The Princess and the Frog

[Princess Arabia]

Women might not care about truth, but they care if you like them truthfully.

Edited September 9 by Princess Arabia

[Princess Arabia]

How to seduce a woman. Don't. Just be you. Make her laugh.

 

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How to make a female want to have sex with you over and over. Make her cum before you do. Thank me later. 

 

 

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Never tell a female you love her while s screwing her. She won't believe you and you just lost her trust. Excluding husbands and bfs, of course - doesn't apply. Infact, that's when you've gained her trust as long as it's the case.

 

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Never treat all females the same. Get to know the one you're with and treat her accordingly. If you don't, you'll confuse her and yourself. 

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Play this song while making love to her. She'll float in ecstasy. I know I would. 

Fav song. It touches every cell and gives me goose bumps. I think about grinding on top of something hard while this song plays and I melt like chocolate ice-cream. Ok I know a bit cheesy. Choco-latte Frate, my love🥰🥳🥰

[Princess Arabia]

Most guys don't realize it's not WHAT turns a woman on but WHO turns a woman on. She can like anything (within reason) if she's with the guy that turns her on from the get go. 

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What is stopping some of these younger men from 'scoring' is the way they feel about themselves. Period. Point blank. Older men have to impress a little bit harder. 

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Women are waking up to men's games and men just don't have anywhere to go with theirs. Women have more wiggle room to maneuver the game but because all men mostly want is sex, it gets harder for them to work around that.

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The lies being told that most women only want or are with only the top 10% is what's making most of the other men who don't follow and believe that bullshit going out and finding women to date. These internet stories does nothing for the average male who are still trying to make it have any confidence in themselves to just go for it and let loose. They look at women they're attracted to and tell themselves from the get go that she doesn't want a man like me because I'm not in the top 10-20% so he doesn't even try. Such a shame. 

[Princess Arabia]

Some men are one-timers because instinctively they know women are the prize and if they didn't have to compete for that prize, then that prize isn't worth having. 

Another thing is it's not the sex they were after, it was the prize. Doing it again diminishes the feeling of it still being the prize. Same as any sport. Winning the Super Bowl novelty wears off after awhile and on to the next challenge, next year. Who is still excited about last year's winner. 

Those guys have very low self-esteem and need to go after the next to validate their sense of worth. They use women to do this but it reflects in other ways in their lives and also uses other tools for self-validation. 

Many guys that sees hookers are the same way too. After the first time, it's on to the next. They don't want that same prize again. These are just regular guys, so it's not a special breed. Amy guy can see hookers at any time. Some guys think because they don't, they don't need to because they can get sex anytime, anywhere. These guys can too,.it's just they like the thrill of the freshness of the prize. Stale prize isn't exciting anymore to them.

Mind you,.not all guys are like this, some might want to savor the prize for awhile and then move on. Some might even stay for awhile but have fantasies about other prizes. Some might never want to compete for another prize, it's all different. After he's been with a woman for a while,.especially if he's younger, he's going to want to explore other prizes on the display table. The one's who value themselves will have this itch and it will bother them like crazy. Do I, do I not. Jeez, the temptation in is real.

Men are also the prize, but in a different way. I'll save that for another post. Prize, in this context, doesn't mean better than. It just means something of value to the other person. Having sex with a man for a woman, isn't valuable,.it's not a challenge, she doesn't have to compete for it. It doesn't give her a sense of worth, it may actually diminish it sometimes. Women value something different in a man. 

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Some men wanna be leaders but they want to split the bill on the first date because they're not sure she's either worth it or who they want to court long-term. 

Well, you've demonstrated from the get go that you don't know how to lead and what it takes for a woman to feel safe and secure around you and to choose you to be her leader. 

Some women will gladly split the bill. Some women will even offer to split the bill; but it's because she doesn't truly respect or trust you to be her lead and won't feel a sense of guilt WHEN she decides to move on if you haven't done it first.

It's never about the money, but what the money symbolizes the same way anything else does. Whatever it is that attracted you to her to begin with, was a symbol.

Insecure guys feel like suckers if they pay the a date. They will literally pay for something else that means very little to them but justify in their mi ds why they feel they shouldn't pay. All sorts of reasons. Why do you want to lead. Why do you want me to make you feel like a man, feel good, respected and loved. Well, paying a bill for a date you asked me out on is showing me that you you have enough respect for yourself to demonstrate that you don't use money to value the relationship. 

One might say goes both ways, well first of all he asked me out, secondly, it represents leadership, security and safety, thirdly, men and women are not the same in these regards and you don't need to feel safe and secure with me and have me lead you as a man and paying for a bill you asked me out on symbolizes these things. My role is to show up and your role is to impress. There's no impressing if I'm digging into my wallet while on a date with a man. 

 

 

[Princess Arabia]

Women don't leave you, men don't leave you; they appear or they don't. Yeah, I had to throw in a bit of this shit in here. Gotta try to keep it a bit more natural other than that unnatural reality about men this and women that and making up stories to keep this shit going. 

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Everything in this life speaks for itself, you just have to pay attention. One of them is the disdain some men have for women that sleeps around. It's how they view themselves as a man that brings on this disdain. Notice how men aren't viewed negatively the more women they get to sleep with; why is that. C'mon people wake up; and men, stop telling on yourselves. 

[Princess Arabia]

A woman will get looked down upon as a hooker just trying to pay her bills while a guy praised for wanting to tap some strangers ass simply because it looks good to him. 

Edited September 28 by Princess Arabia

[Princess Arabia]

Wise words.

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Some men will think just because a female loves something done to her sexually, she's going to love it when he does it to her. It's all a matter of who it's being done by; and trust me, it won't be by some dude she just met. She may act or be a certain way under the influence, but it takes a certain person for a woman to want some special sexual act from. 

They'll ask "what turns you on" but it's more like " who turns you on".

It took me awhile to even come to grips with how men can just be turned on by a woman's body without knowing anything about her. This was when I was much younger. Even now it kills me how men can just think they can ask me what I like sexually and really expect an answer for them to fulfill. I'm not talking about relationship wise, I'm talking about guys I just met or have never been with sexually. Doesn't matter what I like, it won't feel the same if it's not being done by a specific person, and that's usually someone you have feelings for whether healthily or not. 

 

 

 

[Princess Arabia]

I will be called a whore or a tramp (just saying, not that I am being called that)if I use my body to pay my bills and eat and not give away anything sexual to any and any guy I meet while a guy will be edged on, encouraged, high-fived and called a Don for sticking his dick in some strange pussy he just met without a condom for free and just go be able to cum or be with some woman.

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A woman can usually detect a woman hater. She can feel it. She feels everything. The one's she comes in contact with physically are harder to detect than the one's online because in person, they'll put up a bit more front. The one's online feels they're hiding behind a screen so they'll let their guards down a bit and expose their true nature more easily especially if they're not trying to get anything from her. Just the words they use and how angry they sound and how personal they take everything; but the main sign and dead give-away is when they call the woman they're hating on a man-hater. It's the #1 sign that he himself is a woman-hater.

If a woman is a self-proclaimed man-hater and just constantly hates on men and is obviously a man-hater and the conversation calls for pointing that out, that's different; but just out the blue to make his weak points, then it's just a projection of his own feelings towards women especially if done in an angry way. Women can feel these things especially when she herself is a loving person, has never been called that before by anyone in her personal life by the people that knows her best and have only been called that by men who doesn't know her personally but knows what she does for a living because that's an automatic death sentence that you hate men if you're a stripper or a working girl.  Even when I haven't been called a man hater in this context, the men expect it from us because they're thinking we must have it hard in the field and get treated by men badly all the time which is so far from the truth.