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Life will throw you enough shit to handle for you to seek it on purpose ^^ If you really want to do something about that, you could imagine a scenario that you know that will make you uncomfortable/scared, and feel the emotion fully. It won't solve the probleme entirely, but it will be easier when it actually happens, if it happens. Doing that regularly will make you less scared about being scared, and you won't see pain and fear the same way anymore.

Critizing a woman never works, you either love her as she is, or change the girl. You're the influence in the relationship, she's supposed to pick up your habits and be genuinely interested on how you live and grow in your life. If she doesn't, then she probably won't for a very long time, if ever. So you have to choose to live with this girl, or not, it's the only real choice you have here.

What you're doing now, noticing it in you. Also everytime someone screw you (in a non physical way), suck it up and don't say anything, unless it's a steal or something like that. If someone start a debate with you on a forum, same thing. If you post something on a forum, you read again the post and if something is superflux and about you, erase it. Even if it's not superflux, see if you could write it in a manner that doesn't make you look good, in a neutral manner. Same thing in real life, if you are in a conversation and you want to feel good about yourself telling an anecdote, don't say it, unless it is relevant as fuck and can help in some way (be mindful that you are doing it because you could still deceive yourself). Everytime you feel an emotion, try to be conscious of why you feel it, most of the time it will be because you feel good or bad about you, try to understand why. I'm probably missing things here, but someone else will post it.

Hi guys I'm selling my gaming computer, and I would like to buy a cheap laptop for college. The laptop needs to have a very high autonomy (10+ hours) with fast recharge, and I just want to use Microsoft Office (onenote in particular) and watch youtube video in 720p on it. I'm quite a newb so that's why I'm asking, but I will still try to search for myself too of course

Oh boy, this is gonna be awesome !!!!!

It's necessary to comprehend the big aspects of your present personality, but aside that it is too limiting, because once you start to peel your ego (you) you start to see that you have no idea whatsoever where it will lead you. What will probably stay is your dominance in extraversion/introversion, but aside that you really shouldn't take anything into account, it will just limit your growth in your mind.

I would trade my jokes for enlightenment any day of the week.

lol no, when I say see it for yourself I mean you got to try now.

@Truth Addict It will be a belief until you start to see it for yourself yes

When you don't exist But you got a dinner at 8

Between the line, you must read

Yeah no I really want to use onenote, it's just gonna make studying way easier. Thanks anyway

Is she saying that we procrastinate because we know it can be done easily if we actually do the shit ? I'm asking because I'm too lazy to watch the video ... EDIT: Oh too much stress, damn my joke sucks now

Number 1 trap.

Whatever you didn't experienced in your life is just a thought. So if you didn't see, for example, Paris, then it doesn't exist for you. You can even go deeper, everything you don't experience RIGHT NOW, is a thought, therefore not real.

Don't listen to your friends, they are the universe way to test you if you really want it. Just keep digging.

But you're extremely funny and sociable right ? You also flirt with them, even if it's not physical ?

@Shanmugam «You're so funny» = You're so funny

@Nahm I'm so going to die. I'm so scared.

Little kid = you ?

I don't know the books that helps with that, maybe the six pillars of self esteem. If you stay conscious of how those thoughts are unnecessary, it should sort itself out, but it will take some time. You will still have them, but you will hear them more as a guidance than an blame.

I don't want to spam the forum with an another thread. (If you think it's innapropriate I will hide the message). Compassion is rising at an exponantial rate, and I'm starting to fear it goes way out of proportion. Sometimes when I read some of the story in here, I literally cry, because there is just so much sorrow in them. I never been able to feel such emotions, let alone to be compassionate, and I don't know if I could control myself if it continue like this, I could just lost it and get way overboard. I wouldn't be so concerned if I didn't plan to start learning a martial art this year, but since at some point I could literally kill someone in 5 seconds, I think I should take some notes

I recall a day when I got home from a job I hated. I was thinking stupid shit all the way home, 0 silence time. Not a single second I was inconscious.

What do you mean by moralizing ? Can you give us examples ?

You could learn not to be so attached to him, while still being in the relationship You don't have to flunk the relationship, especially if it is great and you both grow a lot from it, just explain the situation and that you want to take some space to handle the attachement issue.