Confused

[TRUTH_SEEKER]

Hi everyone,

We are a LGBT couple and been in a relationship for 8 months now, and we've been going through a weird phase of too many fights and frictions.

He was picking on small things that I do (or don't do) and the way he delivered his unsatisfaction to me was always rude or too critical (I told him I could listen better if he changed the way he did it, otherwise I'd be defensive). Trying to have an adult conversation was almost impossible, since he goes through mood swings and we ended up breaking up, because at some point I also lost my patience and gave him attitude back. The breakup lasted only a week, but since we got back I feel like I've lost my patience and changed my perspective about the relationship: my thoughts now are all switched to negative, I've been less patient, overly annoyed at everything about him and also very jealous in many situations. It feels like his excessive demands over me, combined with my unsuccesful trials of communication before breaking up got me feeling insecure in this relationship. I now feel like I'm not enough for him and also question his friendship towards me, because he treated me with sarcasm while I was trying to have an adult conversation.

On top of that, I already have trust issues and a tendency to become too jealous, ending up self-sabotaging my relationships.

I'm kinda confused with my life. Toughts anyone?

[ajasatya]

@TRUTH_SEEKER from my experience, even though i'm heterosexual, there's no way other than learning how to be alone and becoming free from emotional dependencies. solitude is the strongest ally.

ALL of your relationship problems come from your fear to be alone. grow up.

Edited July 28, 2017 by ajasatya