Shin

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  1. Would be interesting to see the numbers of female ceos in Sweden. Concerning female spiritual teachers, you didn't made proper research. Not only they exist, but some of them are even quite popular ?
  2. Suffering is only there when you refuse reality as it is. When you think it should be different that what it already is. You create an alternative version of reality in your mind that isn't there, and you cling to it. The contrast of that is suffering.
  3. Only 5 wives ? In which retarded country do you live ? ??
  4. If you really mean it and it's not just a way to make your ego feels better, then yes.
  5. That's exactly what I'm saying. No need for complex guru sentences to explain it.
  6. Keep watching your thoughts, and never give up. Continue to watch them all the time and you will stop to take them so seriously.
  7. Can someone link the most hardcore dna activation/binaural beat they know ? In pm if it's really too dangerous for most people.
  8. Funny how I sometimes try to dismiss Aurum comments. Same thing here yes
  9. Some of them can be pretty scary. I don't remember the name, but it was almost horrifying, especially in the dark, eyes open
  10. Answer in the first few chapter of: The righteous mind from Jonathan Haidt.
  11. Should post this again on the meditation subforum.
  12. First we need to learn what is a belief. For most of us, a belief = religious dogmas, and that's it When in fact it's everything we think and experience while asleep
  13. Face all your emotions, especially fear and loneliness alone. Don't talk about it to anyone unless they ask.
  14. It might help:
  15. The less desires you'll have, combined with a total letting go of whatever "negative circumstances" you experience, Will bring everything you really need and really desire to you. Especially if you act selflessly (less desire), counter-intuitively, you'll be rewarded far more than if you seek selfishly what you think you want. Beware of the trap to act "selflessly" on purpose, that is not selflessness, there is no one trying to do anything when you do a selfless act, you just do domething you think is necessary, regardless of the outcome for you, whether it's "good" or "bad" for you. If you really let go, and if you really work on realizing there is no real desire to have on anything, paradoxically, your real desires will come effortlessly to you. When I say effortlessly, I don't mean you just do nothing and wait, I'm saying you just do what you're supposed to do on a daily basis (according to your intuition and goals), then at some point life will just, in a sense, "reward you" for merging with it. That happens because you stop seeking false desires, and because you let life unfolding without any inner resistance. So naturally, your real desires will appears, since you let go of what was and what you think should be. Everything that you really wants will come to you if you truly apply this, And the best part of it is that when you can actually do that, you do it mostly without any real input, It just happens, life just happens. Synchronicities are the way to know if you're on track. When things happen in a way that seems to good to be true, As if they were predestined. So what you need to do is: To learn how to let go: Whatever you think you lost or don't have yet, means it isn't supposed to happen now, let go and make peace with that. To realize that most of your desire are false: Not only they are falses, but they distract you of what life tries to create out of you now, you don't need anything to be happy, all of what you think you want is a projection of your psychee, linking achievements and situations to happiness. Happiness is your natural state of being. To act selflessly: This cannot be learned, it will happen when you start merging with the Truth by dissolving your sense of self. You can still fake it until you make it though, you will realize very quick that giving (not necessarily material things) will make you way happier than receiving. To dissolve your sense of self: This is actually the most important part, because if you actually do this you will understand intuitively very easily (at some point) all of the above point. It will be a no-brainer that you have to practice the above points all the time. Core practices: Daily meditation: Leo has several videos about that. Daily self-observation: It's meditation throughout all the day, you need to have the goal to remain conscious of your thought stream all the time, it's a never ending practice. If you really strive to liberate yourself, you can't just do 20 minutes of sitted meditation, you need to stay conscious ALL THE TIME ! "Advanced" practices: (Advanced as in you need to make the core ones a habit first) Daily self-inquiry Daily comtemplations Daily Kriya Yoga (Leo made a video of all of those) Temporary practices: Spiritual books/videos (Leo's book list, even though he still didn't put The Power Of Now in it lol) Psychedelics (Leo made a video about it) Retreats (Search Vipassana or Zen retreats on google)