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It's been 4 days dude. Let's just take it as a nice one night stand ?

I hope the mental masturbators in here understood this episode ? Otherwise you're so fucked ?

I will beat all of you little zen devils ???

Why not ?

I do have a desire, but it's not sex. The desire is everything but a fear of intimacy ??? Thank you, I will still be warry if I'm not lying to myself on that though, you never know ? @Charlotte I don't think you are in the right spot to say that hummm ?

The real question is: How do you become the best effective activist possible ?

F... you ! Not my fault if no one has humour on this forum, I have to laugh all alone !!!

Stop insulting Leo, And me btw ! We are ADORABLE with our bald and sexy head ! ???

@Charlotte Where are you ? @Charlotte Yes. Yes it is ?

Hummmmm Better do that with my granma I don't particularly like and never see. If I do that with my mum, I'll have weird moment when I go see her @Martin123 That's the whole point I'm not even doing it for me at this point, I don't need sex anymore

Hummm, I doubt it's that interesting if he waste his time critizing someone else. People who have really interesting and important things to say rarely waste their time doing that.

But am I not already enlightened ? ?

Is that really interesting ? Because I don't have 2 hours to waste these days ?

"To attain true inner freedom, you must be able to objectively watch your problems instead of being lost in them" "You have to break the habit of thinking that the solution to your problem is to rearrange things outside. The only permanent solution to your problems is to go inside and let go of the part of you that seems to have so many problems with reality" From the Untethered Soul by Michael A. Singer. If you constantly do this and focus and remain conscious of the present moment the rest of the time(doesn t mean you don t think, but that you are conscious/detached from thoughts if it happens), There is no way you won't see a huge difference.

Sounds like you seek an excuse not to do the work.

I'm not sure the grillfriend would agree with that.

I can lucid dreaming and remember this reality when in an another dream, and when I come back here, it feels like I just switched reality, the change is seamless. Please kill me already Leo almighty !!! ?

You think way too much, just take some 5-meo. If you knew how simple it is to practice real spirituality, none of those question would matter. You literally just need to be conscious of what's there in your experience, without any kind of conceptualizations and ideas about it, and practice that all the time. Of course you can't control your mind, so there will always be some of it, but what you can do is see it for what it is, concepts (=everything you think about), by being conscious of it = not getting lost in it = just seeing your thoughts and emotions as an another object of your perception. Spirituality is not complicated at all, you make it complicated because you need to lie to yourself for not seeing the truth. Which is extremely simple, so simple that you dismiss it right away, because it does not fit your ideals of it.

Already cheating I see. ??

I want to know what you guys and girls (but especially guys with experience) have to say about that I currently have a female buddy that has the potential to become a really good friend, but I don't want to waste any time if it's not (or almost) impossible. From what I personnally understood: There is always a risk that one of the person starts developping feelings for the other. Which leads to the fact that one of the party will always be used by the other person (consciously or not). You can't talk as openly as if you had a male male friendship, sex especially (or if you do it feels weird af). The ying yang attraction is severed, because you obviously can't flirt with a friend, if you want to stay it that way. Her boyfriend will be warry of you if you are more alpha than him/he will be jealous of you if you spend a lot of time with her (same thing in reverse). I don't know if all those are true, that's why I would want people with experience to give their advices

This is more about venting and expressing myself than anything else, but I still post this here because I think it can help to put some perspective for people on the same situation. So I had a bitter pill to swallow recently. It is that pretty much no one will genuinely care for you, whoever they are (except maybe your mother). Everyone you will ever encounter only sees you as a way to satisfy a desire they have, they can't just love you and accept you for who you are, there is always an underlying reason to that. When you get this, you will feel alone frequently, because you will know that only you can love yourself, no one else can, and never will. The irony of that, is that it can't happen (permanently) until you awaken, because fundamentally you think you are an autonomous entity living separately from everything else. That implies that you're denying yourself, and how could you love yourself if you refuse to accept what you are ? You can't. There is no one that will ever love you, or care for you, not selflessly, not if you don't meet their needs. You will feel lonely often, but this is totally normal, you're lying to yourself about what you are after all. This is a necessary step, to feel isolated from everything and everyone. Nothing and no one can connect with you deeply, because no amount of pleasure or social interaction will satisfy the void you're creating for yourself. Sometimes you will wish to forget all about this, life seemed easier and more satisfying when you were fully asleep. Even if this was true, it is irrelevant, You can't go back. You have to die now. You as a concept that thinks is moving this body, breathing this air, thinking those thoughts. You don't exist, you never did. I'm quite litteral, you don't fucking exist, did you ever find something that feels like you ? No, the only thing you ever found was perceptions. It's all very convincing, but at the end of the day, that's all you've got. Perceptions. You know what else is purely made of perceptions ? An illusion. That's what you are, a fucking mirage. Think about the last character you liked in one of your dream. That's what you are, neither real or unreal But certainly not what you think you are right now. You've put a suit, and totally forgot that you're wearing it. No wonder you feel alone, you've invited yourself to a party with millions other "you". But since those you aren't perceived as such, and that you only have perceptions You always assume, In the back of your mind, that you are alone, unfulfilled, restless. Everything that you do in your life is a way to distract yourself from this.

Just tell her you don't want to talk about relationships. If she stop talking to you, you have your answer.

Then do it ? But what you describe isn't just pick up, pick up isn t about keeping women or making them happy past the sex act.