Lai

José, maybe "he" should call me on the phone right now.

José, maybe "he" should have explained that to me on the phone.

I've always been naturally slim, but I don't think my figure is that great. I just eat well, and try and have fun with sports. I am 38.

I've been reading about the love story between one of my favorite actors Patrick Stewart and his wife. He is 76 years (but still looks so hot!) and she is half his age at 38 years. They look and fit so well together. A few years ago I dated a boy who was just 6 years younger than me, but that age difference was too great for me. Since then I've been attracted to older men. What about you, what are your dating age limits?

You need a hug...

@Peace and Love I'm sorry that you've been hurt and you are leaving us now. What was said to upset you so much? Much Love and hugs, Lai.

Beautiful! Thank you.

Omg... you've just reminded me of my difficult childhood going through school. I was often made fun of my face cheeks. My nickname was "the frog". This is the main reason I'm still a shy person today. I traveled mostly alone, and sometimes shared rides with other travelers. You don't need much money to travel through Asia. If you are careful with your money, you can travel for just €20 a day. Low-end bungalow accommodation (hard bed with mosquito net) is usually just €3 a night, and a scooter costs around €4 a day. This delicious BBQ corn on the cob was my dinner, and it was just €0.25!

@LRyan I gained a lot from my travels, but I have more to learn. The 10-day silent retreat was really tough, I almost left on day 3. But it really helped me overcome a lot of pain and anguish and be more open to life's opportunities. I may or may not have found what I'm looking for.

@jjer94 thank you, but I am so embarrassed. I don't mean to show off in any way. If you like I can show you some easy steps for this. First you go into a bad relationship that your friends warn you is doomed from the beginning. Then you watch the trainwreck as your partner cheats and breaks up with you in a very heartbreaking and very mean way. Having nothing to lose, it now becomes easy to take the next step: travel light, alone, and as far away from Europe as possible.

@0ne we are here to love... you can't feel it?

This is so beautiful...

@jse how did you get this photo of me without makeup?

@Steph1988 I learnt that traveling is not just moving about in other cultures. I traveled in South East Asia for three months, and did a 10-day Vipassana retreat there. I am attracted to Asian cultures and children, and also to light travelers.

@Steph1988 I went alone, but didn't come back the same.

Traveling is about you. Make your own adventure. Cambodia will help you.

Love this!

You look in the mirror.

That is a selfish thought.

1. Fear of meeting people 2. Being alone 3. Not starting a family (still worries me, but not as much) 4. Gray city life

@Shir here is a flower, just for your heart!

I had a crush on this wonderful man.

I want to be picked up like this!