lostmedstudent

= self actualization = spirituality = the lifelong journey we are in

yes. but in the sense that the book would be successful, and i would have achieved something out of it. the fact that millions of people bought it is the approval i want i guess. but it would appeal more to me if i became famous along the way i feel like i need some sort of reaction from the outside world to know what im doing is worthy.

yeah i could. i did a little bit but at the same time i dont have that much interest in telling medical stuff. but its a good idea, i could use it as a leverage of sort .

@mmKay yes i thought about this. I asked myself if i would be happy if i were famous and i knew the answer is no, if i think fame is what i need to be happy, i would be wrong. What i need is approval. Doing something then having others peopl approval make the thing im doing seem more worthwhile and valuable. I have watched that video of Leos , it was very eye opening. More practically, what i understand is theres no right or wrong way to do it. The key is the same as to everything else: contemplation, mindfulness and psychedelics to burn through the karma and do shadow work? thanks everyone for the inputs

But how do i do that without giving up my more realistic career path ? Like it would have to be a side hussle , i cant let go of one branch without knowing where to grasp after . ?

i dont think so.... @Leo Gura and many others didnt end up hospitalized in psych ward....

@dimitriumm interesting ya i see what you mean. im here and im asking : well what happens when i get THERE ??!?!? its kinda silly. once i get THERE, it all makes sense

yeah that doesnt sit well with me, because i feel like i might as well go do that if i enter that state of consciousness. what prevents me right now is my moral values and fear..

thank you @GabeN when i hear such realizations, i cant help but to wonder what, then, prevents you from going out and hurting or killing other people, or yourself, if this is just all a dream and you won't die? its something that im not able to grasp with a sober mind.

ok silly question but when you are in the mindset of "i am the only one here" or "what is the point of LP", what prevents you from going on the streets and kill everyone? if theres no more morality?!

I will be moving in with my BF in a month. We have been dating for almost 3 years, and always lived apart. I have always lived with my parents (who give me a lot of space at home). do you guys have any advice for people who are going to move in together for the first time? Anything you wish you knew back then? What are some of the biggest changes/challenges in your relationship as a result of moving in? What are some of the best things you find about living with a SO? How do you make sure both people get some "me time". We are both introverted, and need alone time once in a while. Thank y'alll!

@Serotoninluv nice <3

Hey guys. I did it during my run today. It definitely feels good when people smile back. However, to smile doesnt come natural to me. I feel like when i spot someone in the distance, i have to build up the courage to smile. Why is that ? Its so simple, why do i feel shy about it ?

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here is what you need to know 1. dont ever go back. block him EVERYWHERE if needed 2. you will feel better, you wont be depressed forever 3. time is your best friend. time will heal 4. yes you will find someone else who is better 5. never go back to that person 6. stay strong NOW or you will be in hell forever

do you have any hobbies that could help you relax? maybe music, painting, things like that ? any motivation to do that ? you are doing amazing to be where you are. and you are exactly where you need to be ! this work is not for the fainted hearts! the hell will pass, just like the clouds!! be kind to yourself, do something enjoyable, fun, clear your mind for a bit and come back to it when you feel ready ! sending lots of love to you !!!!

@billiesimon sorry to hear about it! I think its quite normal to have ego backlashes after such profound experiences . I hope you can embrace it! You will grow stronger and more loving than ever after this ego backlash <3 what kind of SW do you do ? Any techniques ?

@Arcangelo please expand your thoughts ?

@Chumbimba too late but why. Hahah

Could anyone else living with a partner offer some advice? Thank you in advance

hahaha i like that. i tend to expect stuff "GET OUT, I NEED SOME ME TIME" its pretty good stuff, thanks Roy!

its not really a program. i used these 9 exercises + some foam rolling . i did 20-30 min a day. only skipped 1 day https://www.yogiapproved.com/yoga/stretches-for-splits/

Thank you for the report billiesimon! its been great reading you. I notice you trip frequently. What do you do to integrate your trips?

2.5 weeks in. Update , i can touch my toes now!!! I went from barely below the knees to touching my toes! i cant hold that position yet

thank you so much for sharing <3