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Hey everyone, For a large portion of my life, I have struggled with attracting women and social anxiety. As such I have been into pickup and going out for many years now. Although I have made some progress, I have not got close to the results I really wanted to achieve. There have also been some challenging times, which have led me to want to help others struggling with the issues I have faced. In the past I have struggled quite a bit to find a life purpose but so far this is the most compelling one for me. I also know this industry has a lot of toxicity and would love to see if I can help improve it. So, the plan I’m thinking of is: Firstly, I need to get good enough to coach others. What I have been doing by myself so far has not worked that well and improvements are coming very slow, especially considering the amount of time and energy I have spent at bars and clubs. I think I need a coach to do this in the most effective manner possible. Coaches can be expensive, and I am not earning enough at my current job. I also need flexibility in my schedule to be able to go out to bars and clubs and put the teachings into practice. I have thought about doing freelance copywriting, as this would offer me both the money and schedule flexibility. I watched Leo’s video on the evils of marketing so I would be open to any other possible suggestions. I think specifically I would try to do copywriting for pickup coaches as this is industry related and would help me when I have my own business. After being a dating coach for a while, I want to get serious into consciousness/enlightenment practice and maybe merge that with pickup somehow if that’s even possible. I’m not a 100% on this though, as I know making pickup your life could end up being very toxic if you do it the wrong way. I’d love to hear any advice or pitfalls I haven’t thought of with this strategy. Sorry for the essay. Thanks for any help 😊

Ive been struggling for a long while to try and find any meaningful direction in my life. I'm currently doing a degree in engineering, which ive grown to dislike. I do want to change into something else but I really don't know what to change into. I've spent a lot of time thinking about this and all I really want is things very low on Maslow's hierarchy (money, sex, social status). But I really want to want to do something impactful but I just don't have the emotional drive for anything else and I feel guilty about not really wanting to do anything of value to the world. No career of that sort really appeals to me. But when I think of having an online business (for example marketing) that could possibly make me alot of money and allow me lots of freedom I get drive to do that. But it would be just for the money. I know intellectually that it won't fulfill me and that if that's all I do in life I will regret it. I've never really excelled at anything, always been quite average. So I don't really have any obvious talents. Should I just pursue money so I can move up the hierarchy? Or wait till I find something better? I've been stuck for a number of years now. I'm am also very interested in meditation and enlightenment, but I'm not sure I'm coming from the right place to persue that yet. I currently really dislike what I'm doing and am craving a clear direction so I can move out of it. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Cheers guys.