Shin

No, let's beat the fuck out of him !!!

I don't believe you, Don't worry

Dude, I thought a new guy was starting NoFap. I was hyped and all ?

Just said that some people use it only with the intention to have sex, not that it is bad (even for this reason).

Fapping to porn, tinder or entering disfunctional relationships.

Ideally he should do NoFap and focus on him. But yeah, fucking prostitue instead of girls that wants a relationship is better. I don't think he could handle a mid or long term relationship, so this is probably way better.

Then be a lifecoach for people whot wants to be successful musicians !

Wish you much success and ...

I actually love to be critized. It's a good way to know if I'm bullshitting myself or not

When God gives you unconditional love

You can have experienced those things without being enlightened. Lots of people have temporary awakenings, or mystical experiences ...

There is a thread yes, don't remember the name though. It's in the self-developement forum

I think it can only work if you already experienced that you are not the body or the mind. Or have strong intuitions about it. Otherwise yes, it's just a random inquiry.

You projected a lot of things from three lines lol I just mean that every kind of relationship is possible, it depends on what you truly wants, your maturity, and finding people that wants the same and are as capable to handle it. I only talk about this because I don't want people to stay in relationships that aren't for them. I don't know if it's a high percentage or not of the population, but I do know there are people who genuinely wants this, and not just because they are lustful.

Yeah, go slower with your habits implentation, like one every two month if it's challenging, otherwise one if it's easy. Prioritize always the oldest habits too. You should be fine if you do that When you horny as fuck, but don't think about porn or to masturbate: Wish the same for all of you !!!

Also, what is probably the most important, is the capacity to be on the right side of this chart from both party: http://www.webster.edu/student-counseling/problems/codependent.html

The first post was about that yes. But now, it's more in the line of what you say. It's about any boundaries possible.

Fucking boxes lol Enjoy your new full time job bro

Now save the world

From what I know from you, you should do this: Getting a full time job and be self reliant in an appartment. Taking really good daily habits (exercice, meditation, healthy eating, reading ...) Then seeking your lifepurpose/passion and grounding yourself in it. THEN, if you still want it, in your spare time, attract and have sex with lots of girls. But honestly one girl is waaaaaaaay enough, but that might just be my opinion (and my sex drive), I just don't see sex as a casual thing, to me it's a waste of time if it comes from a place of need and HAS to happen.

Kind of weird intj though, I only learn something if I really have too, otherwise I prefer to relax/be and be goofy/have fun, rather than theorize, think scientifically or trying to grasp complex concept (even if it's still interesting to a point). Funny of how spirituality can change, or at least make your brain malleable.

The technique is extremely easy and simple, yet truly challenging. This is a technique I discovered empirically, and it's a technique that is most likely already well known by most people on the spiritual path. It is not something special by any means, I'm only sharing it here because I didn't see anyone talking about it, and I don't remember Leo having done a video about it. That being said, this is the technique: You basically think about something you are scared of, but not about the thing in itself, you IMAGINE the worst possible scenario involving this fear. Then, when the emotion of fear appears, you switch your attention entirely to the emotion itself. The fear may disappear after a while, so you'll have to create the scenario again in your mind, multiple times. You will tend to focus on the thought/imaginated scenario more than the emotion at first, especially if you have trouble to accept and let emotions flow in you. This is totally normal, and this is the reason why it's a bad idea to do this if you aren't conscious enough to not get lost in your thoughts. Because if you do get lost easily in your thougts, what will happen is that you will imagine the situation again and again, creating more and more fear. The thing is, if you can focus on the emotion rather than the thought/scenario in your mind, then you can actually face the fear head on. What will happen in the long term, is that the fear will drop, you won't fear it in your mind anymore, which will give you peace of mind if you hear someone talk about it, or if you hear something making you think about it. In reality, when the situation happens, you may still fear it, but the fear will be lessened and you will be able to handle the situation way better than if you didn't practice this technique beforehand. I recommand to do this once per week, for 30 minutes on sunday. On sunday because if you get a little depressed, it will wear off one or two days after, and you will be able to enjoy the rest of the week. I hope it will help some of you, don't hesitate to give feedbacks here, it would help me once I start to do it with friends Much Love