What did I do wrong with her.

[Ramasta9]

I mean its not hard to read your whole game, she read you like a book, she was just playing you and playing a long. You can't just talk to women like that lol they are not objects or dolls without a brain. Get to know them better, get in touch with your feminine side a bit more, if you really want their attention.

Edited January 16 by Ramasta9

[theleelajoker]

2 hours ago, meta_male said:

@theleelajoker Sure, that can happen and I agree that roles can be fluid. But in early dating with low emotional investment the initiative usually comes from the person who wants the date to happen, momentum doesn't create itself. Waiting passively and judging in silence is more avoidant than balanced.

Agree on that. 

[Opulence]

She won't appear out of the blue if she isn't already emotionally invested in you. Build a solid plan. But before that, try having a long solid conversation, if she keeps going, you know she is interested, if not, most likely she will flake on it.

[Flint]

On 14/1/2026 at 7:04 PM, jacknine119 said:

You should've set a time and a place to meet, for instance for drinks. Like meet me at x at 8pm Wednesday. 

She simply might've forgot, because you didn't agree on concrete plans. Now again on the other hand if she were interested she would not have forgotten, but often she's never going to act needy by asking "where do we meet etc".

You can always try again with : sorry I forgot about Wednesday, let's grab drinks on x days if that work for you. 

Then again it depends on the overall interaction we know nothing of.

 

Edited 4 hours ago by Flint