Shin

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  1. Why ? Life is just about understanding how it works, how amazing it feels to live it is irrevelant. The only thing that matters is how much I understand reality, why the fuck would I talk about how amazing life is ? To be honest, the only thing that matters is how much I can spiritual bypass my emotions, that's the only thing I care about, and the reason this forum is perfect for me. You see, there is not even a forum about how to do shadow work and handle my emotions here, so I can simply ignore this aspect of life and just go for pure understanding, cause that's the only thing that matters, cause that's what Leo told me, cause that's what interests him (but I feign to ignore I could be interested in something else so I don't have to look at my shadows). My spiritual logic is infaillible, cause I understand reality more than you, cause I use cliche words more than you. Get on my level bro ! (Kidding you don't exist, so am I !)
  2. I'm sorry, but that part of the forum is not opened as of yet, Come back in a short while !
  3. What works for me, is to take care of my mind as if it was my own child. So I don't insult, blame, or hit it, and instead I am comprehensive, patient, and loving to it.
  4. First of, you're not a person. Second, he did tell you, you're already dead, cause death and life are the same.
  5. Wow dude you seem frustrated It's ok I've seen plenty of documentary about cults
  6. The only types they have is if you're confident and at their level of developement (Spiral Dynamics). Unless you're really ugly, which is like 1 chance out of 1000 (so a diformity/handicap), 99% of your attraction is based on the first sentence.
  7. Sorry if it has already been posted (not gotta check 80 pages sorry )
  8. Type Saudi Arabia laws on google. You're not prepared !
  9. I wonder if faking being friend with someone, and making that person spends lots of time and energy by giving me affection and money, while knowing I will stop talking to that person as soon as I get what I want, ethical ?
  10. Only if you have a scarcity mindset, and/or if the relationship ended not far ago (cause attachment can't really be avoided).
  11. Yep, that's attachment and lust, not love. If you love, you want the best for the person, even if it means you not being part of that person's life.
  12. Just leave him alone, if he really loved you he wouldn't try to manipulate you and would leave you alone. Be very wary of guys who have the same vibe as him, you need to totally change how you feel and think about relationships to not fall for the same kind of guys.
  13. I almost never understand what he says or know if he's being serious.
  14. Leo will most likely never open a section like that. This forum isn't about fooling around, it's only allowed in scarcity cause we're human, but it's not the purpose of this forum.
  15. You can talk about all those things without being cryptic or not making any sense.
  16. I don't know, I'm fighting for it
  17. The section would be used the same way as the others, with a focus on how to handle emotions, how to do shadow work, how to love yourself etc. It wouldn't be a lay back and free talking section of the forum like the journaling section. All those things like self-love, emotions, healing and shadow work are, of course already teached in other sections, but they are secondary to each of them, not the main focus, and therefore you can't really open a thread in them without feeling they are a bit out of place. In the general self help, you don't care much about your emotions there, you focus on habits, productivity, some other practical stuff and the stages on the spiral exemples. The meditation forum is about all the mystical things in life, with a focus on transcendance of the "self" and "higher" states of consciousness. Again you can talk about emotions, healing and shadow work, but it's not the focus of the forum, the focus is explaining "higher" states of consciousness. The dating relationship sexuality forum is about how to relate to other people and your closed ones, and how to have good sex. It is again possible to talk about emotions, healing and shadow work, but it's again not the main reason you want to come to this forum, you come to have practical advices on how to handle those relations specifically, not how to do meta healing, self love. All other forums are oviously not fit to support those topics.
  18. Yes, plenty of tips and exercices when the new section of the forum will open !
  19. There is already a lot of other things that that subforum is doing
  20. I don't see how understanding is not compatible with healing and emotions.
  21. Contemplate what you were before your birth, after your death, and between the waking state and the dream state. No assumptions at all, no monkey mind, for hours, consistently for days and weeks. Right now you're too much in your mind trying to figure it out, but you won't. You can't figure this out, this is not something you can figure out, because it's you. You can't figure out what you are, because it's prior to anything else, it's what incorporates everything else. No answers on this forum will ever satisfy you, ever, cause the answer you seek is not something you can acquire in your head. What you are is what makes possible to know anything, so by definition, nothing except a direct realization, a spontaneous revelation of your true nature will do it. This is very different than learning, understanding or figuring stuff out. Those things are experiences appearing inside you, they can't explain what you are. Imagine what it's like to have a vaginal orgasm, you can't ! That's a loose analogy, because there can be words describing experiences that are close (but still infinitely far) from the actual experience. God (what you truly already are), is one step infinitely higher in that regard, nothing can come close to explain what it is, what you already are right now, cause it's you ! You cannot be closer to you, because it's you ! So just sit and wonder what you are, you'll "know" when you'll "know", and by that I don't mean in a future when you'll be in the right position to do it, Right now, right now, right now ! You don't need anyone else to tell you what you are, Because everything else is you ! There was never a time where you were something else, Than you ! I am you ! Leo is you ! Your computer is you ! The ceiling is you ! Your pillow is you ! Your desk is you ! God is love ! God is you ! You are YOU !
  22. Imagine experiencing something you love for the first time again. Losing yourself on purpose to fall in love with yourself again is what you're doing.