Shin

Why ? Do you realize how much negativity comes from wanting to know everything that happens in the world ? Especially since what sells is drama ?

Being needy means you feel you need the relationship or sex to be happy, it has nothing to do with what you do, but how you feel.

They sense inconsciously your neediness when you ask for a date. When you stop texting her they inconsciously wonder if maybe you're not that needy after all. The cycle will continue like this until they sense you aren't needy when you talk to them face to face.

Pretty sure we're already "insane" by society standard. If I had to be honest and say what is my goal, what I do on a daily basis, and why I do it, I would either be seen as a crazy and dangerous person or a master of sarcasm. Can't wait to be truly crazy and being murdered !

Just take that red pill and become a responsable and true straight patriot ! For only 500$ the pill !

If you find out Please tell me

I only meant sexually calm down lol

Just stop lying to yourselves. They are a huge distraction like every other entertainment plus the opposite sex. It is all distractions.

Like you let go of any other emotions or compulsive thoughts.

True love has nothing to do with specifics. True love is seeing you in everything, there is no exclusivity. What you call love is attachment and romantic infatuation, both are just a weak preview of what divine love is.

I don't have any craving anymore, even when I'm depressed or sad. Even when a hot girl is naked in front of me and ask me to fuck her. It's as if I have a total mastery of my sexual desire. It's amazing.

Oh wait ... ... I don't control that either ???

So hard to accept ?

Shit, I'm right handed. Gotta cut my right arms right now sir !

Yes exactly It's always about putting a condition prior to something you want to do, and then a layer before that, and before that, and … Instead of going directly for it. When a practical thing is required, time is necessary, but when it comes to Truth or Happiness, it is all self-deception to think you need to achieve something to get there. Even when it is practical, the mind is still very tricky, using all sorts of schemes to make you think you're going towards your goal when in fact you're stalling all the time possible to make yourself fail. Using all the excuses possible as to why you can't even do it, and even if you think you can, finding all the (unecessary) practical steps to do it, and finally finding an excuse not to do it when you reach the critical point. So let's use the example of a guy who's really insecure about women, he finally starts to accept that he can actually become attractive. He read about how to do that, and even if his intuition tells him that he should do the inner work, he focus solely on the materialistic part of attraction. So instead of focusing on his self-esteem, his funnyness/internal peace /confidence and how to see women as equal/making friend with them, He only goes to the gym, learn tricks on how to manipulate them/how to be technically good in bed. At that point he has some success and feel proud, but then he also realize it's not fulfilling at all, and that he still sees women very negatively, as if nothing really changed. Then what is he do ? Nothing, He continue to do that the rest of his life, because it's supposed to work. Can't accept that working on himself for real will change anything, because that would actually solve the problem, that is not acceptable That's only if he has the balls to take responsabilities, otherwise he would have find 1000 excuses as to why he doesn't need it (spiritual bypassing), how it would never work, how he personally can't do it. AND that's only one area in his life, just one ... Now we can replace women with money, success, fame, career, friendships, physical beauty, advancing on spiral dynamics, or anything else actually, because the first reason why most people want to do any of that is to be happy in the first place. Not that doing all of those are pointless, but the reasons why we do them are more important. If you seek to be popular with women because you want to be happy, instead of being popular with women because it's a part of life you can't deny as a man, is very different. In the first case you'll chase that the rest of your life (since it can't work), in the second case you'll stop to do it when you achieve a satisfying efficiency at it (which is relative for everyone), and then focus on something else that you find interesting to do. @Caterpillar

The real trap is to say "I will do all this later when XYZ" There is no excuse not to have 1 hour a day to do 30 minutes of meditation and 30 minutes of self-inquiry except lazyness and self-deception.

Good luck guys ???

Stop asking someone else what you should think, and start thinking by yourself.

Still need to know ?

Nothing. No. ?? Thank you ?

No, just as when I don't think about it I'm still here ? 2 years ago.