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Guys i was studying rape and i got an insight which is that rape is just a form of anti social behavior. Like when the person doesn't develop normal socializations skills, they can lack the necessary empathy and awareness and rape someone. This kind of anti social behavior, can stem from trauma or brain disorder. like anti social personality disorder. And by trauma i mean something like your parents molesting you, which is very common. Imagine you're a little kid, and the people you trust the most molest and rape you, that's some serious trauma, right there. It will skew and shape your entire worldview, might develop some contempt for all of humanity, which can later lead to dehumanization of others, and a potential possibility of becoming a rape perpetrator yourself. Guys i want you to be very honest, what if you were born with a genetic disfiguration or something, and you were straight, yet no girl would sleep with you, because you were so outside of society's beauty standards. How would you deal with the situation, will rape sound like a rational decision then ? I am just showing you the complexities of the situation and why rape sometimes happen. It's very nuanced and complex and not as simple as a black and white rapist are evil kind of scenario. Rape has been a problem for hundreds of thousands of years yet we didn't solve it. Shows you there's something deeper going on than just "rapist are evil" kind of scenario.

@Hojo Look buddy not everything has to be looked at through spirituality as a lens. You gotta learn to use basic rationality sometimes. You're about to tell us: " ohhh i went raping and murdering three people, however it's God's intelligent design and beauty shining though, after all i'm so intelligent that i understand i have no free will i can't choose not to rape and murder." You see how absurd this is ?

Pick up is materialism run rampant. Pick up can lead to feelings of hollowness, as well as sex addiction. It objectifies women, and treat them as numbers and sex toys. Pick up feeds the narcissistic sociopathic ego of men who are lusty and sex addicted. Pick up often stems from trauma, whether be it due to lack of success with women prior to it or a betrayal in an intimate relationship. The pick up artist's mind is on a spectrum of breaking taboos and always ever more boldness and passing limits, which in a certain sense pick up can lead to rape and murder of women, think of necrophiles and serial killers like Ted Bundy who were very misogynistic, objectified women and had this ego which liked the breaking of taboos, through criminal boldness, which in the case of Ted Bundy led to rape and murder. I am not saying pick up is equal to serial killing and raping of women, i am saying it's a spectrum and pick up tend to develop in men anti social psychopathic qualities because it objectifies women, and treat them transactionally as sex objects. As well as pick up being hedonistic which adopting a hedonistic attitude can lead to dysfunctions in other areas in life, such as drug addiction, indulging in junk food, nihilistic partying, alcoholism, gambling... Pick up feed the ego of narcissistic maniacs who always crave validation, and external approval through seduction.

If we think of rape as a spectrum, since i got into picking up girls and gaining experience in the area of seduction my mind has definitely loosened about the notion of rape. Like i already kissed and touched girls without their official consent, and they were fully all over me and loved it. So in my mind, the gross idea of someone raping a stranger in the dark alley, i don't know if this happens at all, and also if it happens it is very rare and usually done by people with a mental disorder. Most normal people will not rape someone in a dark alley, but they can be bold and confident. ,My claim is if girls liked me touching and kissing them without their official consent, then where is the line between consensual and non consensual. I one time went talking to a girl at the club and without me even telling her anything, she went and accused me to the security guard. I didn't touch her, didn't have the time to make a full sentence, she went and reported me, i concluded she was mentally ill or something. And another time at the mall, in the day, i went and kissed a girl that i didn't know, after talking to her for a couple of senconds and she was happy about it. So my question is: what is rape ?

Infinite relativism leads to insanity. God is infinite relativism. God is the sum of all minds that exists. Which is what a wise mind understands. Hence wisdom is insanity. And God is insanity. Normal minds work monolithically: you’re either a muslim, or a jew, or an atheist, or a buddhist, or a christian... madness which is God is all of these minds at once, which is nothing. The point of philosophy, is to deconstruct the mind from its metaphysical baggage to reach God’s consciousness which is insanity, wisdom and. nothingness. When diving into the mind you have to take into account how insane minds work, psychopathic minds, schizophrenic minds... Under materialism the brain is just going insane, under idealism, the mind is infinity, hence every mental illness is a manifestation of this infinity. And here’s the genius of all this: love is insanity. Elaborating upon it will take from you the juice of discovering why for yourself through contemplation. But here’s how it works: love is a radical thing. Basically everything is love, including “evil” things this is what infinite love means. If infinite love exists, which it does simply because why would God create anything else, if God created anything else than infinite love, it wouldn’t be God who had created it. To create anything is to create out of love, notice creating heaven is a creation out of love, you’re already in heaven, but what you haven’t noticed is that genocide, war, murder, rape, mental ilness... are all part of heaven. This is the magic of God. Because all these things are love, and to love all these things is insanity, however without love none of these things could exist. Because love is existence, which is God and insanity.

To understand killers like Ed Kemper, Ted Bundy, or Jeffrey Dahmer, I must pose the question: what is sexuality? Because sexuality was deeply connected to the murders committed by these killers. Sexuality is something animalistic, without emotions; it is a state of consciousness within the infinity of consciousness. Sexuality is a desire. Therefore, the murders of Ted Bundy, Ed Kemper, and Jeffrey Dahmer were a form of sexual orientation. Rape is obviously something sexual even for many women, because many women have rape fantasies—being dominated or violated by men. The desire of these three killers, already mentioned, is not very different from the desire of many women to be violated.

@Emerald Don't bring up past threads, let's just focus on this one. My point is reality is fluid and rape a mental construct. To put it simply it just doesn't exist, most of the times.

21 years old virgin, keep failing at pick up despite thousands of approaches. It's just that there's something wrong with life, at this point. I just don't understand what more should i do to get girls. I guess the problem with pick up is that it's seen as creepy to talk to strangers, it's just uncomfortable and unnatural, people naturally just want to talk to people they already know. I'm tired of failure. There must be something wrong with this world, man, i just don't get it at this point. Abstinence is torture and doesn't work. And when you try to take responsibility and fix your sex life, it also doesn't work. What should i do ? Go and rape a girl then? I just hate life because of this problem, all i do is think about girls and all i get is rejections. Is it my fault i was born with a body that craves sex without being able to ever satisfy this need ?

To have a similar consciousness and mind than mine you have to deconstruct religion, science and materialism. Deconstruct everything until what remains is pure consciousness, God. Atheists are generally less deluded than religious folks, i mean the fact that the insanity of religion isn't obvious to intelligent people is beyond my comprehension. However the error atheists make is that they think that religion is the only delusion the mind is capable of, which is wrong. The problem is much more serious, the wall that you see is imaginary, if you think the wall is real, you're deluded. This is how deep delusion goes. This deconstruction happens both individually but also collectively as a culture and society: people have deconstructed slavery for example, religion through the european enlightenment and secularism, gender with lgbtq+ rights and feminism, science and materialism with the psychedelic revolution. You also have to deconstruct criminality: murder, rape, genocide... These things aren't bad, they happen for diverse reasons, biological, physiological, cultural... You have to deconstruct morality, the difference between dream and reality... and finally you would have to die to reach God, and by death i mean deconstructing the difference between life and death.

@Leo Gura Dude girls are too spoiled these days, remember when my ancestors had rape game, today putting your hands around her shoulders is considered too much lmao.

The reason criminals exist is not because they're immoral but because they're the most moral. So for example a thief justifies theft using morality that he needs to thieve for his family. Or a rapist justifies rape by fulfilling his sexual needs. Or a murderer justify murder by saying the person is so despicable he deserves it. Morality is relative. A meat eater justifies eating meat by saying he needs to feed himself or humans are superior and animals inferior. And a vegan justifies his lifestyle saying that he loves animals and doesn't want them to suffer. It's all relative. For half the population on the planet gay sex is evil and immoral, for the other half gay sex is just love and homophobia is what is immoral. For hitler the jews were an inferior despicable race. For people today hitler was a monster. So you see it's all relative. What we consider criminals don't consider themselves criminals. It's relative.

God is infinite life experience. Because God is ultimate wisdom . And wisdom comes from experience, hence for God to be wise he has to experience everything infinitely. That's why genocide, war, rape, murder exist. Because for God to be wise he has to have infinite experience, he has to experience everything that is possible. And for God nothing is impossible, hence we get the juicy paradox when talking about the transcendental, which is that God infinite experience hence infinite wisdom. All experience that exists is God's experience. Your life is God experiencing specific dimensions and of life and existence. That why you were created, for God to gain wisdom. You are God.

@Leo Gura i mean i guess if someone want to rape my daughter he would do it regardless of what she's wearing, like when i do pick up sometimes i hit on women who wear scarfs lol they can be attractive. did you ever hit on a girl who was wearing a scarf ? like the islamic scarf

@Leo Gura yeah but do you think not giving any solution, worse criminalizing pedophilia is actually better ? at the end of the day pedophiles aren't gonna sit around and wait for permission their whole life, they're just gonna do what it takes to satisfy their sexual needs. the thing with sexuality is that it's literally impossible to suppress, sooner or later, it will pop out in uglier ways. if i was only attracted to children, i'll go and rape, and i won't give a fuck about the ethics. i'm not gonna sit there for decades without doing anything about it. that's the reality, when humans can't have their most central needs met in an ethical way, they'll meet them in a criminal way. just look at human history. you're telling dozens of millions of people to just rape or suicide.

hey leo, i wanted to ask you how do you justify murdering thousands of animals in your lifetime by eating a carnivore diet. i know you have health issues but still why would one life be worth more than that of thousands of animals, if you were forced to rape thousands of women in your lifetime and you knew it was going to hurt them, but you had to do it for survival, would you do it or would you choose to kill yourself ? i'm not guilting you just trying to genuinely understand how can one justify that. i myself eat meat because of necessity due to my current conditions.