Shin

Love is tough ?

It's the same thing. It will be different as long as you think there is a difference though. Which is why you can meditate for decades and still not be able to be conscious during your day.

Give examples, because I can't understand your abstract explanation (seriously).

Unconditional love. Otherwise some people will confuse this with "cultural" love (attachment).

A man who is more feminine than masculine yes. @mandyjw I said attractive, that is to relative to every man to a certain degree. Don't resist it though, that's how it is

No, it's because for a man to be attracted to a woman, the woman needs to be attractive physically. This is how it is, and if we could be attracted to any women just for their personality, believe me we would. Would be waaaaay easier to find a suitable partner.

How do you know he wasn't ?

Maybe he was at your place and know exactly how it is, and exactly how to get out of it ...

When you see a member on the forum that remind you of your old self You want to help him, but remember that the only way for you to grow at that time Was to suffer immensely That sucks

Do self-inquiry 24/24 then If you truly want to awaken you will awaken.

You're not doing what is important, you're working spituality, not being spiritual. It doesn't matter how much practices, retreats or psychedelics you do/take if you still neglect that you are the seer behind your thoughts. Find what you are essentially, then all those problems will fix themselves in time. Just read again The Power Of Now and listen to Eckart Tolle on Youtube.

That's the point, to realize there was actually no limitations in the first place. There won't be a you, but there will be You. ?

What if it was the only way to be free ? ?

"I don't know you enough to give you that information" *gives 10 gold* "My husband is the criminal you're looking for !"

I'm not even 30 and you guys ask me to die. Fuck you all ?

They only have an influence on you. Saying you are a victim to them means you have no power to change and take your own decision. This is only true if you believe it. It may relieve you to be responsible, but the cost of that is to stay sad and depressed for the rest of your life.

Facing conceptual death. One hundred percent not about survival, that's for sure.

Are you cutting off those activities because you aren't enjoying them anymore, or because you think they are "low-consciousness" ? Are you sure you don't enjoy them anymore, or are you not enjoying them because you judge them as "low-consciousness" ? In the same way, are you doing all those self-help things because you think you need to, because they are "high-consciousness" activities ? How did you lost your connection with your family and old friends ? What do you mean by that exactly ? Also, in the first few years of self-developement and spiritual work, you tend to feel less happy, but this is simply because you are adjusting yourself to an another stage of your life, which always incorporate a period of adujstment and letting go of certain old habits/people that you were attached to. You will always feel sad when you let go of something you were attached too, and you do that a lot in the first few years. At that point of your life, those activities were all you knew about, but also, there was nothing wrong with doing only those things back then, because you were a child/young and just lived life. Now that you are an adult, you have to find your place in the world, and this means you can't just only do those things anymore, it can't be fulfilling anymore, you have to grow. Does that means you should let go of everything that is so called "low consciousness" ? No it only means letting go of the ones you only took part on because of society and family/friends pressure. The activities you genuinely enjoy should stay, but yes, you have to limit them to focus (way) more on what really matters to you. What are you passionated about ?

He will do it naturally the more he integrate his feminine side. Alson the more conscious he becomes, the more compassionate he will become and that will also reflect in his way to speak, gaze, move etc...

Leo is an intp, and thus has an highly logical and rational aproach to both spirituality and self help. Of course he will attract way more man than woman here.

They are talking at a level that appears surface level, but really, if you read between the lines and apply what they say 100% you'll awaken on the long term.

You know that we love you That's all you need to know ?

Were you there ? No. Stop being a smart ass