The dating rules change when you are a non-conformist

[Cred]

I thought this would fit here:

 

[LordFall]

I mean I think your comment on that thread is really good and a good point. There is such a thing as societal standards and not everyone wants to fit in that and a lot of women don't. Personally I can't stand these type of women but to each their own. There is a whole neighbourhood in Toronto called Kensington Market that embodies this subculture perfectly. If you wanted to find hot hippie girls to talk to about philosophy and how much the system suck you would day game there and you can find a hippie gf in 2 weeks easy. Weirdly there is also a neighbourhood called Kensington in Calgary that is also a bit hippie but way less than Toronto's, not sure if they're related though.

Why don't you want to be considered high value in societal standards though? It's a noble goal to aspire to IMO though and the women and men that embody it are cool to date. What's bad about being responsible, good at your job/business, well connected, taking well care of yourself, etc.

I've been to many communist meetups and I'm telling you a lot of smart people there that should use their time differently. And the girls look funky since they do embody the rejection of social norms visually and aesthetically. That's where I recommend going if you wanna pickup an intellectual rebel but I'm telling you it's overrated. 

[Cred]

1 hour ago, LordFall said:

Why don't you want to be considered high value in societal standards though?

Trying to reach prestige and being societally accepted is poison if you have ADHD (non-symbolic, non-conformist, less filtering in perception, less parallel processing)

This is because to you, these things are not real. It is not authentic and that's why it's draining. If this is not the case for you then maybe you don't have ADHD.

What I'm saying is, being a conformist or being a non-conformist is not a choice. If you are a conformist, and you live among non-conformists you will suffer just as much as when you are a non-conformist among conformists.

I'm not saying conformity is stupid and non-conformity is based. It is simply a difference in brain processing. I've written about this topic in this post: 

1 hour ago, LordFall said:

a lot of smart people there that should use their time differently

If you understand history and you understand how evil liberalism is, you will understand that communism is the ultimate life purpose. (For a non-conformist) 

1 hour ago, LordFall said:

And the girls look funky since they do embody the rejection of social norms visually and aesthetically. That's where I recommend going if you wanna pickup an intellectual rebel

That's precisely what I'm doing atm. These girls look funky because they are the embodiment of ADHD-authenticity on earth. If you don't find girls like Alysa Liu attractive, you likely just don't have ADHD.

1 hour ago, LordFall said:

but I'm telling you it's overrated

Again, it's only overrated if you don't have ADHD.

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[LordFall]

I also have diagnosed ADHD, you just have victim thinking that's different. Very deadly but fortunately very curable. Very common in non conformist circles and hippie circles which is why I dislike them.

Highly recommend the pomodoro method if you want to be productive. I'm not the top business owner in the world but I manage to get a decent amount of stuff done in 20 min increments in between anime and other hobbies throughout the day. 

What do you mean communism as a life purpose? Like you do nothing and other people provide for you? Thankfully for you you are immensely blessed to be living in 2026 and thus that's an actual possibility for your life. Maybe the AI overlords will decide to take care of you. 

Alysa Liu looks stunning, she's peak conformity what do you mean literally an olympic athlete dedicated her life to her craft and representing team USA in olympics. She's climbed at the top of the system through hard work. Plenty of girls that die their hair and have piercings that don't do shit with their life and complain all day, that's more the stereotype that I would personally recommend staying away from. 

 

 

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[Cred]

2 hours ago, LordFall said:

you just have victim thinking that's different

This phenomenon of "victim thinking" that you are talking about stems from self-hatred that stems from non-acceptance of neurodivergency. I'm not advocating for self-hatred. I'm advocating to learn to love ones neurodivergency and live authentically.

2 hours ago, LordFall said:

Very deadly but fortunately very curable.

Strategies like pomodoro and gamification work but are not sustainable in my experience. Do you have chronic health issues by any chance?

2 hours ago, LordFall said:

What do you mean communism as a life purpose? Like you do nothing and other people provide for you? Thankfully for you you are immensely blessed to be living in 2026 and thus that's an actual possibility for your life. Maybe the AI overlords will decide to take care of you. 

Your ignorance is stunning me once again. You have absolutely no idea what you are talking about.

2 hours ago, LordFall said:

Alysa Liu looks stunning, she's peak conformity what do you mean literally an olympic athlete dedicated her life to her craft and representing team USA in olympics. She's climbed at the top of the system through hard work

Alysa Liu has retired from ice skating from the pressure and returned under the conditions that she can train, eat and carry herself how she wants. There is a quote from her where she is asked where she gets the motivation, and she says that she doesn't need motivation to train. She needs neither gamification nor pomodoro nor some other bullshit to be at the top since she is completely aligned with her authentic self and therefore intrinsically motivated. If you need this shit for anything then you are not aligned

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