
YaNanNallari
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Temples are from my experience related to the emotion of looking down on people or things in sort of a cynical way, so in case you do this a lot there might be pain because of it. It could totally be something else, but this is one option
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Right now there are beliefs that follow the anxious ways. Start to challenge these beliefs or rather drop them all together in a way and see if you could come up with something else. There might be all kinds of emotional trauma to be accepted in the way but you really don't have to stay living super anxiously. You will change it once you're willing to change it. You can think about what would make you want to change it, although sometimes the answers can be paradoxical and you need some intuition for it. Learning more etc helps and with anxiety, although this can be a lot to ask, doing what you feel like you should more often helps. Your "should" can be a bit too extreme right now as well. You can go slow about changing things and learn what works and doesn't through trial and error and books etc. Try to not think so much about why in such a worrying sense but see what works and makes you feel better.
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Start learning more about energy. Learn to be nicer to yourself (and others). If you don't know, learn.
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For me I haven't really made a huge success story yet, but nevertheless I was depressed for 7 years more or less with the suicidal phases and all and then finally started to feel better and my life started to really show some rewards. It took a long time to get anything started "for real" but nowadays I can take action a lot more comfortably. When it comes to improving myself I've learned to keep going. I often get better at something which allows me to learn something else. At first when I found actualized.org it started to slowly confirm to me that life can actually be good and things can be better. While learning things from him it also made me the biggest hypocrite as the videos revealed all the "bad" things, but for a long time I mainly looked at other people doing those things. When I did introspect it wasn't done in a healthy way whatsoever but instead I tried to brute force it too much by at least subconsciously thinking "I must know this by now! I know how to do it but there's some inherent fault within me!" The truth is that I really didn't know or else I would have solved those things. I wasn't ready to accept that I needed to learn things and that I needed to change my life to change my life. So now I just learn how to do things, follow up and finish and it's working out. I would really stress willingness to learn things. If you are really trying to learn things and ready to change then the change will often come to you, even if it wouldn't be some quick ticket somewhere. To me things feels fresh and new. Even if I've surpassed many it still is so that there's so much more to learn and do and I'm actually a total novice in so many things despite already getting a good way through.
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YaNanNallari replied to egoless's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
I don't really mind if someone likes a god, follows them or worships them ¯\_(ツ)_/¯ if someone's being dogmatic which doesn't really seem to be the case here then well, that's bad for them. -
YaNanNallari replied to Phocus's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Working on improving my energy and dealing with any emotional issues that come along the way. A lot of trial and error there so far, but not giving up seems to reward me. Balancing meditation and reading books from the book list mostly when I'm not studying for school. -
YaNanNallari replied to MarkusSweden's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Well I like to think that I'm not responsible for other people's well-being. This allows me to freely provide other people with it when I can. This is more the approach to strangers. If I have people that are not super close but I still interact with a lot the same rules still apply but I'm able to take more of their perspective into account. As I have developed certain quite normal intuition abilities which allow me to have let's say empathy 2.0 I can tell how the other person's general personality and how they feel. This allows me to adapt to them a bit more. When it comes to guarding my happiness, certain people of course feel threatened by it, but then I see it as "they indeed are like that and it's a 'challenge' I'll happily take on". Same with some "evil" people, I see that that is indeed what I'm dealing with and I take it on as an adventure in a way. Keep it simple with those people and it's easier. Always make sure to set good intentions towards others as you may project a certain energy towards them. If someone wants to own me or in the previous case really it is important to understand where the other person is coming from. Only then you can see what you think the best way to be helpful for them is to the extent of it going smoothly. If you feel like you're at a loss with how to help them I think it's fine to show that even if this isn't anything you'll say directly at all. I've found that if I haven't truly solved something myself I do not feel comfortable teaching anyone about it. Maybe get them curious about how you're happy if they're the owning type. Generally working towards having good intentions for others which is a long term process makes it all so much easier. There are also energetic ways to protect your energy from harmful influences, just having a strong aura does a lot and you might not need anything fancy. This allows you to not receive their negativity on a deep level so that it would affect you. I do believe the general opinion still is that you have to do some exercises to maintain an aura as good as this however. -
It's not for nothing, it did seem like a difficult situation with no clear ways to go about it
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For me as I'm used to being stressed out by parents during the day at night I feel completely at ease compared to that. Working on being more relaxed during the day as well
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YaNanNallari replied to jivvie's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
If I want to be sleepy and chill I just put this on and it's like instant https://youtu.be/UkM-FjfN6Mc -
YaNanNallari replied to Viking's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Maybe learn about chakras for example. It's hard to advice with energy if the other person doesn't know what's going on at all, at least for me. -
There can be a line with openness and kindness towards those who don't accept and also with going with what you see as good aka not worrying about other people's opinions. There seriously isn't anything wrong with being bi. What the hell do the people that criticize it know anyway? If I were to be gay/bi I wouldn't even care to announce it to be honest, as I probably wouldn't especially relate to or need any gay/bi community. If it's a big or necessary thing for you, by all means do it
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If you're hung up on them, I wouldn't try to fix it by saying "I shouldn't be hung up on them". Get curious as to why you're hung up on them, maybe some inspiration to let it go will come or some other insight.
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If you have Leo's book list look at the emotions or social section. If you don't have the list I recommend it. How to win friends and influence people is a pdf you can also google.
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Maybe watch collective ego episode, a new one from Leo. That might help you understand what friendships are about to a lot of people
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She's not de way. Find someone who you can keep with good stuff, not bad stuff.
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YaNanNallari replied to Shakazulu's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
They can give you indications for what to watch out for, or if you're very "superstitious" even for what will happen. They are not very relevant in the long run in my opinion. Knowing those things won't change much and you can learn about yourself otherwise as well, but if someone who knows their stuff reads your chart, sure take the info. -
If girls like looks, they like looks. If they only care about looks then do you really want a girl like that? Or do you want someone who likes you because you're living your life to the fullest? Not many girls have an ego that can handle that, same with guys obviously. Live your life really. That way you will also happen to learn how girls think if you're truly interested. Honestly it wouldn't seem like a smart move to just go for a long relationship from a young age anyway but improve social skills if anything.
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There doesn't have to be a voice inside the head, there can just be thoughts belonging to nobody. They just are there. Some people might have a voice inside their heads though, not denying that.
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Do what you enjoy, and if you truly enjoy helping others, so be it. Spirituality can show you values and ways to enjoy more
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That's awesome to hear. The more we learn the more we understand what freeing realization allowed you to let go of the things you held onto. That way if you ever slide back, it will be always easier to enjoy life more again
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YaNanNallari replied to Ether's topic in Spirituality, Consciousness, Awakening, Mysticism, Meditation, God
Well how could something come out of nowhere if there's a difference between nowhere and everywhere? Gods might still exist, just not absolute ones -
Focus on your life. If it involves girls, so be it. Learn more
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Yes it's a great and rewarding idea for everyone. Not a true life purpose.
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It matters so so little if someone is talented in the end. If your talent is great life habits and working hard then you'll always get further in anything that matters.