Shin

I have a female friend that leaves in Alsace (I live in an another part of France now) and she is in a really crappy relationship. She knows perfectly well that his boyfriend sucks, and that he is even dangerous for her (he has been physically abusing her in the past, and continue to abuse her emotionally) but she can't break his heart she says. She has a very loving heart and don't want to hurt anyone, but in this case it is utter stupidity. Ofc there isn't just that, she is in college and needs his money too, well that's an excuse cause she could live with her mom. Now the second excuse is that she has dogs and can't bring them to his parents place because they have a dog that doesn't like them. I told her that her dogs are not that important compared to living without this guy in her life, but she doesn't agree ofc. I don't know what to do, it's been 3 months and she broke up once with him, he got away, then come back ... You would think that a girl like that would be inconscious as fuck, but she isn't. Any advices ? I need help, I can't let her waste his life like that

Become conscious as fuck. Then you'll know just by looking in their eyes.

Please don't stop.

Study introversion and look for the benefits of meditation video by Leo.

AC was too much of a distraction in a period where I was already addicted to lots of stuff ? I am fine thank you ?

Talking from experience heh ! ??

It's like watching a soap opera from the inside of a comedian ?

I thought you were implying you can have a clear mind all the time ?

There is still monkey mind though. A clear mind all the time is something to strive towards, but even monks will tell you it's hard, even for them.

You gotta protect that sweet false self. So you can't be courageous, because it would imply looking at your own shit ! Which means self-reflection, which means realizing you lie to yourself all the time ! Or it imply helping someone you don't know, how could you do that if you fundamentally think you are separate from that person ? Why would you do that ? You stupid ?! ???

How ?

Amazing ! ??????

Just go to meditation session or sophrology, those kind of stuff. They can be found for free on websites that are specialized for meeting people (not dating). Meetup is one of them but there are specific one for each country that are more populated. If there is a French dude dudette here, it's called Onvasortir. You can always join a zen center or something like that too, but it will cost you a little bit of money. You can also create your own events on the websites I mentioned. And finally you can go to retreats, but you may find people that live far away from you there.

Does an ant queen is as important as one ant worker ? What happens if you kill her ? (Serious question)

Do you masturbate ? Do you meditate ? Do you work-out ?

???

My body feels so soft, feels like having baby skin, it's crazy. Does it do that for you too ?

I always use sarcasm when I say stupid things like that. I wish more people understand sarcasm ??

I wonder where they had that stupid idea. ???

But it's not scientific ... ???

Don't fight the truth !!!

I kind of intuit that already, but I could't resist to post a meme ? The only difference I see between a dream and "this", is that "this" feels longer and I strongly identify with a determined character. Outside of that I don't see a difference.

I can definitely remember dreams where it was exactly like that. Time was more something I was using to experience things than something inherently real. I could jump at any timeline I wanted but decided to stay "here" to experience this particular experience. And there was no division between anything, And it was beautiful,

There is different side of the truth that you can discover. The one that appears the most common is self-realization, which looks like a lucid dream (but ofc different), so you can be extremely sad or in physical pain, but it's not really a problem cause you don't identify as those emotions/body sensations. If you had a lucid dream where you constantly get killed, you kinda intuit how it could be (a little bit). Then you have enlightenment or god realization where you have a ridiculous amount of bliss and love because you realize everything that you experience is you. There is other stages prior to self realization, and there are other after god realization. It would be nice if Leo make an episode on the non dual map, cause it can be pretty hard to find on the internet. I found one someday, but I didn't save it ?