Aquarius

Don't ask me, I didn't say it. Ask the person who said it. Probably they be just trolling our naivity or testing our receptiveness or whatever. Maybe that person is a different kind of alien.

Probably a bait. Why do I even have empathy at this point. ?

Totally, haha. I think releasing wounds and shadows is a messy process. I do cry a lot, often. ^^^ Only saying this because this thread made my cry at some point. Not because of sadness though.

I understand now, thanks for clarifying. I wasn't generalizing, I was talking about myself.

Yes I agree, you're young. Just be careful, ok? Not sure who you talking to, but I'm digging the vibe. You're a good person. I've gone through so much bad stuff, all because going with the flow and not taming my animalistic brutality. Sometimes you can hurt other people's feelings while not being frank with yourself, you know what I'm trying to say? It's very valuable that you opened up like this, at least to me, idk why, probably because I'm meditating for 10 hours minimum every day and I don't even know how globe the earth is (???), but yeah... Timing is key, either way, I'll add that to that. Also what you do with your time. And I also don't think you desired that relationship with her, you just didn't wanna hurt her feelings. You can be easy-going without giving in to feeling sorry for someone. Maybe I misinterpreted everything. Just putting my thoughts out there.

Status is part of societal hierarchy. Zero just tries to awaken you to a wider perspective. He doesn't mean to hurt you or make you sound bad or needy. And if you ask me, you sound like you want to be seen as an alpha woman. Or at least you really fight to be heard. That's great but... I say, just tell your truth how it is, and let it be. Leo would probably call what we do a mental-masturbation. Idk, I'm not him To be an alpha woman you just have to trust your instincts and walk away proudly and with dignity when it's time. Alpha women do not care to prove their truth. They lead by example. (for someone that questions me, I did read a book on alpha personality, so don't tell me I'm making this thing up) I don't think I'm an alpha. Meh, couldn't care less, -- but that's probably a lie I tell myself. Honestly I just wanna be more independent. I'm already making the first steps in independent thinking. Very at the beginning though. It's also a question of wisdom, not just alpha-ness or independence and respect. A wise person will try to see the perspective of the other one, even if it's sometimes difficult to grasp. It's a gift to be able to see through other people's lens, but it can be also obtained by training it. My mind is very scattered. I do try to focus on this now though. Preety, I do hope I said something helpful, I'm just trying to help really. Maybe you don't need my help, but then again I'm just expressing my own vision on the situation. Sorry if I ever sound harsh or rude, I'm just very raw and brutal when I speak. Head in the clouds probably too (maybe on another planet actually woosh....)

Some women do make up to impress men. And that's not wrong. It's totally fine. And most of it is unconscious and subconscious, so sometimes we have to look inside ourselves. I actually do make up because I think men won't like my natural face. I'm always told I look too masculine. My body is fine I guess. But other girls call me chubby which doesn't help my self esteem. But yet it helps me lift myself up from my own misery. Not meaning to say you are miserable, but I am miserable sometimes, and now I'm talking about myself, not you. If I don't live a normal life and just meditate all my life. Also talking about my own life. I do believe you though when you say you do it for yourself. But you do it for yourself. Why do you do it for yourself? What is the gain/benefit? When I do make up for myself I like to think that Mother Nature is proud of me lmao. In all honesty, I'm weird like that.

Nobody is forcing anything on anyone. Who said life revolves around genitals? But love and attraction is part of life and it's good to embrace it. Don't close yourself into yourself like that. I've been there where you are and it's not a nice place to be. And Zero is not doing a good job by trying to make you to come out of your shell like that. And seriously you guys can stop fighting because we all have our own pace and our own struggles and evolution. We all have our own natural pace and you two clearly have different positions. Try putting yourself on the other's place. No need to argue so much, it's all very simple. Men want a girl who can take care of herself and look decent. Girls want a man that respects her and understands her emotionally and listens and actually hears her. Not everyone plays game either. Some just live life and move with the waves/tides/flows... I do miss dating though. I mean I'm still young... Can we all be honest with ourselves?

Y'all need some love, if you don't have it already. Take it, it's free. The love is out there.

I don't aim to be a mother but I want a nice guy and lots of cool animals. So yes, while I am happy being single, I also enjoy expressing myself through make up and clothes. But is it wrong to want to be beautiful for someone you like? I'm asking sincerely.

I think it comes for limiting beliefs and social media/movies.

*Young men are predominantly looking for looks over personality/status/etc,. But yes, biologically that's correct. Symmetry and golden ratio is all over nature, It's science. I think it might be true. And who says being beautiful is a sin, right? Beauty is so versatile though. Charm, attractiveness, physicality, sexuality, sensuality, purity, naturalness, efortlessness, symmetry, elegance, etc.

I think I don't respect myself quite enough. But even if I did idk why others don't respect me. I have so much to tell sometimes but no one will hear it. Or they confuse it with the bs new age weirdness. Or marketing stuff. I've been called a Microsoft Robot by my ex when we were still in the dating phase when being myself, purely myself. Maybe it's a communication thing. I never get it quite right. And when I find someone I vibe with they can't go with my own pace. I'm taking it too fast, giving it too fast. The information I mean. I should be more thorough probably. And alrighty what you mean by wide picture?

Word.

I think it all depends on perspective. I think she is beautiful and intelligent. If I wanted I could list the flaws I see in her, and the emphasis is on the I/eye (???/ of the beholder?), but that wouldn't be fair because 1. I don't know her personally, and 2. it's none of my business to trash people or to gossip. I just simply appreciate her and wish her the best in her career path. I do see she is working hard and trying her best. She's a decent example. I tried making podcasts like 3 times now and I end up creating wonky and freaky shit every time. oops. I could learn a thing or two about communication. I won't give up though, I bet there are people who appreciate my work. We all find our tribes in the end. It's a matter of time, discipline, persevering... For me the problem is that there are people who keep fucking up my work. Purposefully. And I don't know why. Maybe I'm just a very vulnerable person, easy target. Or just pure imagination. But I do have people attacking me almost on daily basis, based on gossip. It's not cool.

For me it's a turn off if every woman wants her.... that's suspicious. Like idk, if she's every woman's type there's something going wrong in there. Sounds like either a red flag or something sneaky.... Idk somehow it sounds scary. Maybe I'm just having a certain degree of carefulness when something is way up high there... If he's ok and honest then sure, might give a try, but I get so much jealousy and trash from other females for no apparent reason either way.... and younger than me too. Like wtf girls, just live your life and let other girls live too. Also what you made is a very hypothetic statement. What exactly do you mean by "every woman wants"? What does that look like in your mind?

if she took it as weakness she's not the right one, I tell you that for sure. I think vulnerability is nice, but highly depending on situation, circumstances, context and personality types.......

Yeah thanks for that. I need someone to shake me up sometimes. Actually, the reason I am single right now is because I made very wrong choices with relationships and men. I treated men like men treat women. And boyyyyyyyyyy how sad it got. Lol I ain't even sad about it that's how sad it is. I'm just focusing on money career and mental stability nowadays. I don't want to depend 100% on a man financially, even though I got that option many times, but I am picky with men. I refused each time. I know my worth. And it's not high either, and I don't have sophisticated standards. I just want to respect myself for once. Definitely not waiting till 30 to get a faithful man. I don't even know if I'll live till then. Not all of us are gifted in the same way, maybe I am creative and energetic, but I have to work on wisdom and orderliness. It's all a long work in progress and I'm far behind others career-wise ._.

Woah girllllll congrats on 16000+ posts just noticed. I keep disappearing nowadays. Yeah I mean she's not perfect, and I totally empathize with her. I'm as imperfect as it gets and I make do somehow. It's a dog eat dog world. Shallow is a fitting word for the way of thinking associated with criticism of that sort. She comes to bring a message, not to be a beauty model. But I think she looks very nice, idk how much of that is make up. I don't even care and nobody should. The models we see in fashion magazines are retouched by photoshop and are rarely above 17 years old. And even models will tell you it's not about being beautiful. I think there's also narrowmindedness. And fixations. Like only caring about sex, game, money, power... it's very one-sided. Yes, it's essential on a basic level, but you don't wanna get stuck there. Sometimes you have to get out of the muddy waters to breathe some fresh air and smell the roses.

Oh yeah. Winter is awesome. Thinking of summer in our times makes me wanna work out all day and night. Then I just end up meditating for 10 hours straight and speaking spiritual cheese on forums. THE GOOD PART IS THAT IM HONEST AND AUTHENTIC I'm going to congratulate myself for the authenticity this time, for honest you always should be. It's a must.

Someone like her probably. Someone that connects to what she has to say. Probably she has some severe wounds, considering she keeps talking about problems. Maybe a savior complex too. She has some great insights though. She's nice. But why do you criticize her so harshly? Can you say 1 nice thing about her? (not saying you have to just wondering what's up)

I had been with guys like Zero and it can be a healing process if you allow it, Careful what you say, even saying "not worth your time", you gave away a few seconds to write that. Maybe you care on some deeper level. After all, you are defending yourself. I don't think anyone loses anything, and nobody is wasting nobody's time. We are all here to learn, listen and speak our truths. OR just have a good natural conversation. But in other terms, yes it's really valid that some guys see women as sex toys. It's up to the woman to become the change she wants to see in the man. I guess. Idk I'm single lol. Anyway, there is some truth in a previous post I've read, Teal Swan markets herself as a guru/teacher, and sells her work. In this case it's totally fine to criticise her work. I see some passive aggressive narcissistic tendencies in her, like she constantly has to prove herself to herself. But it's been like 1 year since I watched any of her videos, so maybe it's my fault for never watching the vids. I feel like what she shares is valuable and we all have our own emotional battles to fight, of course, so I won't trash her, God forbid.

It's more than meets the eye. And it is how it is anyway, men and women exist, sometimes this has to happen, it's all part of the process, you have to trust the importance of discussion and argument. I don't mind the heat. It's spring after all, warming up ayy lmao jk I wonder how summer's gonna be.

The problem with the modern world is that everything is being put a label or a price on. And value is monetized while money is just an illusion/tool - often misused and misunderstood. Find abundance (????) By value you can mean existential or metaphysical value too, or just simply something dear to you. Why do you all desensitize yourselves? Ever had a divine shakti empowerment/activation/healing, you'll be reconsidering the words you just said ZeroIsInfinity, idk if you really mean it or it's just something you parrot like a puppet. And ask yourself who made these rules in the first place and who is controlling the game, and then you can go and pilot your own life wherever you feel like. Don't limit yourself and don't be shallow, you can be do and have anything you want anytime and anywhere, it's just a matter of openness and understanding. Also patience is king and yes I agree with calculations and analysis, but in the end you have to trust your nature, and the nature of nature itself as a holistic ecosystem.

Root chakra balancing work is essential if you want anything done like ever and properly. Fight the fear? Nah, become the Light Within. In other news I became hypersensitive to my medication and now I thankfully (and much gratefulness for it from my part),,I function super properly simply on being myself. I couldn't do it before, ain't gonna kid you. Honestly, you have to face it sometimes that you have a past. I've been sick yo, sick to the core. Haha I kinda laughed this morning on something irrelevant But anyway, just for the feel of it, I will tell you that cigarettes are poison. Or poisoned idk. It's kinda shady there, but hey, nobody stops you to smoke them. They actually help with inner core work. You train your body resistance. Don't do it though. It's bad, addictive and ceases your survival chances. I just pass on the info I got from personal experience. Also keep hydrating yourself but only when you need it. Don't ever feel sorry/pity for yourself for having needs. You are human, all of us are.