Shin

Talk to her deeply about this and come back here.

Cold shower twice, even 3 times a day.

Stop fapping.

Also ...

How was she after that ? Did she reflect on what she has done ? Is she sorry because she could have cheated on you ?

Intj is a personality, they have hard time to be compassionate, so it should be easier for any other type.

Can you give more details plz, I'm having a hard time to understand the question personally.

By showing compassion. The more you show compassion to yourself, the more compassionate you will be to other. This is an intj who's talking, I can be EXTREMELY compassionate and caring (even physically) now, and it's one of our weakness, so it should be waaaaaapy easier for you (I hope) ? Yeah you also have to inquire why, but don't go too neurotic and hard on you about that, simply being conscious and accepting you can think something is already powerful in itself.

Where are the 72 virgins ? Are they gluten free ? I hope so

Go in a crowded park, meditate by focusing on sounds only, and just don't judge what you hear. Don't judge the judgment, or the judgment of the judment. Just be totally passive about what happens in your head. You can also do that in the metro or tramway or in a train. Obviously you can also do that in any crowded area, but you need the balls to close your eyes there it's just more effective, but you can do it without).

Ofc it's hard, everything that really matters is challenging. Just do it ???

Lol ! I actually might want to buy that hummm .... For educational purpose

I lost the self for 3 seconds. Gimme more time next time god. Thank you kindly

Hard to tell with just these infos. But it seems she doesn't really care, she just wanted to get high no matter what happens (as in cheating on you). If I were you I would already dumped her, I don't think you can trust people who absolutely wants to get high, regardless of the circumstances.

I'll save the link If I were you: https://medium.com/the-mission/supercharge-your-productivity-motivation-mood-and-happiness-right-now-by-hacking-your-feel-4e750b9d1c23

That's disgusting

Actualized.org right now:

It's because they appear highly confident in the first stage of the relationship, because they don't give a shit about anyone but themselves. When it's time to open up it's a ghost town, which is why they leave women as soon as they smell it's getting serious.

Feels so good heh ? Dem sweet energy in the morning, coupled with work out it's amazing.

Go manly dude, If I can do it you can do it. ???

Only masturbated once in 3 months, didn'nt watched porn for a year ???

Dem juicy backlash lol

From what I experienced, it's pretty rare to have crazy shit happening at all, and if it happens, it's not when I meditate. All the kundalini awakening (start of) happened when I was either trying to sleep, or after the meditation. The crazy oneness experience, when I was walking in the forest. The samadhis on days I wasn't even meditating. Maybe I'm just a noob though, that's like a good possibility You don't want to chase experiences anyway though, but clarity, lucidity and consciousness. Doesn't even really matter if you have a monkey mind if you are conscious and not get sucked by it, it still feels peaceful.

You got your answer on what to do next right here ...

Just took the first cold shower ever. Not that hard honestly (15°, can't go lower). Just wet your feet and your neck, then go all-in, head first. Feels way better than warm shower imo.