What Leo got Right about what men and women really want?

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

26 minutes ago, Sugarcoat said:

I think it’s because of the inwardness 

Inwardness would be a function of highly sexual people. Like, you're using your karmic tools to vibrate inside

[Mellowmarsh]

2 hours ago, LordFall said:

What you're talking about is very esoteric, it's hard to make sense of. Can you share some of your journey so we can better understand what you mean? 

I don’t really know how to explain it but I’ll try…

For me personally, sex with my husband was like experiencing an OUT OF BODY experience , it is likened to the feeling of myself or should I say what I thought myself to be completely disappearing to the extreme of there was no more sense of myself or my husband anymore. It was a heavenly sensation accompanied by the most exquisite weightless sensation like I was without a body, this was also accompanied by the most exquisite sound of soft chiming bells and the feeling of being bathed in soft pink light.  There was a complete cessation of tension. And this sensation would last for ages.

Hell …for me feels like it is the heaviness that is the tension of coming back into my body afterwards, where the feeling of light and weightlessness disappeared and was replaced with the sensation of separateness again, which felt like a heavy tension, in comparison to the OOB  feeling. 
 

 

 

[Sugarcoat]

9 hours ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Inwardness would be a function of highly sexual people. Like, you're using your karmic tools to vibrate inside

How would you define karmic? I have been a little confused about what people mean by that word. Other than that I’m with you, a bit surprised by your replies actually as they sounds very different from some of your other posts I’ve read 

Edited 12 hours ago by Sugarcoat

[NewKidOnTheBlock]

2 hours ago, Sugarcoat said:

How would you define karmic? I have been a little confused about what people mean by that word. Other than that I’m with you, a bit surprised by your replies actually as they sounds very different from some of your other posts I’ve read 

Karmic tools are not the karma itself. They’re the instruments you use to work with your prana, for example; karma itself simply describes a simple cause and effect, so karmic tools entail that you use a divine tool (cause), and the effect/result of that is the vibration of your inner shakti energies, which then spill over. I ussually don't post this stuff so openly and brazenly, as the message is only meant to be received by the people who are vibrating on higher spiritual lanes; but here I am making the exception, as I see a lot of energies being kept in

[Mellowmarsh]

1 minute ago, NewKidOnTheBlock said:

Karmic tools are not the karma itself. They’re the instruments you use to work with your prana, for example; karma itself simply describes a simple cause and effect, so karmic tools entail that you use a divine tool (cause), and the effect/result of that is the vibration of your inner shakti energies, which then spill over. I ussually don't post this stuff so openly and brazenly, as the message is only meant to be received by the people who are vibrating on higher spiritual lanes; but here I am making the exception, as I see a lot of energies being kept in

Yes. This was always my personal experience during intimacy with my other half who I instinctively knew was not separate from me. 

[Mellowmarsh]

3 hours ago, Sugarcoat said:

How would you define karmic? I have been a little confused about what people mean by that word. Other than that I’m with you, a bit surprised by your replies actually as they sounds very different from some of your other posts I’ve read 

Just a few seconds before NewKid replied…I asked AI …here’s what it said…

Karmic tools, they typically mean using sexual energy as a spiritual or healing practice to clear past-life baggage, resolve deep emotional issues, or manifest a specific intention. 

The phrase blends spirituality, alternative psychology, and sometimes tantric practices to describe several concepts:

Energetic Clearing: They believe physical intimacy is an energetic exchange. Using "tools" means intentionally directing sexual energy to release or heal past traumas, break toxic cycles, or "burn off" accumulated negative karma.

Karmic Lessons: In spiritual circles, a karmic relationship is a tumultuous bond meant to teach you vital soul lessons. Using karmic tools in this context implies both partners are helping each other unearth and resolve unresolved childhood or past-life issues. 

Manifestation: In certain occult, tantric, or new-age belief systems, sexual energy is considered a powerful creative force. "Using tools" can mean meditating, focusing, or setting a specific intention during climax to shape their destiny or create spiritual change. 

[Mellowmarsh]

Rather than couples treating each other as useful ego based self gratifying physical objects. Their combined sexual energy can act as a powerful spiritual bridge to the divine, rather than just a physical urge. It transforms the physical act into a spiritual discipline that deepens both the human bond and the couple's relationship. This has to be an ethereal thing worth experiencing. And it seems to be what’s missing from their lives. 

Edited 8 hours ago by Mellowmarsh