@Arkandeus Thats very true, I should have thought about that. Maybe there is a little insecure bullshit guard going on with me, I'll be sure to look for quality stuff and truth rather than frantically protect myself from in taking any advice people have.
@WaterfallMachine That's really great practical advice, yes, asking those questions would make it easier to see someone's intentions and inner state.
Thank you very much guys, I've found my answer here for sure. Is there a reputation system on this forum where I can give you some rep or praise for your answers?
Thanks again,
-Rowan