YaNanNallari

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  1. you react how you react.
  2. Follow intuition a lot with these cases, but only if you know how to tell what it is
  3. You don't have to get the biggest thing first. If you want to though, sure. You get up by getting up. That is the answer if you ask me
  4. I'd say it to depend on your surroundings and situation. If you feel like you're in a place where you are free to expand spiritually then it should be fine, but if you have for example toxic surroundings that can't be avoided then it might be a painful and bad idea.
  5. Uh, it's hard to say what these things mean. If you don't know, that's fine. If you do have an idea, that's fine too but remember it's an interpretation. Personally when it comes to "signs" I just see for myself if I find value from them
  6. I'd look at how towards him her body is. So judging by this and how not flustered she looks, I'd say there's no strong attraction. Of course could be wrong
  7. @Jed Vassallo When done properly, high self-esteem is abundant. Abundance as a feeling leads to being humble, more open minded. It's not all the good stuff. It's the good stuff related to things one thinks only they can have. When one becomes more developed it is natural for them to start seeing everything in a more positive way, including themselves. So for example someone thinking "I totally know these things the best and nobody knows better" would cause a stronger ego whereas "There's a lot of knowledge I have access to. I have so much knowledge that I can afford to be open minded and look for new things with comfort" would be what I mean and it leads to being more humble.
  8. A very case specific question. Your situation might hold you back. If not, then go deeper and see how you won't be completely fulfilled by it and that you can be more fulfilled through other means. Deal with what is important to you now
  9. It's more fulfilling if u do the right things
  10. These questions are a load of bs of course increasing self-esteem is a thing you're supposed to have happen with meditation. It is more about things like arrogance that you want to ask questions about..
  11. Well, the deeper our awareness grows, the more issues we find we have to be able to deal with. Some of them can be hard to deal with, especially with a negative environment. So then those things limit our energy from becoming stronger and more concentrated. All negative emotions pretty much suppress it or make it a "worse" quality And of course sexual energy is the same as life force. Many say orgasm is the closest feeling, but it is kind of irrelevant.
  12. I always felt like the song was good enough on it's own. The advice in it leads to quite an enlightened life after all
  13. I just try to not police my emotions as much
  14. Yes, that is why I said "drop the judgements for a second", the attempt to intellectualize it because one wants a solid answer makes it harder. I just point to what the realization I have had is like, this is niche advice Yes, you have to want to give it up first, but if you don't want to give it up, it's not an issue is it? People just told you it's an issue and you struggle with the addiction out of shame etc. Then it is good to calmly look at the way you actually feel about the addiction if you want progress with it. Everyone gets to this point of introspection at their own pace and it shouldn't be forced. Soo I would think that most addicted people unwilling to give it up are just not very willing to give it up due to things like fear not seeing the better option as it's a very paradoxical better option not knowing how to get to see the better option (learn by meditation after accepting you don't know very well) not knowing how to get to a point where you feel like you are free to change it they might be even making a point to other people by staying addicted
  15. I've seen a couple topics about "how do I deal with x addiction" and today I have a 10/10 solution for you . So the answer to how to stop doing something you're addicted to is to realize that there is no set answer to "how to stop x". Surely there might be techniques and such that help you deal with emotions or you might read a shocking article about your addiction, but what really makes you stop it is realizing that you're free to do something else instead. Drop the judgements for a second and realize you dont have to be involved with that addiction. That is the answer and necessary realization you have been looking for if you're addicted. Many might at the point of realizing this might be scared of the abundance of possibilities they can reach since they are free of their addiction, which is why a meditation routine is a good idea so that you can allow yourself to enjoy more. Have a niceu day
  16. The amount of getting caught up by the negative emotions will be reduced by meditating on them. You will learn to understand them better. Sometimes the answers to your questions aren't best figured out by critical thinking. You might gain insights beyond that. With your friends you have seen beyond a bit more than they have making them unable to understand you. I recommend not arguing with them too much, as convincing them would require tremendous big picture understanding and even that might not be enough. But it's thankfully not about having to save them either, just do what seems nice and follow that. You might be thinking a lot about how things aren't good enough, but I recommend seeing if it could be possible to think in a way which allows abundance. An abundance of possibilities, joy and whatever seems nice. All the unacknowledged parts of us want to be seen. As soon as you notice a part screaming, they're there. You don't have to be a perfectionist. This would backfire anyway. If you look into being happy "out there", you will not become very motivated. When you see it as your current experience becoming better, you will be a lot more motivated. That is why having a big dream related to what is now works best imo. Sometimes you don't know what the good things will look like but you'll figure it out by looking deeper.
  17. Yes I meditate, I'm a lot happier, I know cool stuff and also have learned useful things about success and got some of it. Without meditation or info about these things I'd probably be ded no joke
  18. You have to have charisma, or deep belief that resonates through your words in order to convince people. Now this takes time to develop and all, but it can help. Focus on yourself is possible. It really is a tricky thing to deal with other people. They push all kinds of buttons like uncertainty, as if they're certain about things. I have went further myself and learned how to better deal with people through understanding my own mind mostly
  19. @Ibn Sina Maybe because there are multiple gods? There is the absolute god and the deitys. Quite obvious really, never heard of deitys?
  20. The same goes for all words. It's a matter of convenience
  21. Bro, you gotta stop thinking like, what is 2+2. You gotta start thinking like, what seems like the best thing for me to do. Now it's fine to ask and all if you felt like asking, but use your instincts more. This will help in many ways
  22. Well, you can for example alter how feminine or masculine you are. That would change your preferences sexually. You would still probably have certain preferences that are to say the least difficult to change. We sort of have to go with what we enjoy in life, but that's more a gift since those things do end up making us happier after all.
  23. Someone warm enough. Many tend to be a bet held back and cold nowadays, not something I'm into
  24. Yeah well, one does things without understanding the why. It is kind of mindless you know. One does not understand the difference between a wasted life or a not wasted life before this