Conditional Love vs Unconditional Love

[Emull]

Title: Conditional Love vs Unconditional Love
Main Question: Is Unconditional Love a myth?

My question is if unconditional love is a myth when it comes down to relationships.
Especially because conditional love is a process of eliminating candidates.
Meaning, conditional love is required to find the best suitor.
In that sense, unconditional love seems to be wishful thinking.
The truth of the matter is that most are toxic without caring about higher consciousness.

If conditional love is embodied, then betrayal will be punished.
If unconditional love is embodied, then betrayal will be tolerated.
The more conditional you love, the more backbone you have.
The more unconditional you love, the more spineless you are.
How to embody unconditional love but still keep up boundaries?