How to actually live a good Life when you're different

[Cred]

Seeing how many people here struggle with survival is heartbreaking.

While studying neurodiversity deeply, I have realized what the problem is.

Here is the big thing I want all of you to understand:

Survival is not the job of the neurodivergent. Survival is the job of the neurotypical. The notion that "everybody is responsible for their own survival" is the most evil idea that has ever been thought. It is a cancer that needs to be removed as fast as possible.

If you think that I'm wrong, then you are just drowning in capitalist propaganda. Humans and animals lived in groups where each member supported the other for millions of years. And now all of a sudden it should be "obvious" that living from the support of others is not a valid mode of existing anymore?

I want all of you to rinse all of your brains from this capitalist propaganda. If you are very neurodivergent, you need help. You cannot survive on your own. You need to seek support. Don't try to come up with elaborate systems that make you money. You don't care about money and you know it. Money has no value for you. You know exactly that money is fake, yet you chase it anyway because society tells you that you are useless if you don't do it. In reality, you don't need money to survive. The only thing that matters is SUPPORT. THE TRUTH IS YOU DON'T NEED MONEY TO BUY YOU SUPPORT. YOU JUST NEED TO FIND PEOPLE WHO LOVE YOU AND ACCEPT YOU.

The problem is, you don't really understand what it means to be Neurotypical (functional). You think something like "if I just were functional, focus on money and stop obsessively thinking about the truth and being inspired by infinite beauty, then my life would be great" then you have no idea what it actually means being functional. Being functional means this:

• Getting a good education and vibing
• Doing a job and vibing
• Marrying someone and vibing
• Having kids and vibing
• Getting old and vibing

But what I want you to understand is, that being functional also means this:

My life is kind of great and stable, but

• I don't really know why I'm doing all of this. Who am I actually serving? What is the meaning of all of this? I don't even know what all of this is!
• I am dependent on some super old traditions and ideas with problematic and outdated aspects to give me identity.
• I can't really inspire myself and create my own meaning, so I must be inspired, but since this system kills real authentic inspiration, for this reason I feel kind of hollow inside.
• I'm so involved with making a shit ton of money and being functional that I never get to stop and just enjoy the moment.
• I'm so involved with making a shit ton of money and being functional that I never really learned to love properly and be empathic.
• There is conflict in every one of my relationships and my marriage will likely not last forever, since I don't really understand psychology at all.

When you point a finger at these people now and call them "these damn conformity people!" at the end you are just jealous of their ease to function in this system. If you understand now that they also have it bad because they don't have anyone to show them the beauty of life, because all the neurodivergent people are in a ditch somewhere, then you can accept them, help them, and receive the help you need in return.

You don't understand how much money these people spend in their desperate attempts to save their marriages or to finally feel something. The oppression of the neurodivergent is the root cause of the meaning crisis. If you build a deep relationship with a neurotypical, you understand their need for meaning and provide it for them, what could actually happen is that they will start worshiping you and that you never have to worry about survival again. But in order to get to that point, your first have to learn to accept yourself, accept your gift, and learn to live authentically without self-judgment.

I know that this notion of independence is deeply woven into the fabric of western culture. I think this is the biggest problem of the present day and this is why I want to help to rebuild western culture entirely from the ground up.

Edited yesterday at 09:38 AM by Cred

[Cred]

The big paradox in every community is this:

• Neurotypicals cannot live without ideology.
• One has to be insensitive to meaning in order to be able to produce it.
• But if you are insensitive to meaning, then you don't value ideology.

Therefore, it only happens extremely rarely in civilization, that a new ideology is brought into existence by people who don't see meaning but understand peoples need for meaning and provide for it. Positive examples of this are Jesus and Lenin.

This has the effect that most neurotypicals follow outdated ideologies that hurt them like Judaism, Christianity, capitalism and the American dream for example.

Edited yesterday at 09:39 AM by Cred

[LastThursday]

31 minutes ago, Cred said:

this is why I want to help to rebuild western culture entirely from the ground up.

That sure is a big vision. To do that you'd have to understand all the systems that make up Western culture. All systems have leverage points: places where a small change can tip the system into a new state. Think things like Covid stopping normal working practices, or the blocking the Strait of Hormuz stopping oil movement. The main problems are finding leverage points you can affect with a small number of people, and the other is the uncertainty of tipping the system into a new state, it's not deterministic. Every other revolution will take sustained effort and is most likely futile because you're working against billions of people's entrenched habits and world views.

[Cred]

@LastThursday You are correct. My leverage point is alienation. That is the Achilles' heel. Without alienation, the system collapses

Edited yesterday at 10:15 AM by Cred