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Ever since I lost internet and television for a year, sitting down and gaming or watching TV doesn't intrigue me anymore. Actualizing has brought my disinterest of gaming/TV to another extreme. Going out and " chilling " with friends doesn't seem to excite me as much as before. I feel it sucks because I'm 19 and a lot of what teens and others consider fun isn't as fun for me anymore. When I was younger I was an extreme extrovert, talkative, open to anyone. I still posses these traits, although after learning about human psycology, my interactions are more human analysis and I'm somewhat cautious of my words. Now adays I spend most of my days learning and building myself for my life purpose. On my free time I'm not even interested in watching shows or any non-sense. I find myself constantly learning. Sometimes I wanna just enjoy the little things like I used to. However knowing a lot of it is meaningless holds me back.... How do I get back to enjoying going out, gaming, watching TV and embracing the little things.....

@sarapr that's what I'm trying to understand. I'm putting work into actualizing so why can't I enjoy the little things if all is beautiful

Discovering the concept of illusionary thought/symbols really freaked me out. Thoughts and symbols we've grown up learning without understanding the literal meaning... if thoughts are real how do we give them voltage for a greater reality?

Training is a pillar of any giant. Dedicating our lives for our life purpose is how we achieve them. I'm under 20 and understand now is the time to capitalize. However, the dilemma between meeting women and training is a concern. I have experience with women but I'm still a virgin. My nightmare is not being able to sexually please women due to lack of experience. The way to prevent this is; going out there and meeting women(training) training = time time = limited I sometimes worry lol

On step two of the self confidence formula in think and grow rich. It states we must imagine who we wish to become for half an hour a day. I put 10 minutes into visualizing and 10 minuets into demanding self confidence. Should I add another 10 to visualizing to make 20 minuets. Or is what I'm doing enough? Thank you

- I'm in class four times a week - I'm in the gym three nights a week - I have musical goals I'm working towards ( Training) four to five times a week - I work once a week - getting real education( reading on business, self help books, actualizing etc). is also a part of everyday routine My mornings consist of me meditating, doing self affirmations and daily journal After my commute from from school I'm often exhausted making productivity difficult. I've just learned about the 80/20 rule. 20% effort is 80% results I want to be effective and still have energy. Time managment advice would be great

Maybe to find truth we must die? How do you know when you have died?

@Natasha @Danda Interesting. I've been growing a lot spiritually these past months. Last week my dad woke me out of my sleep crying to tell me he had a dream I died. He asked me if I was hiding anything... the concept of " death " puzzled me ever since

@Raquel Girl imma tell you this. Focus on portions and smile

Dreams of death, What do dreams represent? to believe or not to believe why do we believe in the positive dreams and doubt the negatives dreams? Ever since January there has been a lot of spiritual growth in my life. I'm still growing but I'm confident that I'm a much more positive person today. My father had a dream that I was close to death last night. I don't believe in a ounce of his dream. Although, if he had a positive dream would I believe it?

An old family friend wants me to be a groomsmen at her wedding. I haven't spoken to her in years, the weddings in a month, I won't know anyone there and I have my own schedule (Goals) - I have to give up two whole Saturdays for practice - and an extra saturday for the actual wedding day I already stated I'm not interested, am I being selfish?

@see_on_see appreciate the advice. Thank you

Everytime i TRY to have a lucid dream I fail. I've tried many methods. I've had many lucid dreams in the past but I was unaware of the term. One night I came home from this dudes house I know and had the most intense, lucid dream ever. I was terrified! Every week since May he's invited me over... Though I never go

@brovakhiin lmao I'm confused but thanks dude

@brovakhiin lol what

A male being raised by a rational minded mother and a male growing up with a more femininely dominated mind. These two points stand out to me because they're root causes to flaws in identity. This destroyed my first/last relationship coming out of high-school. My ex was less needy(dominant) and I was a needy and inconfident boyfriend. What are solutions to growing past these weaknesses?

Today I was on the train and this child stood out to me. Eventually him and I started making eye contact, he stared at me, stared at his family then stared at who I was with then back at me. We started interacting sub consciously in a sense. We used facial expressions to communicate. In the moment it all made sense....

@TJ Reeves thank you for the advice! Do you reccomend any books? How do I build my non-neediness/vulnerability daily?

@Leo Gura oh Leo you point dexter you

A mind of treating reality equally. Ability to not cling or need anything, while remaining emotionally connected. I'm in the progress of building a dispassionate mind! What are steps towards this? ?

@Leo Gura " i want to grow humans through growing myself " The balance of giving a hand to humanity and expanding myself. All my achievements are a reflection of the people because I am the people.

@Tightrope Walker thanks for the rad advice

I'm in the process of creating a plan for future goals. Reading my written statement twice a day is the next step. Chapter two of think and grow Rich states I should create a definite plan. Is a " plan " identified as literal step by step maneuvers or identified as a short, specific phrase? ???

@LiakosN @Ariel @Simon Zackrisson Which book do you guys find more effective? The superior man or the rational male?

@Shin sounds good ✍?️