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Olaf

How I structure my night out

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So this is how my night out is structured most of the time. I go first to a square with a few nightclubs, this is where I will do much of my warm up. As I am in Amsterdam, I cycle to the square and give high fives to people on the way lol. To warm up. Then on the square I approach a girl in the first few mins. This for me is the most important thing, I don´t want to wait longer then 5 mins, just go in the deep directly. After that I will walk around a bit either alone or if my wingman is there already, then with him. I will just do some magic for random people to warm up, wish people a good night or give a compliment to girls and walk away. Now we go to another square and from there I will go a bit deeper, making longer conversations, but not super long yet, like 2 min conversations with mainly girls, but also I talk to guys from time to time, just be careful to not stay too long talking to guys as it is more comfortable, unless it is a mixed set of guys and girls. Now around 2 a clock, this is where I really start to do longer conversations.

Also I spend allot of time singing karaoke at the karaoke bar, my secret way to get to feel like a rockstar and be in state lol. I try to go for sets that I want to talk to for a long time aswell, at this point I am so in state that I don´t have to keep approaching so much, so more like quality over quantity at this point. Then I will try to make the conversation as long as I possibly can or as Owen says (at the beginning of the night short and sweet at the end of the night burn it to the ground) the idea is that you then close, get a number or whatever. And at this point I was making the mistake that I thought intimidating sets are not approachable, but you will be suprised how kind girls are when you are in state, these intimidating sets of 8s, 9s or even 10s, become way less intimidating and they are actually very friendly even more so then maybe the more unattractive girls who gets approached a million times a night.

At that point I try to talk to everyone as mystery does it, at the beginning I used to make the mistake of not befriending the friends and only talk with the girl I am intrested in. If you befriend everyone you get acceptance of the group and even the other girls will want to make you approach their friend sometimes, for example I had a group of 3 girl yesterday and 5 mins in the conversation one girl said "she wants to be a houswife, do you want her as your housewife?". I said No, because I didn't want to lie hahahahahaha but you get the point. So this is what I would say this is how I structure it, it is much based on the system of Owen, the only difference probably would be that at the end of the night, I am a bit more critical who I want to have a longer conversation with.

I don't want to talk 15 mins long to an 18 year old, it seems very uninteresting to me to have a conversation with them for that long, I rather go for a bit older woman who have more life experience and have something to talk about like 24 or 25, something like that. Now nightgame for me is not about finding my soulmate lol, I mean it could happen, but for me it is just about having a ton of fun and more about having the ability to talk to attractive woman. Day game I am more serious about closing. I walk around 10 kms every night, I never go to a club, only bars, I always stand outside talking to people in the streets and squares where it is quiet and you don't have to yell over the music. 

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