Tyler Robinson

Proceeding further (refer above post) This means that guys who approach a woman just for sex can never be genuine. They will be phony as FUCK. They are not only phony but they are also abusive. Because only an abusive guy would treat a woman as a personal sex object for jerking off. My past 3 short flings after J were guys thirsting after me for sex. At first I didn't think much of it. I thought that guys need sex and that's how guys are. How could I judge them when I myself was greedy for sex too? Yea that makes sense. But either way, a man who only wants sex cannot be a good man. I also saw sexual attraction as an important part of intimacy. But there is a problem. Sex is important. Definitely. No denying it. Sex cannot come before heart. This applies to both men and women. For women it's obvious. But even for men with a decent amount of integrity, the same applies No decent guy would only want sex. He would want a heart connection and then proceed to sex. For the simple reason that he wants a woman to feel at ease with him. He wants her to enjoy his company. He really wants her to feel good. He wants her to feel respected. It's only then he will make his move. He doesn't want her to feel like a sex object. He doesn't want her to feel used. He doesn't want her to feel like a pair of tits. And he would never pressure her sexually at all. In fact he would restrain himself as much as possible till she is okay opening up sexually to him. Till then he will ensure that she feels safe with him.

Ok I'll apply the Golden Litmus Test here. Asking myself - Will I approach a girl just for sex? Will I want a woman as a private slut? Will I want a woman for my sexual needs only? Will I be okay treating a woman like this? (if I were a dude) The answer - NO FRIGGIN WAY I would consider it abusive to treat a woman as a sex supplying machine. I wouldn't want to use her for my pleasure. I would never ask her for sex unless we have had a lot of conversations. She needs to first feel perfectly comfortable being my girlfriend. I need to know everything about her. Then I need to connect with her heart. I must first know that she really loves and wants me. Once it's established that we have a strong connection and that we really get along and have a smooth sailing relationship where both of us feel committed and comfortable with one another, that's when I will begin to talk about sex. Not otherwise. I won't escalate to sex as long as a proper connection doesn't exist between us. I won't treat a potential girlfriend as a personal sex toy for jerking off. I would consider it abusive and meaningless.

I think these lines in the paragraph are important - I think a better way of going about it is asking "What is their intent behind telling me this? What are they gaining from it?" Just look for intent and what is motivating them in that moment. That will tell you their character very directly. That is definitely behavior to be cautious around though. What kind of a person is looking for sex with me? A fuck boy right? Why should a fuck boy be considered a good man? Whats the intent of a fuck boy? Whats their motivation in approaching me? The answer is simple. There is no point in being non judgemental to a fuck boy. That's like being non judgemental to a tiger in a cage. When the tiger pounces on your leg, you are going to regret not judging the tiger. A tiger is a tiger. A fuck boy is a fuck boy. These are predatory people. They will hurt one way or another. A person not wanting a heart connection but only sex simply cannot be a good person. Sex can be premarital. That's okay. That's fine. But sex should always succeed a heart connection. Sex should never happen first. A sex first relationship is a bad relationship right from the get go, the dynamic is going to be upsetting, drill this in the mind.

My nickname is Berry A man who only wants sex with me is obviously going to be a bad person Berry. Even if I try to be as non judgemental as possible, FACTS ARE Facts. My mind might not appreciate judging someone beforehand.. But someone said something important in this paragraph.

◉ I need to write an acknowledgement letter. ◉ ✸ ◉_◉ ◉ ◉

Whatever.

I'm a good girl at heart.

I'm so sleepy. I worked so hard for last 2 days. Nobody notices my hard work. Everyone takes me for granted because of my low IQ. Fuck it.

I just want to live in peace. It's the essence that matters.

@Jannes won't treat someone like a therapist. Will tell them stuff in chunks

Noting it down.

Seven of pentacles. Battle of egos. Duplicitous energy Six of cups Information gathering .................... Reading starts 2.52 Major theme for Pisces in October - Authority Card of authority - taking control back/taking power back - Pisces you have boss energy - connecting with your Masculinity - you are healing with your masculine energy - you are using masculine energy to make choices to move forward - you are having no regrets - you are also deciding to have major moves in your life. You are planning to make major changes - these major changes are going to create the stability you need for creating the empire that you are trying to build for yourself - taking control back - going back to drawing board - - - ..................... - - - - - - -

I want someone who I can trust. Every friend I made broke my trust in the most brutal manner possible I'm scared to make friends now I can't share my deepest secrets and feelings with anyone. People are seriously piece of shit Nobody gives a fuck about my feelings. Everybody is rude and judging.

@integral And I HAVE social anxiety. I cannot even look into a guy's eyes when he talks.

NON JUDGEMENTAL MY ASS..... Never date a Virgo. This is why. Stupid selfish judgmental phony ass Whiny attention seeking controlling crybabies They think they are PERFECT, OH LORD. THESE PEOPLE SHOULD HAVE EGGS AND TOMATOES THROWN AT THEM. A Virgo clown describing himself -

Are you feeling dull?

CUSTODIAN WALL. Once the process of finding genuine people and category 3 people or Psychic Twins is complete, the SOUL FAMILY HAS BEEN ESTABLISHED SUCCESSFULLY. Next phase is creating a huge CUSTODIAN WALL. THIS puts an end to my spiritual journey. I'm then surround by huge strong walls. And I insulate myself permanently from the rest of the world and live in tranquility with my soul family inside the WALL. Then the process is complete. MISSION COMPLETE AND ACCOMPLISHED.

I just want genuine people. Nothing more. Then I'm satisfied and my INNER FIRE will be put out and I'll go into spontaneous remission/recession. Right now I'm like a metastasizing cancer, active volcano that isn't able to calm down because I haven't yet met my Psychic Twin. I'm a Pisces by the way, important for a Pisces to meet their twin or else all spirituality is incomplete for me. That's why my energy is nervous and erratic And if I don't meet my Psychic Twin, I'll get cancer and die.

@meta_male I just want genuine people. Nothing more. Then I'm satisfied and my INNER FIRE will be put out and I'll go into spontaneous remission/recession. Right now I'm like a metastasizing cancer, active volcano that isn't able to calm down because I haven't yet met my Psychic Twin. I'm a Pisces by the way, important for a Pisces to meet their twin or else all spirituality is incomplete for me. That's why my energy is nervous and erratic And if I don't meet my Psychic Twin, I'll get cancer and die.

Let's move on to Category 3 genuine people These are people who are in sync with the heart and soul but are truly intuitively harmonized. They are not false positives. They are not only purebreed genuine but actually pass all the shit tests of the Psychic Intuition Investigation. They are fully in sync, mean what they say, not phony at all, fully in alignment very very naturally, organically and aren't trying to do any mind reading /simping shit. Zero motives. Zero agenda. Not doing anything to impress. Just biologically, naturally, wholly, organically IN SYNC WITH TRUE HEART CONNECTION. OBVIOUSLY THE MOST GENUINE BREED, SUPERLATIVE. YOU CAN'T GET BETTER THAN THIS. These are SOULMATES. OR TWIN FLAMES I'LL ACTUALLY CALL THEM PSYCHIC TWINS

To understand this in depth I will need to create a third category. Category 3 genuine people. Category 2 are genuine people (or at least appear to be genuine as per green flags list and golden litmus test), yet they are false positives. They appear to be in sync because they are an expert at reading minds and fulfilling demands. They are the know it all kind of people who rarely fail in perceiving others correctly. These appear to know everything about you yet not intuitively harmonized. I'll call these Category 2 Simps Let's move on to Category 3 genuine people

Ok now this is the most important thing If someone genuinely loves you or is genuine with you and it's not so much about being genuine..... Wait a minute. I might be confusing myself here. Let's put it this way — Genuine people who are intrinsically genuine are going to act genuine with most people. This is just a general way they deal with things. No doubt. Now someone can be genuine yet not have a heart connection / soul connection with me. Maybe they are acting like an asshole and or just aren't too invested or interested in me. Yet they might not be a phony person. They could come from a genuine place. I still find this a bit contradictory though. Maybe they genuinely wish to help me and all their intents are pure, they aren't putting up an act/charade /farce yet they are simply not in sync with me. They could be in their own world, more withdrawn, yet caring for me from a distance, without me realizing it or benefitting in any way. I will call this Category 1 genuine people. They are good but they aren't there when needed. Yet they are genuine and actually do mean what they say. Now category 2 genuine people. These could be those that share a heart connection with me, respectful of my space, in alignment with me, in sync with me. They always invest a massive amount of effort in understanding me. Of course without a shred of a doubt, they are genuine and want the best for me, look out for me like a hawk. It is impossible to fake care about a person just to flatter them and at the same time be intuitively in sync with their needs. My psychic energy tells me that this is not possible. A person cannot fake care about me without meaning it, simply to simp and impress me. It would be a disaster if I figured that all the concern and care they showered me with was only an attempt at flattering and gaining my approval, aka impressing me. I think this is where what Flowboy says becomes very critical and important. This is where intuition comes in and actually guides and tells whether the person is simply trying to impress and his syncing with me is not intuitively harmonized or genuine.

@meta_male why should it be your bother why someone is here? I don't ask anyone why they are here. Everyone is here for their own reasons. Describing this place doesn't mean that someone loses the right to be here.

Okayish

Heart connection not dick connection Try being with a guy who respects my needs and space And doesn't dominate me. Yet he is a king of himself. A guy can be dominant without dominating me.....!!!!!