Tyler Robinson

Are you feeling okay though?

Umm no. Not in a hookup.. I have never had casual relationships. I'm generally deeply emotional in relationships.

You don't realize that you're an illusion. You forgot that you exist only in your head. The matrix reminded you that you take yourself too seriously. Any minute you could be poof and gone. So save your minutes and savor your moment.

It happens almost every 3 days.

@Razard86 technical error. Happens. No issues.

Andrew Tate = toxic Masculinity. The whole reason why this thread even exists.

What if AI gets mega expensive, like Tesla cars. What if AI goes obsolete? I predict a lot of awkward trends with AI. What if AI turns into a laughing stock? What if AI turns into Call of Duty that nobody gives a damn about anymore? What if AI turns into Facebook that nobody logs onto anymore? What if AI turns into TikTok that everyone begins to laugh at after a few years? What if AI turns into an apocalyptic zombie that Ted Kaczynski always predicted?

Mostly capitalism and stage Orange greed. You throw some money, you will get creativity. Also too much ballyhoo, hype, advertising, puffery outcompeting any genuinely good production from other countries. American ethos are primarily focused on outcompeting for survival. It's not like other countries can't do better, they simply lack a mega budget.

Andrew Tate is a good example of Toxic Masculinity. He is the OG of the Bad Alpha Prototype. Never never.

Never ever do this. The girl who flaked on you might develop feelings later. At some point she might think you were good sport for having taken her rejection politely and without fuss. She might ping you suddenly some day out of the blue and want to go on a date with you, this time finding you irresistible. By leaving that sort of a message to her, you kinda prove to her that she should never think about you again, it leaves a sour taste in her mouth, makes her feel like you're butthurt. Especially when you say "On to the next girl," she would think that it was good riddance since you never valued her anyway. Girls don't want to think that you like other girls, that's hurtful to female ego and a firm signal that the guy who makes them feel insecure or less than other women is a complete "reject material." She would never want to even think of you. In general, there are 2 possibilities here - 1] that she will completely block you feeling that you were trying to humiliate her by talking about liking or chasing other women. This is the most probable possibility. 2] if she is a woman with low self esteem, then she might feel a bit guilty for turning you Down and might not want to lose you to another woman and might actually agree to sex with you. This would look very manipulative, almost blackmailing her into sex. This, however, can only work if you are very irresistible to her (in which case she wouldn't have rejected you in the first place, to begin with) but this shtick can still work if she feels sorry for losing you, it's like getting her to like you using a guilt trap, the reverse of buyer's remorse.

I didn't know I was actually hurting a guy by flaking. It was just a polite way of saying no. I mean there's simply no way around it if you ask me. I wish I could say yes just to keep the guy's heart. But that would be inauthentic or would lead to an inauthentic relationship where my feelings don't exactly match his. Be with someone who you truly want and who truly wants you.

You missed out on a huge difference. Superficially he might match all the traits listed. But he is a fake mimicking the real, like a wannabe, that's why women like me can spot his vibe as inauthentic. The huge difference is this - truly wealthy people don't go around displaying their wealth. Truly beautiful people don't need tons of makeup. Truly alpha males don't go around calling themselves alpha or boasting how superior they are. Alpha men are generally silent. They are not loud mouthed like Tate. They rarely say a word. When they do say something, they say something important and to the point. They are not interested in gaining clout or popularity. Like Tate, they don't look for social validation. They don't need the approval of other males. An alpha man will walk his path regardless of how other men perceive him. Basically an alpha is like a cave guy with his own style of operation and uninhibited by social rules. Also in my personal observation, alpha men are good at physical tasks. They are not good with tech knowledge or technology or programming, they aren't nerdy like that. They are good at digging, cutting wood etc. Stuff that caveman were good at. Alphas are good at discipline and don't stay up too late. They don't like Orange. They can be a bit of mix of Red and Blue.

@spiritual memes calling Andrew Tate an alpha is like a woman screaming loudly during sex having fake orgasms and saying she really enjoyed it. But she wasn't wet at all. Jeez.

If a guy like Andrew Tate approached me, instant reject on the spot. He is a total loser. Dare I say it and I said it. He is society's version of an alpha, what other men regard an alpha male to look like. That guy is like a magnet of insecurity. He needs a ton of status to look good in people. Calling Andrew Tate an alpha male is synonymous to a woman calling herself sexually confident after getting a pair of fake breasts via surgery. Maybe goldiggers, clout chasing women like him, that does not mean a regular woman is going to like him. I don't like that type of guy at all. I like a man of solid values who knows how to own me. I can imagine a stage Blue guy who is working in the army or Navy and who comes home to his wife and pets and who is never afraid to speak the truth but is ready to spank me a bit sometimes. Like he can give me the stare, logically argue with me, give me some verbal beating when I'm out of line. Not put me on a pedestal but knows how to kiss me during a warm moment. That's a good mix of a Macho and I would consider him true alpha. He knows when and how to own his little woman.

Of course. Alpha men aren't perfect. I'm not talking about toxic alpha men. There's a small section of alpha men that are toxic, abusive, aggressive. I have dated mostly alpha men. Just 1 beta guy and I liked him initially but the relationship failed to create stimulation. Most of them were abusive. They were Strong built and into physical stuff. I think I dated one alpha guy who wasn't abusive. It was refreshing. Although he was demanding and matched the entire list of traits I mentioned above, the relationship was very stimulating, passionate and beautiful. Maybe that's the reason why women are so attracted to them. They are good at holding a woman's attention.

I'm generally attracted to alpha men. They are attractive by their presence. They usually do hard physical labor kind of jobs. You don't have to get into fights to prove that you are alpha. In fact alpha men avoid fights as much as possible because they don't like drama and don't like to waste their precious time on unproductive things like fights. It's beta males who constantly get into fights in a desperate attempt to prove that they are alpha Alphas are generally secure, hold authority and don't need to flaunt their power.

I will constantly keep revising this post.. I have a lot to say on this topic. Please don't come at me for simply describing what I think alpha males. I know some people get triggered by the mere mention of the word alpha and the distinctions drawn between alpha and betas. But this discussion is needed any way, not because it will help you become an alpha male, I think alpha males are primary born and not created through nurture, I don't see how that can be the case, that being said, you could still incorporate and integrate some behaviors of alpha men and see how that benefits your life, it's nothing different from following an archetype. Society benefits a lot from alpha males and alpha males are necessary for the survival of the society. Whether you like it or not or whether women like it or not. Whether you call an alpha male fake or real is irrelevant. They are what they are. Definition is not relevant These are the traits I have observed in alpha males They are very attractive. Looks. They are aware that they are attractive They are not soft at all but they can be deeply emotional They are very emotional and passionate in relationships They like to dominate the woman in bed. They are patriarchal They like submissive women They don't need status. Although having status makes them feel good but they don't flaunt it. Alpha males are easily pissed off. Never piss them off or they walk away. You can't challenge an alpha male in a relationship. They get triggered and they won't let it slide. They are ready to own you. They are very harsh and critical They have a temper They don't tolerate. They immediately draw boundaries in a relationship. Alpha males are ambitious Alpha males aren't scared to speak what's on their mind Alpha males cannot take a no for an answer Alpha males don't negotiate their goals and values Alpha males can be controlling towards their girlfriend Alpha males get their job done, they simply don't let go Alpha males are dominant Alpha males own the woman and hold her accountable Alpha males don't put the women on a pedestal Alpha males generally believe in providing for their woman Alpha males don't simply agree to their girlfriends. They hold her views to scrutiny before accepting them Alpha males don't make excuses for their goals Alpha males have huge expectations from their girlfriends. It's tough to date them. Because they expect the best out of you. And if you don't give them the best, they will dump you. Alpha males have high moral integrity and don't break rules for anyone.

@Razard86 I guess it would be incredibly hard to get female role models. It's already hard with men. For the present moment, it would be enough to follow a healthy male role model. Women can follow him too I guess.

So flaking on guys is like abusing them. Am I missing something? I always thought rejecting a guy was much worse than flaking on him. I just can't reject a guy, it's hard to do that. So I just prefer to flake on him I guess those girls are probably using the same reasoning with them. You guys are hurt when a girl rejects you. You guys are hurt when a girl flakes on you. I don't see how a girl can win in this situation. Either way she is bad and hurtful, no matter what she does. Sad emoji.

@Max_V you do have a point and i somewhat agree with you although the female perspective is rarely taken into consideration in male centered discussions. And I'll leave it to that.

The problem is that the flaking is not because I want to give them a bad treatment. It's form of a spiral - - what goes around comes around. So when guys give you a shitty treatment, it becomes like a wound and stays inside you and then this deep seated makes the mind not trust the next guy that comes along. It's an automatic process, not something done on purpose. So meanwhile the guy might have the best intentions, when he is asking me out, my heart wants to find a reason to resist him or not be able to trust. I would expect him to step up and make me trust him, not to break my heart again but to show me that he truly does care about me and this cannot happen over a meagre amount of text conversations, this can only happen through bonding. I'm scared to give this kind of advice because I don't want to see another woman broken.

To be totally honest, I would flake on 98% guys who approached me. Why not. Even guys manipulate a woman, gain her trust and then dump her. Even guys dump women for stupid reasons. What will you say to that?

Girls flake for all kinds of stupid reasons. Most reasons are rooted in insecurity They don't think they have enough to go on with a guy. Give them enough to want you.

I would actually love to have an extremely deep, intimate, passionate and loving relationship with a man, not just flirting. Intimacy is important to me.

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