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Watch this video once a week And watch your life crumbles ?

Masturbation/orgasm

You'd rather just self-inquire and question your experience to death. If you force a bit you can have a glimpse pretty easily.

Because if you can't limit yourself, you can't experience yourself through infinite variations of your infinite possibilities.

Those are good numbers though. You will quit MO soon enough no worry.

Already watched all the mindfuck movies available, so I had to create myself to go deeper !

When life forces you to let go of everything:

To me that is full recovery, when you don't even think about it anymore, and even when you do, you feel nothing down there about it. I can only get an erection If I make out with a girl now ? (Except when my female neighboor get a tinder date ?) I hope the same for you guys ?

After 2 years, I finally don't think about madturbation or porn at all when I'm lying in a bed !

Just copy past the link dude. No need for attachment.

I told you to do that because it worked for me. I would still do it at your place, because you were forced to do it at your job, this is a different situation. Also porn/masturbation is a huge factor for many men. If you don't then read about the subject, there are books on amazon that are waiting for you ?

Hi guys/girls I need some help, I can't find a quote that looks like «Divine love is when you want to get stronger for everyone else» I'm sure I've seen something similar from a spiritual guide somewhere. Please help !

Ok then I want you to take a 30 minute walk in a suburb area of your town, everyday for 1 month. In this walk you have to smile by looking in the eyes of everyone you see and say hello. Then come back here after.

Describe your problems in detail.

Well if you could stop being that fucking stubborn you could actually work on yourself and becoming your own best friend. You would never feel alone anymore.

Then what's the point in participating on a personal developement forum if you truly think you can't do anything to change yourself for the better ?

Explain why ?

@moon777light I doubt I have anything to say that hasn't been said, but if it can help you for just a few seconds to feel better, I was in the exact situation as you a few years ago. I know how hard it is, but you really don't have to worry, you will get through it if you're patient and dedicated. No way you'll stay stuck if you work on it, stay strong !

As long as you refuse to, yes. Nothing about you is set in stone, everything about your personality can change, But not until you stop playing the victim role in your life.

I was as "beta" as you, probably worse. There is nothing insurmontable to get rid of all those traits, you just need to start facing yourself.

For how long do you meditate and try to stay focus on the present moment during the day ? You're describing the experience of 99% of people on this planet, albeit maybe in a more extreme version (but essentially the same). Don't panick, you are conscious of it, that's already a HUGE step. It will take time but your mind will still itself.

They also say there is nothing that can fulfilling you because you're already 100% complete and talk about a deep sense of peace from which comes a permanent joy. So, I could be wrong, but isn't it all about happiness and fulfillement ? ?

Then why Jesus, Rumi and almost every spiritual teacher of our age talk about divine/unconditional love ? Are they just lying to bait us ? ?

Sorry Couldn't resist