Shin

You can't be confident if you have insecurities about attracting women. Find why and how to eradicate those insecurities, otherwise they will dominate the rest of your life. Don't focus on women so much now, you need at least as much internal work than dating/relationship experience if not more. I see a lot of men still having issues about dating and with relationships even though they had lots of them, so clearly the main problem isn't there.

It's could be very scary, just so you know.

You wouldn't want him either way. He didn't kill your mom and has no snake tatoo on his penis.

I don't quite understand but it could. I mean I'm by no mean awakened or such, I just share what feels like true in my experience, but as far as I'm concerned I'm open to any kind of experience as long as it is the truth (which I don't seem to have right now).

Yes but my heart belongs to a certain woman ?

Do you know mean I just have to have an intense desire/will in the present moment without thinking about anything but just realizing what I truly am ? That's what I think can really work, everything else feels like mental masturbation at this point (but you never know, that's why I prefer to look dumb).

Then you definitely need a life purpose. And definitely need to have a precise hobby in mind. Otherwise it''s just you being lazy to continue to live exactly like you do now without any real change. That's what the post you quote me on makes me think "I don't want anything to change, don't want to work on what I love, but still want to be fulfilled in my work" That's never gonna work, that's basically what everyone tries to do, and it fails epicly.

Expect to backslide a lot. Also, don't just look at what you are doing now, but what you AREN'T doing anymore. The number of bad habit you still have is more important than the number of healthy habit you practice/do.

So far it's something like an Infinite being that is experiencing itself through every possible ways, so much that 99.99999999999999% of them aren't even possible to imagine with a human mind, That is literally loving to death everything that it creates, so much that it is ready to die a billion times if necessary if it means not hurting itself, And that it is everything that I experience, meaning every person, animals, objects and nature elements, in every timeline/universe/dimension possible. Ok I need to get more creative !!! ?

If you knew the dumb shit I did 3 days ago ... ??? No seriously, the post count MEANS NOTHING ???

You're saying that no matter the will, awakening will only happen when god decide it is time ? Because if that's the case, I will need more faith please.

I'm more excited to fart than that. Like seriously ? No but seriously Leo:

So no we're going from a definite no to a "it's up to Leo to decide". Those digits are too sexy to let them go aren't they ? ???

Do you really think Emerald would waste 15 minutes of her time just to feel self-righteous ? Read her posts, 99% of them are fucking long and are all about helping someone else. It's just not her, but it's way more obvious if you study her history on this forum.

Are we like 3 to listen to music on this forum ? Or are you all walking zombies ? ?

Everyday I expect to awaken. Not happening you LIAR !!!!!!!!

I Don't really care that much anymore, but I Don't want people to judge the quality of a post because of a number attached to the op. It doesn't mean anything except that the op is either old on the board/post a lot or both. Either case it doesn't mean the posts of the op are more meaningful than others. Not only that but it doesn't mean the op knows what he's talking about, nor that it means he's more "Advanced" either, that's total bullshit

The fact that you cling to it that much is enough of a reason

Because it's the same thing as reputation points ---> People thinking you are more important/experienced because you have a higher "count" than them/other. Except in this case it's even worse, because you just need to post a lot. @Joseph Maynor I hope you're joking

Hey @Leo Gura, When will you go all the way and supress the post count too ?

What are the things you do enjoy ? What is THE thing you do enjoy the most to do ? I personnally enjoy to do a lot of things, but If I don't do this particularly thing for a relative long time, I will feel hollow no matter what I do. What is this thing for you ? You might not know what that is for now and that's ok. Even if you do know, I would still encourage you to get Leo's Course, because just knowing what it is isn't enough, And also to double check yourself on that.

Can't wait for her posts in 5 years : " How do I make guys understand I don't want a Relationship/sex ?" "How do I reject a guy without hurting him" "How do I make myself less attractive ?"

Why are you reacting like that ? And specifically when someone or yourself is being labelled as having a victim mentality ? Have you ever ponder this deeply ? Do you even want to, or do you find an excuse for not doing it seriously ?

It's the most important thing to discover for her. When she will clearly see this, then she will be able to make real progress. There could be better ways to say it for sure, but you can't beat around the bush if you truly want to help someone. At some point you got to tell them the truth, and when you have a victim mindset, the truth hurts SO MUCH that you prefer to call it bullshit.

The good news is that you can completely turn around your life. I've seen people going from a victim mentality with 0 success/happiness in almost all department of their life to people with such enthousiasm and joyfullness that it becomes ridiculously contagious.