Shin

Because you know they think their suffering is real and important.

Huge red flag. You need some deep shadow work/introspections.

Shouldn't do the 3 hours of intense consciousness in a row, not only there is massive resistance, but doing sel-inquiry at night when it's usually the time when pI'm the less alert is not a good idea. Need to do self-inquiry in the morning, because at this moment I'm not that sad about you know what, way easier to concentrate.

Habit to quit this month: Junk Food/desserts/treats etc... Habit to create this month: 2 hours meditation/1 hour self-enquiry Did I read today ? Yes Did I meditated 2 hours ? Yes Did I self-enquire for 1 hour ? Yes Did I walked/been in nature 4 hours ? No, only 1 hour (snowy weather) What did I do instead ? Creating this journal/Working on a thread to share on AC What do I want in life ? Enlightenment Unconditional love Being a benevolent force Deep intimacy in a long term relationship Goal of the year: Having a deep awakening. Habits that I want to create this year: Krav Maga Kundalini Yoga Total Change of diet Workout and/or Swimming Impro and/or Communication skill

You need to be able to feel your body from the inside out. You need to be able to be detached from your thoughts and mind. Say internally: I'm not the body while sensing it fully, then continue to sense it for 3 seconds. Then say internally: I'm not the mind while witnessing this thought and your mind, then continue to witness the blank mind for 3 seconds. Then say internally: So what am I ? THEN DON'T DO ANYTHING ! Don't try to get it, don't sense or witness anything on particular ! Wait for 5 seconds, then start again ...

Hum yes dude. You can be a feminine guy and only wanting to get dominated in bed, and it doesn't mean you're gay either. Same thing in reverse for women.

I mean masculinity/femininity, obviously ?

I think it's normal but just in case: Is it normal after a long time after started NoFap to only have sexual thoughts about the girl you like ? Or am I turning into a woman ?

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No, let's beat the fuck out of him !!!

I don't believe you, Don't worry

Dude, I thought a new guy was starting NoFap. I was hyped and all ?

Just said that some people use it only with the intention to have sex, not that it is bad (even for this reason).

Fapping to porn, tinder or entering disfunctional relationships.

Ideally he should do NoFap and focus on him. But yeah, fucking prostitue instead of girls that wants a relationship is better. I don't think he could handle a mid or long term relationship, so this is probably way better.

Then be a lifecoach for people whot wants to be successful musicians !

Wish you much success and ...

I actually love to be critized. It's a good way to know if I'm bullshitting myself or not

When God gives you unconditional love

You can have experienced those things without being enlightened. Lots of people have temporary awakenings, or mystical experiences ...

There is a thread yes, don't remember the name though. It's in the self-developement forum

I think it can only work if you already experienced that you are not the body or the mind. Or have strong intuitions about it. Otherwise yes, it's just a random inquiry.

You projected a lot of things from three lines lol I just mean that every kind of relationship is possible, it depends on what you truly wants, your maturity, and finding people that wants the same and are as capable to handle it. I only talk about this because I don't want people to stay in relationships that aren't for them. I don't know if it's a high percentage or not of the population, but I do know there are people who genuinely wants this, and not just because they are lustful.

Yeah, go slower with your habits implentation, like one every two month if it's challenging, otherwise one if it's easy. Prioritize always the oldest habits too. You should be fine if you do that When you horny as fuck, but don't think about porn or to masturbate: Wish the same for all of you !!!

Also, what is probably the most important, is the capacity to be on the right side of this chart from both party: http://www.webster.edu/student-counseling/problems/codependent.html