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Then you should do that now, that's actually pretty smart. But if you want a relationship, and you seem to struggle with that, then you have to improve at the game one way or another. It's not like both are mutually exclusive. Game isn't a bad word, your whole life is a game you decided to play after all.

In my experience, dreams are never random. They always means something about how I feel and what I want/fear.

What are you trusting then ?

Of course If we take the belief that everything happens simultaneously, in infinite realities, then that's not shocking at all

Amazing how both men and women just want everything without giving anything If only it was that easy, there wouldn't be threads like that

There is very few guys that are actually : Extremely attractive (personality wise and with a purpose he diligently follows) Caring Seek monogamous relationship Good listener Know how to have good sex 99% of other guys don't have all that, and thus you will break up with them or not have sex at all with them. And it doesn't stop there, cause if you want a guy like that, you need to give as much value if not more, otherwise he will just keep seeking for a girl with as much value as him, which is extremely rare too. Every other relationship ends in divorce or break up. This is the game you refuse to play

Ok that's maybe a lot of guys, but not all of them. Jesus, of course sex is bad if you have that kind of beliefs running in your head everytime you meet a guy. If he is your first guy you have sex with, the chance of him lying about his experience is quite high. Either he doesn't know how to have good sex, or you're not as attracted to him as you might think. The sex should be good according to what you said, so what you said is probably not true. Not that you lied, but what you believe is true probably isn't. @somegirl

False awakening ? Again it was more real than anything I ever experienced, all senses were more accute, zero doubt I was awake and fully in the now. Then there is the smoothest transition between dream and waking dream I ever had, from seeing the dark sky to the dark ceiling of the room, thinking «ok I got it now !». Then I wake up to write this message. I was so ready to surrender, too bad ???

You can say whatever you want, I don't believe you ???

It looks like you are. If I concentrate on the feeling of you being real, I don't really know. Sometimes it feels like all of this is just a circlejerk of my imagination. Why do I even care about it I don't know, but I do.

If I could, maybe I wouldn't even talk to you. I can't see the point to talk to a figment of my imagination, except to have fun. In a sense you'd be a mirror with a different shape reflected, I don't talk to my mirror very often personally ?

What they mean is more radical than we think. Sometimes I have to force myself to take other people seriously, and I still have the impression that they are somewhat real. That must be too funny, I need it ?

I know I'm laughing at myself too

When you think about it, it's really funny. We prefer to go back to sleep rather than experiencing what's real. In Ivankiss case, he wants to go back to the waking sleep rather than being awake in a dream ^^

How can this even a thing ? Don't you have to be registered to a specific place to vote ? With a specific list, and then when you already voted they don't let you vote anymore ?

It's ok

I ask because I want to know how is your experience right now, not because I don't believe you. I don't think anyone doubt something is happening.

What do you mean exactly by "I'm dreaming right now" ?

Not realistic. I doubt Trump have air spray in his bathroom.

Don't know if it was a very vivid dream or an astral projection, but I had a very interesting experience while having a nap. I could create a "spirit" and have sex with it. I couldn't see his form, but I could feel everything else. It was fun because I could create an entire being out of thin air just by sheer willpower (not because of the sex, even though that was cool ). The next second, I could stop believing in it, and she wasn't there anymore, and think again about her and she was there again. Very practical if you need a quick fuck while traveling, you can have sex in every public toilet in the world !

Repost because it's gold "So many beautiful birds" (If you understand German it's amazing)

I can't find the video of Leo in which he explains this. In a nutshell, the more the word depict an abstract concept, the more this word will be used differently by people.

Those past few days in a nutshell :

100% ego. If you like misery, go deeper into that.