one question came up in my head.

 

Is it a way of relaxation for you? I mean dates, talking to opposite sex. I don't mean sex, of course sex is a way of relaxation. But before sex, talking to a girl (girl because I'm a boy ) ,  going on a date with her, having fun , is it pleasure for you ? or do you do this because you know that you have to do it if you want to get sex? In conclusion, is this everything ''Battle to get sex'' or ''Let's have fun '' ?