Shin

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  1. Would definitely buy that shit ???
  2. I know, but to an inconscious person, that looks like a technique ☺
  3. Only if you practice for real the techniques. But Leo explain all of them without any dogma, so you better watch his videos instead. Will save you a lot of time.
  4. The only way to become a true alpha is to accept your emotions and femininity. You can't be a man if you fear your emotions and don't allow yourself to act and do what you want because "It's not manly enough". You know who thinks like that ? A pussy.
  5. And a shaved head.
  6. That's it ! I'm moving to Norway ?
  7. I think about sex way less since I started to meditate daily yes. Just 30 minutes ago I got a nice blowjob and I refused to ejaculate and now I feel super pumped (and still not think about sex) No way I'll go back to waste energy like that, it's so stupid when you feel the difference ?
  8. It's hard to say, we would need more studies on this (even If I think they are legit people who really want it without being lustful). But one thing I noticed since I stopped porn/masturbation and I meditate and try to be as conscious as possible everyday: I rarely think about sex, not only I don't have time, but it just doesn't happen. The only moment it happens is when I'm alone in my appartment with my girlfriend and it leads to it after playing/cuddling together. Now, maybe I'm demisexual, but maybe not and it's just our modern way to live life that makes us want so much sex/partner. If you go deeper and deeper in intimacy/emotional connection, and remove the neurotic need of the ego to always want more, I can clearly see one sexual partner as more than enough.
  9. They want you to be emotional, but they don't want you to be a whimp. There is a clear difference.
  10. Imagine you have someone that trust you entirely, and that you know for sure he/she has the potential and the will to go through the path. Also imagine that this person has no conceptual framework for it, that his/her mind is totally blank to spirituality. How would you teach that person from that position ?
  11. That is why I said open relationship are totally fine. It's just that 95% of relationship are implicitly monogamous. But yeah sometimes I'm too arrogant/immature myself and try to impose my ideas on others, thank you to bring it up ?
  12. Maybe you're here to change that ?
  13. In my experience it's quite true, the only moments I was tempted to cheat or I saw other men cheat is when they are very immature and have no self control at all of their sexual impulses, no long term vision of a relationship, or even what a relationship is supposed to be in the first place. Men who understood that to some degree just don't cheat, or simply don't get into a commited monogamous relationship. You're right though, I totally worded this sentence with that purpose, like 100% ?
  14. It is in the sense that you can live without it. It isn't in the sense that for most people, it is precisely suffering that make them awaken.
  15. Their cells are 10 times bigger than my appartment. I think I'll kill some people soon enough... ???
  16. Green have too much drama in their head, better join the yellow fellowship ???
  17. Don't cheat, only weak men do that. Ask if she's ok to have threesome or if you can have sex with other girls , or make the relationship an open one. If you value having sex with as much girls as you want more than being in relationship with her, she's either not good gf material or you legitimately are in a phase in your life where you want to do this. Either way you should break up, or stay with her if it's the other way around. But don't cheat, only boys make women cry.
  18. There are relative and absolute truths. There is, relatively speaking, other people, and those people suffer unless they don't identify to their mind. The goal is to remove this unnecessary suffering, that's what every legit Spiritual teacher does.
  19. If you truly understand this, You will do it, I GUARANTEE IT ! ?
  20. My recurrent nightmare, Having an enlightenment experience on the toilet ... Please don't ???
  21. Not a trick in that sense, but open his capability to open his mind without bombarding it with concepts beforehand.
  22. That is way too extreme for a newbee, not only he won't know what to do, but he would ask why. The goal would be to trick him into having a non dual experience, then explaining the bare minimum of why self inquiry would benefit him.