AlexB

I'm sure they are, but they're a pretty rare catch had a deep relationship with one girl that appreciates pretty much all the things you listed, shining personality and exploding femininity, it was something mystical, even when we decided to take our separate ways we did it with love and still have much respect for one another and hear each other every once in a while to talk about our current relationships, your boyfriend /husband is one lucky dude

I'd marry a women like that if I'd find her! Ahahahah

The goal would be to become the water that gets poured in the glass, water takes every form and becomes the glass itself, and if you put water in a barrel it becomes the barrel. We must flow with life just like water flows everywhere, every growth is a new experience that we must flow with, as Bruce Lee would say "Be water my friend" ✌

I used to use affirmations, helps you when you feel down, yes it feeds your ego in a way but at least it gives it something good. So if it helps you affirmations are good. I used to use them in my early journey now I don't listen to them anymore but it's my personal choice. Affirmations tell you things you deserve to have such as happiness and that you are worthy etc, basically reprograms your subconscious mind with new healthy beliefs. You'll feel it when it's time to move on,until then enjoy what you have

Thinking I knew everything was a big trap for me, and still is. Everytime I think I know something just because I read something about it. First I must realise that I actually don't know but I understand logically what I'm reading, and after I start doing the work to actually know it. Usually that happens when it comes back to bite me. Assuming I understand something just because I read it somewhere is a big trap!

My personal favorite is "my friends never die" glad you appreciated it!

I know that one, nice, try listening to "odesza" also, pretty cool ?

Really fascinating, today after I read your posts plus the link you gave was really eye opening, infact it relieved alot of stress that was built these weeks because I got an explanation that gave me that "aha!" moment and which now drives me to pursue something higher, most of my beliefs are getting crushed and now I'm building new ones even bigger and deeper that the ones before, actualizing is pretty much an evolution from one belief to another till you get to the very core of what truth is. The monkey mind is still playing and the ego still hurts a bit I'm not denying that, but now it starts getting silenced by these new existencial concept. On every level of growth I had, there was emotional suffering, and this is just another step towards my growth. Thank you very much pinocchio I appreciated your insides.

I read the article, very deep insight thank you very much!

Ah I don't know that, I know it only in theory, that nobody is in control and it actually feels like nobody is in control

I think its a ego problem, doesent understand where to fit to give a good explanation

On one hand yes, on the other hand it takes me back in chaos tho because my beliefs are getting crushed, it was one thing to understand them logically when I first heard them, but to actually start feeling them brings up a bit of a war inside my head

Infact that's another doubt, if it's good or bad what's your opinion of the good news Pinocchio?

That's one of my fears at the moment

When I got into meditation I had many limits not knowing how far this thing goes, so I had a paradigm from witch I started, witch is basic personal development. Now that the old paradigm is breaking down I find it difficult to embrace the new one, it's pretty cool because it's mindfucking me but at the same time I find it difficult to have peace of mind again

Because if I take more action and don't see the results id delude myself, my mind is back in monkey mode and I don't try to control it because I'd block myself in limiting the feel of my emotions, but if I do try to control it I realise that I can't control it and I'm creating an illusion of control

The choice is between taking more action risking it to backfire or to continue and accept things for what they are until I'll grow over it

Hey there, what do you guys think about guided meditation? I started with those the first time I got into meditation. But sometimes I still listen to them. Makes my meditation easier and less stressful. Peace to all ✌

Infact the problem is settling, when you're needs are not aligned with the other person the relationship can not go along because you have different values. Or maby you were in love but you got over it that made it end for you. I always asked myself why my relationships were getting over every time, and it was because I got tired. Also when you experience negative emotions with the other person it depends on how much you're willing to take. Having a mediocre relationship, learning from my personal past burns my relationship really fast, because I'm always looking for growth even from my relationship. Respect loyalty and trust are the fundamentals, but after I also want complicity and other values. The values must be aligned because everybody has their own deal-breakers

Its very important to look at that persons history, did he cheat in past relationships? Men look at other women all the time, it's masculine energy we like what we see. But on the other hand if a man is in love he has to control those impulses at least when his girl is present, for the socialising of course it's ok to talk with other women as long as there aren't any flirts envolved. In that case you have a first signal that you may be betrayed one day. Love for me is supposed to be fun and lighthearted, you go there to give. I gave to one of my ex like 7 chances already, first month's go smooth after all the old demons come back, it's hard for people to change if they don't do the work necessary, I saw this in other people's relationships too. The hard thing is that people like us who are into personal development find, it's hard to find a partner that suits us because of the different ways of thinking. Peace ✌

Ok i think I'm starting to get somewhere, selling my programs could be something, just imagine that the programs and mechanical pieces I produce, earn my boss about a couple of thousands of euros everyday, I got lucky because they invested in me without any experience and I became a pro in a matter of like one year. But I'm getting tired of a crapy pay when I know my work has much more value, I would have to purchase the software to become a freelancer

The topic is underneath

Aquarius and Sagittarius, nice mix my moon is Scorpio but I don't know my ascendent

Hey there, I started exercising on my eq, got an alarm clock that when it rings I must feel my emotions, like Leo tought in one video. Many of my emotions I understand but many others no, they just come and go but I can't label them, and when I say label it's not for good or bad but just understand what kind of emotion is it, what did you guys do when developing emotional mastery that helped?

Become a life coach and having a huge impact on the world, working to better people's lives would be the most fulfilling job ever, and have a girlfriend that is also in self development and coaching, this way I could give all my love for the world to her also, and receive the same thing and grow together. Having a relationship with somebody that has a personal development passion is pretty hard because not many people take this route in their lives. Peace! ✌